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    Default Would you date a known cam custy?

    Late last night I was just thinking about how I'd feel about dating a guy who I knew was an avid webcam custy. I mean there are millions of guys into this (or we wouldn't have jobs), so I stand to reason that I'm sure at some point in my life I've dated one. But I don't know how I'd feel going headfirst into a relationship with a cam custy. Like, part of me thinks some of the guys tend to be okay as customers. But so many of them do things like what's in the "annoying things on cam" thread, and so many of them have such strange requests and fantasies that they'd *never* tell their wives or girlfriends. The whole prospect freaks me out.

    As a dancer I've dated guys who frequent strip clubs and buy dances, and even now I don't care if my guy goes to the strip club at all, with or without me. But if one day I found out he was on Niteflirt purchasing phone sex or cam shows, or heavily into MFC or something, I would feel totally different.

    I think in my head it has a lot to do with the fact that, unlike a strip club, cam custys are after a real sexual experience.

    But this also makes me feel like a hypocrite. I'd hate for a guy to say he would never date me because I'm a camgirl/stripper, so how can I turn around and say I'd never willingly date a cam custy.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Would you date a known cam custy?

    Hmm, it would depend how "avid" a customer he was I think. As long as he was spending within his limits, being respectful and not degrading to the girls and still had tons of time to spend on me (cause I'm a spoiled little bitch), I don't think I'd care. It's not really that different than jacking off to porn or a visit to a SC if they aren't a RIL. If a guy crossed any of those lines though, that'd obviously be a dealbreaker.

    *I'm sure there are more things that would be dealbreakers, but I'm sick and exhausted and not thinking super clearly atm.
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    ^ Yeah I totally see your point. I'm a spoiled little bitch too and I want all my time. But like, if I walked in the house and my guy was watching porn I'd be like "whatever and go about my business". If I called my boyfriend and he said he was at the strip club with his boys, I'd be like "whatever" and go about my business. But if I walked in and my guy was jerking off while in private chat with another camgirl wanking off, I'd be livid.

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    Default Re: Would you date a known cam custy?

    yeah i understand what you're saying shelly-seems camming is much more of an intimate experience for these guys. Most of them seem to want some sort of online relationship which is where problems could begin.

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    I don't think I could date an avid cam custy-cause that means(to me at least ;p ) that they don't want to pursue 'real' life relationships(for whatever reasons) and maybe there's something wrong with them . lolzzzz

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    Default Re: Would you date a known cam custy?

    At this time I would have to say no, I wouldn't date a known cam custy, and I'd worry about the cam site guys dating me for the wrong reasons. I am NOT saying that every cam girl/cam custy relationship is bound to fail. I just know that some guys are really good at saying all the right things to get a girl to trust them, and it's easy for a horny guy to grab his dick while telling you he'd "like to get to know you better" and how he'll "treat you right," etc. When you're a sexy cam girl, you're gonna have guys asking about meeting up in person...there's no doubt about it. They get turned on watching you on cam, so meeting in person and being able to fuck you would be the ultimate experience for them. And let's say that you do decide to date the guy. There's the possibility that he's gonna try to "save you" from being a cam girl and expect you to quit your awesome cam job to A) get a "regular" job or B) let him work and have him just give you money...because now that he's got you, he doesn't want to have to share you with a bunch of other guys.

    I don't know about you guys, but I wouldn't wanna have to ask my man for money every time I wanna do something ("Hey baby, can I have some money so I can go ___?"). I like being able to earn my own money and do what I want with it.

    Now I'm sure that not all of the cam site guys would be like this. I'm not trying to be a pessimist or anything, and I hope my post doesn't make me sound that way. I'm just trying to be realistic. Don't get me wrong...I'm pretty sure all of us have some regulars who really do like us for our personalities (not just because we make their dicks hard) and would really wanna get to know us better. But I'm not on the cam sites intending to meet any of these guys in person. So right now I would say no, I don't think I would date a known cam custy. I don't believe I'll change my mind about that, but who knows what the future holds?
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    No. This makes me think of all of the guys on MGF who are spending like every single day then they get to the point that they want to leave the site 'cause they have spent so much money.... Say they've left the site but still spend more money and get new feedback from girls. It just creeps me out.

    I have no problem having these customers that spend all their fucking money on cam shows but to think that they have wives and girlfriends is just sad.

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    No. I think it's because so many seem to use cam sites on the sly. They hide it from those around them, not only just wives and gfs. It's that mentality of hiding stuff that I just would not like. Plus unless they have a lot of $$ it's an expensive hobby lol.
    Many times it is men who don't want to address the reality of their lives for one reason or another, and I don't like that either.

    I can't help it, often this job makes you see the worst, worst side of men.

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    I'd be pretty jealous if he was jerking to other girls because while we do this for money, he'd just be doing it for pleasure. Plus I'd wonder why he was doing that and spending good money when he could have me for free...I'd feel like I wasn't fulfilling his needs. I think most guys who go to sites who are in relationships either aren't that happy sexually and want a way of cheating without physical contact, or they want to play out fantasies that their girlfriends/wives might not necessarily be into.

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    Default Re: Would you date a known cam custy?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sunbeams View Post
    I'd be pretty jealous if he was jerking to other girls because while we do this for money, he'd just be doing it for pleasure.


    Yup, I feel the same way. I can truthfully say that I wouldn't be comfortable with my man visiting cam sites, because he has me, and it's not like I'm a prude or anything. I love sex and wearing the sexy lingerie/costumes that guys like to see, so I would be thinking "He has ME...why does he need to pay to chat with girls on cam?"
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