I've been following this drama between Monica Foster and Lenny Dykstra (the exbaseball player) all morning. I'm just can't belive it.
http://lenny-dykstra.blogspot.com/20...ing-quiet.html


I've been following this drama between Monica Foster and Lenny Dykstra (the exbaseball player) all morning. I'm just can't belive it.
http://lenny-dykstra.blogspot.com/20...ing-quiet.html




that is so funny - why would you!





uhm..... before i read the article, I would like to say CHECKS BOUNCE.
now I will read it then put my next imput....





What in the world would make her accept a check? If he had MONEY she should have brought him to the ATM, and secondly she should have been paid the first 5 minutes of her arrival.
Im just trying to figure out what she was thinking...
Ans also she should bring him to court for that bounced check.


This is just sooooo sad. She's being clowned all over the net.
Someone did a youtube vid and said the same thing "checks bounce boo!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKZNKnp8VNU (kinda racist, she uses the "c" word)
You know I had to tell my mother about this. She's in the living room still talking about the situation. I've been getting schooled on how the game worked in the 80's all morning.![]()





"pussy is a cash only operation " - Thatsexblog
/end thread ...lol





I would have kept that a secret. Exposing him is really not gonna do much. I wold have saved a bit of pride.
secondly if i didn't fuck him i wouldn't be that distraught.....
Back in the dark ages - before Jerry Springer was on TV - he was he was on the Cincinnati city council. He was forced to resign after the police raided a (FS) massage parlor and found a check he wrote for services rendered.
Cash can be inconvenient, but it does not leave a trail.



Thats just a shame.. that their going after her like that.. but Shes straight STUPID for taking a check sex or no sex.. I mean come on.. no matter how many people she tells, she's going to come 2nd in this race all the time.. Hope she gets through it and all that follows
Monica posts on this board. Sometimes times are hard and you are willing to take a chance. She took that chance. She could have even had sex with him--so what! I wouldn't have accepted a check, but I still feel kind of bad for her. Chargebacks suck! I know that we informed cam girls make better choices to avoid them. Monica won't get her money back and this probably isn't making her feel better. Maybe, by doing this, she will get a bit of publicity and her phone will start ringing a bit more to make up for the loss.







why would her account be - $1,000 on a fraudulent check SHE didnt write?







lol...wtf?
Street smarts are also necessary in this business...





Ugh.....
Yeah I totally agree with this. After stumbling upon this thread I did a little digging and reading up on this story and part of me was feeling like TMZ or something should have picked up this story. The publicity would have made her more popular and she could have found a way to cash out for telling the story, at the very least.
I genuinely like Monica and think she is a hard worker and has some creative ideas. Taking a check for escort work was definitely not the wisest move but I'm sure she's taken that as a lesson learned. I'm sure this customer will continue preying on more women who will fall for his scheme, but I think it's cool that she's willing to put her pride to the side to at least try to help other people.
From what I've read and seen of her stuff, she really does care about people and the sex industry as a whole. People can be so cruel on the internet and she's gotten a bad rap for a lot of stuff from a lot of really mean people. She made a mistake but her heart is in the right place, for what it's worth. That's more than I can say about lots of people in this industry. So... #teammonica

it's sad that people will take Lenny's side on this because he is a white male athlete. for some people it's as if nothing else needs to be said. famous white male > black sex worker. it doesn't matter who honestly has more integrity to some people. the thing about his maid is also frightening. he orally raped her and he is pretending she's a liar and it seems like people are eating it up
anyway, my support is with monica on this one. yes, she should have known better than to take a check, but when it comes down to what's right and wrong, he should have paid her.





its not because she is a black sex worker...its because she is a sex worker period, that she is getting basically dismissed.



Totally TeamMonica here. She is getting so much shit for this. I really hope she comes out of this ok. I like her a lot. I hate this Lenny guy.
^5.
I read some of the archives of her blog and she said she would never escort. Maybe she just fell on hard times and decided what the hey.
She's been in the adult biz for a long time and seems like a nice enough woman - I'm surprised she fell for the okey doke.
Personally I'd be too embarrassed by my own mistake to go blabbing all about it on the 'net. Hopefully she can just let this all die down and move past this (and take cash only in the future!).





I didnt read all of the op's posted article or all the posts here as its late.
But, I wouldnt blame MF too much if this was the turn of events.
Meeting details made.
Cheque put in bank and cleared. (after its made impossible to bounce)
Meeting takes place.
Cheque turns out to be fraudulent. (Which is different than it bouncing)
Sad face.
Waiting for it to clear is the smarter option if desperate enough to take cheques (even though unfortunate things can still happen) and I do feel sorry for Monica. I had the opportunity of working with her in the dailypay service and she is such a nice lady.
As far as she may have been aware the cheque was cash because the bank had already approved it which is the next best thing to taking cash in the first place.



I would feel bad for her if she were honest about being a hooker. It pisses me off that she is claiming she was owed 1k for having drinks with the guy and that shes mearly a victim trying to make a living. since when is drinks for 1k, "making a living!" its a fucking luxury that most women will never have the pleasure to experience, probably because situations like that RARELY exist. and if it truly was just drinks which i HIGHLY doubt then why is she so pissy about getting ripped off? if i got ripped off 1k for sex id be pissed, but not if it was just drinks..
her dishonesty just makes my blood boil. if it was that easy to make 1k, ALL girls would be escorts.
Well whether she screwed him or not is really beside the point. It would be dumb of her to go trying to out him for this saying "yes I screwed him" because that's illegal. But whether or not she slept with him or just had drinks, they had an agreement that he would pay her a certain amount. The point is not whether or not she screwed him. The point is that he stole from her. And I assure you that it is a lot easier than you may think to get that amount of money out of guys. I've personally earned $800 from one customer OVER THE PHONE and through e-mails in two hours. It is totally plausible to me that someone would spend 1k to have drinks. You never know...



a lot of hookers have been upfront about screwing. Remember Ashlee Dupre?
imagine what would happen if her story becomes mainstream. how many ignorant girls are going to flock to escorting thinking all it is is getting paid 1k for dinner and drinks!
It's already happened. When the Spitzer/Dupre story broke, I ran across so many women who were suddenly wanted to become escorts for the big payoff. I guess they took the term escort literally. Here they were thinking they could be "arm candy" for $300 an hour and work 8 hours a day! That way they could retire at 25!If only if it were that easy.
Anyway back to Monica. I'm not a sports fan so I had to Google Dykstra's to see what all the fuss was about. There was plenty of information so I didn't have to dig very far. It turns out he filed bankruptcy in '09, sold his World Series ring and was living out of his car and office space. He stole money from several colleagues, friends, and family, including his own mother. Why would she accept a check from this guy? Even if he gave me CASH I would make sure it wasn't counterfeit. The guy is a fraud. She clearly didn't do her homework.
As far what she did or didn't do on her "date", I don't think it really matters. I'm sorry she go ripped off but if you've been in the adult business for any length of time you know that some men will find any way to get a freebie, whether it's in camming, strip clubs or escorting. It's up to us to protect ourselves.
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