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    Default Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    If you're an escort, you should know the term "bbbj". I was just wondering if this is something that's usually required or assumed. Or do most girls never do this? It seems most agencies and clients expect this from providers. Aren't you worried about diseases or even just an oral infection? Does anyone actually allow cim? It just seems that if you plan to perform a bbbj, you mine as well never wrap it up cause you could get diseases. But then I've been told its very rare unless they have open wounds that you will catch anything. Do you usually ask your clients if they prefer a bbbj or covered? Or do you just slip on a cover and go to town?

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    Quote Originally Posted by KushKandi View Post
    It just seems that if you plan to perform a bbbj, you mine as well never wrap it up cause you could get diseases.
    I'm sorry but this comment is flat out stupid. Most people don't use condoms for blow jobs in relationships but they still use them for intercourse.

    The CDC has ZERO documented cases of AIDS being transmitted through oral sex but MANY cases of AIDS being transmitted through vaginal and anal sex.

    You also can't get pregnant through your mouth.

    So, there's two reasons why one would still bother to wrap it up for sex if they already sucked the dick.

    Seriously, I don't do BBBJ but I'm tired of the stupid and ridiculous logic other girls try to use to make these girls feel like shit about themselves. It's a personal choice, do what you want but let's leave the nasty judgements to those outside of the industry.

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    Statistically as a sexworker your chances of being raped or beaten by a client are much much higher than getting an STD via oral sex.

    If I were an escort, I would think that if I am willing to kiss a man, I'd be willing to kiss his dick without protection.

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    When I used to escort I never did bbbj but the huge majority of girls in my area did and it was mostly 'expected' by guys. I just never even asked and went ahead with a cover. But, I did use a particular brand and method and I never had any complaints in fact, I was kinda known for that so it had a positive side. In the UK the current Government (National Health Service) Advice states that "oral sex... is one of the ways that STIs are most frequently passed on" and then lists the following diseases/infections:

    STIs that are commonly caught through oral sex are:

    chlamydia
    gonorrhoea
    genital herpes
    syphilis

    Infections that are less frequently passed on through oral sex include:

    HIV
    hepatitis A, hepatitis B, and hepatitis C
    genital warts
    pubic lice

    I have no idea about the chances of getting an infection through bbbj but for me it just wasn't worth the risk, particularly as I didn't feel I personally was losing business (at least which I wasn't replacing elsewhere) from not doing it. I also didn't let them do any mouth contact on me.

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I'm sorry but this comment is flat out stupid. Most people don't use condoms for blow jobs in relationships but they still use them for intercourse.

    The CDC has ZERO documented cases of AIDS being transmitted through oral sex but MANY cases of AIDS being transmitted through vaginal and anal sex.

    You also can't get pregnant through your mouth.

    So, there's two reasons why one would still bother to wrap it up for sex if they already sucked the dick.

    Seriously, I don't do BBBJ but I'm tired of the stupid and ridiculous logic other girls try to use to make these girls feel like shit about themselves. It's a personal choice, do what you want but let's leave the nasty judgements to those outside of the industry.

    I was asking an honest question and was not judging girls for performing bbbj. You must be really insecure and unhappy with yourself for even assuming that. I am on tour now and I perform bbbj and have never caught anything but I have gotten strep throat twice. My last client is a doctor and he scared me out of performing bbbj. And by the way, that comment you say is stupid was meant to be more of a joke and not taken in a way for you to bitch. I know you can't get AIDS but I'm questioning more about chlamydia and all that other stuff. I was just researching online and read someone had chlamydia in their throat. I wonder how they got that?? Just chill the f*ck out and don't even think I'm judging you. I was just asking a health related question and was hoping for some feedback. Thanks for making me feel like shit now.

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    I think that sounds pretty risky since I would imagine it's easy to spread herpes that way. And I've heard that one in five people have herpes...maybe some people just don't really care whether they catch it or not, but I know I would. Every client you have probably somewhat regularly sees escorts, and those escorts have sucked and fucked a lot of dudes, and on and on it goes. It's not a judgment thing, it's a health concern. Just because a lot of other escorts do it doesn't mean you have to...it's kinda like how I don't offer phone in my cam shows even though it's apparently the in thing to do nowadays. It just creeps me out too much.

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    Quote Originally Posted by KushKandi View Post
    I was asking an honest question and was not judging girls for performing bbbj. You must be really insecure and unhappy with yourself for even assuming that. I am on tour now and I perform bbbj and have never caught anything but I have gotten strep throat twice. My last client is a doctor and he scared me out of performing bbbj. And by the way, that comment you say is stupid was meant to be more of a joke and not taken in a way for you to bitch. I know you can't get AIDS but I'm questioning more about chlamydia and all that other stuff. I was just researching online and read someone had chlamydia in their throat. I wonder how they got that?? Just chill the f*ck out and don't even think I'm judging you. I was just asking a health related question and was hoping for some feedback. Thanks for making me feel like shit now.
    LOL, this is hilarious. You don't see the point of using a condom for sex if you perform BBBJ, BUT you perform BBBJ?

    So, you don't use condoms at all then. While I respect your decision, I urge you to start using condoms for vaginal intercourse for both your safety and piece of mind.

    If you do use condoms for vaginal intercourse while you do BBBJ, then you obviously see the point of doing so, so why ask the stupid question in the first place?

    Edited to add: I'm also curious as to why my comment would make you feel like shit. If I'M the insecure one, why do you now feel bad? Did you realize that your own little joke made you look dirty and nasty? I hope it did because now you know how it makes other girls feel who perform the same acts as you.

    Not very nice, is it?

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    I personally believe it is all about your comfort level. If you are not comfortable doing something then you shouldn't do it no matter how much extra he pays.

    BBBJ for me is very YMMV and dependent on how I feel about the client. I don't escort anymore but when I did I was picky about who got a bbbj and who didn't. And yes I do know that you cannot see disease/uncleanliness.

    If the client is nice, clean, in shape, respectful and provides me with a first/last name and proper address and phone number I am more inclined to offer this guy a bbbj.

    On the other hand if I meet a guy for an incall he does not give me his address/home phone and thus I am not too inclined to give him a bbbj. Or say he is obese, smelly, rude, mean.. well he ain't getting a bbbj either.



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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    lol because you were attacking me... You completely misunderstood what I was saying.

    Anyway, thanks for the people who were nice about it and actually gave me the health advice I was asking for. And I hear 1 out of a 5 people have herpes too but if that's true, I'm surprised I'm not one of them. I was just asking how likely it is that someone could catch anything. That is all. I should have just posted this on yahoo answers if I wanted to get verbally attacked. Ugh, I thought this site was all about sisterhood and understanding each other and all that fun, happy stuff. =)

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    Default Re: Escorts- Do you provide BBBJ??

    >And I hear 1 out of a 5 people have herpes too but if that's true, I'm surprised I'm not one of them.

    You may very well have it and haven't shown any symptoms. That particular virus can lie dormant for years before showing up. The good news is that if you don't have any sores or other symptoms, then you're (general you, not you specifically) not contagious. The bad news is, well, herpes. Yuck.

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