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    Hi, so Ive never done any escort type work before, but ive got a client hes very clean and not unattractive willing to pay me what im looking for. Anyways..I asked him what he was looking for. He said he was looking for the pornstar experience.. I have no clue what the escort terminology is, WHATSOEVER AND I would LOVE if someone could explain to me in detail what that would be and give me pointers, possibly a quick runthrough of how the night would go down, suggestions etc? would love you guys for it! xx

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    PSE means you go the full ways in nearly all aspects of escorting. C*m in mouth, face and or on body with unprotected oral and bareback sex.

    Not recommended for newbies as it can be quite a daunting experience.

    If you watch male porn and see what the real pronstars get up to its basically that.



    (have to add, they nearly all say they are clean and not un-attractive but keep an openmind about this)

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    ^^^ What Princess Jenny said.

    Every move is exaggerated, every moan is extra loud and almost unrealistic. Just pretend you're in a big porn production. Don't forget to shave.....everything.

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    oh god, I told him that it would be ok! and I have seen him on webcam so I know what he looks lke already,,, Uhmmmmmm I am NOT OK with NO condom, Im not sure if thats what he meant by that.. he's fairly young and seems like he would be clean but Im starting to wonder what kind of diseases I could get if he came in my mouth, I dont think I am comfortable with that, ICK. Thank you ladies for your answers , appreciate it! Hmmm the rest I guess I can fake it till I make it, this will be a good time for me to bring out the tequila :S And yes I am big time a newb, it will be hard for me to act like a pornstar when Im gonna be doing that for the firs ttime. Ill try to bring out my stripper persona (whos name is tequila LOL) out and just roll with it.. is there anything in particular that customers love that you ladies have found out form experience that might get me repeats (while staying in my comfort zone, to a certain extent)

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    I would maybe suggest offering him a GFE instead.

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    Rule one.. Never agree to anything without knowing everything..

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    ^Ditto what she said!

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    Yeah, I shouldnt have. Porn star experience just didn;t sound so bad. I can act like a pornstar while he's wearing a rubber though

    and @ princessjenny thats what Iwould have liked,this is what he answered:
    After reading the first part of your response, I'm reading a more Girlfriend\dating type of experience. Sounds nice, but I'm really not into dating, this is kind of a more taboo fantasy fulfillment thing for me...

    Ugh so I asked him what he liked and he went into him liking a certain fetish or wtv.. I asked him to explain further..

    this is what i got. Not as bad as I expected though, I can deal with that . Plus he saw my wishlist and seen the hitachi vibrator and offered to buy it for me whee :



    "I suppose I will start with my fetish, I am into tease and denial, also referred to in some tantra circles as "play and delay". It basically involves bringing the partner to the "edge" as many times as possible without actually going over and stopping just before the point of no return. Another part of tease and denial can be "ruined orgasms" where you stop after the point of no return, allowing completion but denying the pleasure by not touching, you do this a few times, finally finishing with a full stimulation release. Experienced people can go for hours and it allows the pleasure to shift to the journey rather then the destination.

    This can be female dominated with male submissive(cock control), or male dominated with female submissive(clit control). I would like to experience male sub first and perhaps male dom sometime in the future. I'm a huge giver in the sack, and because of my hidden fetish I can usually be like the energizer bunny! Of course a little sexy shower or sensual rubdown to start things off is always erotic.

    Another more vanilla fetish I have, more of a mistress type thing, involves tease and denial but without the "mutual" contact. It is CFNM(Clothed female nude male) with guided masturbation and jerk off encouragement. The female can strip of course for added pleasure, but the humiliation is on the guy, he must masturbate as instructed, stop and go, and only cum with permission when and where the female decides. Sometimes the female will pleasure herself as well, and the male has to wait until the female is finished. Adult tubesites have this fetish listed as either CFNM, Jerkoff Encouragement, Guided Masturbation, Masturbation Instruction.

    If you feel more comfortable meeting first, when do you finish work(bar) usually? Maybe I could pick you up, grab a coffee or a blunt(lol) and drive you home, that's it...ice breaker. If not, okay, np.

    As for when and where, we can make it happen when it works for both, no rush! and it could happen where the best fit will be!

    we will have to work on the details little more I suppose...let's see how you respond to the above! I am always open to suggestions as to what you would be comfortable with... and let me know if you want that vib thingy off your wishlist, I just checked it out quick, it would rock for what I suggested and just be a great thing to have around for yourself!"


    There are so many terms omg I just wanna go in get him to bust quick get my paper and GTFO. *sigh*

    I guess I should start my research on porn sites he seems to want specific stuff..

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    I remember a time when sex seemed easy and uncomplicated. haha

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    I'm an actual Pornstar and I occasionally work with an agency that has me listed as a "Pornstar Experience". I never knew that I had so much responsibility offering that type of service. I thought that meant just my job title. I don't do greek, I don't CIM, I won't ever do bare back sex but I have done bare back BJ. I don't offer any of those services although I'm advertised as PSE, I've had no complaints. I've been doing this for a year now and I think I may just have found out what the term GFE stands for. I always thought a GFE was the kissing, cuddling and sweet nothings. But I've been told by 4 clients now that a GFE is BBBJ since that's something a typical girlfriend performs for her man. I wonder if that's what it is. I really think a GFE and PSE is different for everybody. Someone may want lots of kissing and soft touches while another hates to kiss but wants to cuddle and relax.

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    When I have asked for GFE it usually means FS with condom, intercourse, body rubbing, light kissing mouth closed, maybe embrace it a cuddle or huge afterwords If there is time! Last GFE I had we fell a sleep for 4 hours, thankfully she didn't charge me for that! Her diver was upset!

