:-) porn is a-ok





:-) porn is a-ok
Last edited by tempest666; 01-26-2011 at 02:45 PM. Reason: we're good now. I was just mad
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest




looking up for ideas cause he can't think of any by himself..?
Men are a mystery to me sometimes. If he wants it, why not wake you up? You're hot!
It doesn't necessarily mean anything...
Men are breed of their own, sex is always on their minds.
That's all I have to say about that, LOL
It doesn't mean you're not enough. Guys are greedy-they need to watch girls of all kinds having sex
Im a woman and even if im in an amazing releationship w/ a hot ass guy..i still watch porn. It's just interesting and sometimes im not in the mood for SEX im in the mood to get off to porn alone. so i wouldnt think anything about it hun....just chock it up to human nature. =)
Hmm I had a similar issue with my ex. I'm okay with guys watching porn, but he would do it AFTER I offered sex and he turned it down, saying he "wasn't in the mood." I didn't get it, I am pretty hot and a fantastic lay.
Like if you're not around and he gets horny, then by all means go to town on Redtube. But if you're asleep in the other room, I'm sure there aren't many of us who would get pissed by being woken up for surprise sex.
Sometimes the urge strikes some people, now would you trip if he was pulling without porn? Or is just the porn thing. Guys like seeing it and it does not mean we are not happy at home, Yes we think about it a lot, someone has has to that is how we all make money.




Seriously, he's just being a guy. Is he still having sex with you? If so, then you seriously need to calm down. (If not, then I agree it's a problem) Just remember though, no matter how hot you are, controlling behavior is never sexy.
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."





I do bad things!
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





We're a-ok nowI think I shocked him with my extensive knowledge of bondage porn
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





Its not a reflection on you, don't take it that way... I love my GF. She satisfies me 100% and I would never cheat on her by having sex with another person. But, watching other women strip in the SC and enjoying some contact with other beautiful women is very enjoyable... I don't know why we're drawn to want to see other women naked,... maybe its our society with images of sexy women in provocative clothing plastered everywhere, or maybe its how the male brain is wired.
Your BF disrobes - in his mind - every hot woman he sees. If he has a healthy libido, he fantasizes about every one of your hot friends. Again, this has nothing to do with you or your looks, but with the fact that men are visual creatures that enjoy and respond to visual sexual stimulus, and "variety is the spice of life", at least as far as visual erotic material is concerned.
BTW - Women are not so innocent either, I've read statistics that women, way more often than men, fantasize about being with another lover while having sex with their SO.
Why does this really bother you? (1) Does it make you insecure that he is watching prettier younger women on the internet? (2) Does it bother you that he would rather watch porn than wake you up to fuck you? (3) Or is it the fact that he is doing something sexual by himself, and keeping it hidden from you - does this feel like a betrayal?
My suggestion is tell him its okay to watch porn, but that you'd like to watch it with him. Maybe you can even incorporate it into your sex life with roleplaying, etc (e.g., pretend you are his favorite porn star and act out his fantasy). Role-playing and acting out fantasies is highly recommended by most sex experts to keep sex fresh and exciting in long-term relationships. Otherwise, the sex lives of long-term couples may go stale. (I'm not saying this is the case here, though.)
Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.
- Oscar Wilde





Anyone like Marquis media?
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





When do you want him to look at it? Ever consider joining him?
Last edited by slowpoke; 01-27-2011 at 12:52 PM.
Hey I thought about this last night, maybe he is stamina training? Not say it in a bad, just poking fun at the situation. The more action You get the more You and the longer You can go. Just smile and know he aint going to runoff and marry a DVD![]()

Bondage porn is fun girl
I have had ex's look at porn and I guess I get it. That is why guys watch us dance right?
I also like girls, so I admit its fun to see other girls dance or have sex. Nothing wrong with porn, but sleeping with someone else is a totally different deal if you don't talk about it first



It's just a people thing not a guy thing. Some people like porn. I like porn. My bf gets offended when I watch porn without him, but he watches porn alone. I've explained to him that watching porn is not a reflection of anything missing in our relationship. You should understand that some people just like porn. Nothing is wrong with you. He just likes porn. For me it is visual stimulation.
Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.
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