    I certainly don't expect BBBJ!!

    Becarefull with PSE sometimes it can refer to uncovered services, which do should not offer!

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    PSE does not include bareback sex! Misconception! Thats what guys say to girls to get them to do it...but its not on the menu as a standard!

    PSE is about the performance...the stuff a guy sees in porn, BBBJ to completion, CIM, CIF, Greek, raunchy dirty talk, basically being and wild out. But not with disregard to safety as far as BBFS.

    GFE is all about the relationship..an actual girfriend experience. BBBJ is about the only similarity...cant be GFE without that really. But its more tender, sensual, actual conversation... Some do the acronyms but dont actually provide the "experience" some guys just go for GFE cause they know it means BBBJ is on the menu, but most actually want to feel like they have a girlfriend for an hour.

    A PSE can really just do the physical...get him in, get him off, get him out.
    A GFE is more mental and emotional...unrushed, conversation, tender loving.

    Any provider who offers BBFS pretty much limits the hell out of herself, because no matter whats on the menu, a decent guy who cares about his own health woudlnt touch that with a 10' pole, moreless his 6" one... And if a guy doesnt care or wants/demands bareback, you dont want your happy parts near that to save your life, and you just may be by avoiding him.

    Just like in my personal life..if a guy even suggested going with out a condom, I was instantly turned off and there would be no sex...even if he didnt push it and would use a condom anyway, my thought is..if you asked me to do it, then youve asked others..and done it. I want someone who cares about themselves more than that up in my happy parts.

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    This is what happens when NON escorts give advice. Like Blkshapie said, PSE does NOT mean bareback sex! Again, PSE does NOT include barebacksex! Nor does it even mean unprotected oral. I know a lot of PSEs that use condoms for oral! It usually means greek or CIM!

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    True...actually, both with PSE and GFE does not mean BBBJ... an escort can definitely choose to do CBJ and rightfully list herself as PSE/GFE... but it is accepted as part of the experience.

    BBFS though, is a definite no go...hate to put it like this, but I reckon its true, only someone charging next to nothing, like the 80-150 girls on BP or a streetwalker ie does not place real value on herself, would be most likely to agree to BBFS.

    And I venture to guess that most guys who ask, arent asking because they want it, but to see if its something youd be willing to do, to know if they should avoid you or not. Like, I had a guy ask me if I do Greek, I was annoyed that he was flat out asking me something like that, and told him he needs to go back and review my website and how I represent myself, then ask himself that question in his head. He laughed it off and said he didnt mean to upset me...he didnt think I did but was just curious.

    Later, I came across some reviews of his...he seems to always ask questions about what a girl does, even if he doesnt want it...and puts it up in his review as FYI for guys who might want it...ahhh the hobbyists. And he did place up about a girl who offered BBFS, he went on with his date with her, but the replies from the guys were an overwhelming...thanks for the warning, shes now off my list.

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    Oh and just to add...about the GFE, light and deep french kissing is a big part of it too. Basically its the thought of..how would a girlfriend make love to the man shes in a relationship with?..thats the passion they are after.

    PSE on the other hand is...how would a woman fuck a guy on camera for entertainment? Thats the passion a guy seeking PSE is after.

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    It is not clearly defined and neither is GFE. My definition is that it includes bareback blowjobs, cum in mouth, cum in face, cum on body, greek, dirty talk, hard pounding in all positions. It does not include bareback sex but some people might have different definitions.

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    porn star experience in escorting does not invovle bare back sex. girls who do it are just plain disgusting

    cum in mouth , face and anal are invovled in it. you charge a bit more for it so if your hour rate is 300 then idealy PSE would be 350 or 400 dpeneding on your average rates in your city.

    bare back blow jobs is usually the expectation but even that depends on each city, for some bare back blow is expected with girlfriend experience I have had a few clients complain becuase I advertise as GFE that they are expecting it.
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    Tequila, what the guy seems to be asking for with you is a lot more like domination than sex. If I were you, I would see how I could give attention to his weird fetish of not being allowed to cum before agreeing to let him cum in your mouth. A lot of the BDSM guys are freaks that want to be controlled and denied, seems like that's his thing. Focus more on that and don't worry as much about the sex now cuz that doesn't seem to be his main desire.
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    What BunniHops said.

    Take charge. Control him.



    Of course, it will probably be a lot more work than just having sex, so get paid accordingly .... and you will be in a position to enforce that.

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    oh god, I told him that it would be ok! and I have seen him on webcam so I know what he looks lke already,,, Uhmmmmmm I am NOT OK with NO condom, Im not sure if thats what he meant by that.. he's fairly young and seems like he would be clean but Im starting to wonder what kind of diseases I could get if he came in my mouth, I dont think I am comfortable with that, ICK. Thank you ladies for your answers , appreciate it! Hmmm the rest I guess I can fake it till I make it, this will be a good time for me to bring out the tequila :S And yes I am big time a newb, it will be hard for me to act like a pornstar when Im gonna be doing that for the firs ttime. Ill try to bring out my stripper persona (whos name is tequila LOL) out and just roll with it.. is there anything in particular that customers love that you ladies have found out form experience that might get me repeats (while staying in my comfort zone, to a certain extent)
    Pse doesn't mean bbfs (bare back full service) however, it always depends on the clients idea of what Pse is. Some guys ask for Pse just for Greek (anal) others for a specialty session such as water sports ( peeing on him) there are all different strokes for different folks so they say. Lol however most generally Pse refers to Greek
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