I recently broke up with this semi famous rapper who owes me $600. I gave him the money (like a fool, I know, I KNOWWW) because he said he was going to "flip" it (meaning, buy drugs, sell them for a profit, and give the money back to me). I've asked him to repay me but talking to him is like talking to a narcissist wall. He's definitely a con artist and he's good at placing the blame and focus on anything but himself. He tells me that $600 is chump change, then when I say "You're right, it's change. So why is it such a hassle for you to give it back to me?" he'll reply something along the lines of "I don't have it right now" or "You made a decision to give me the money but you didn't stick around long enough for me to make a profit off of it" or "I was trying to "build" something with you". He's told me that he wanted the money because he's better at managing money than I am and that he has better uses for it then having it sit on my bedroom floor waiting to go to the bank (he told me that AFTER he had the money of course). He goes back and forth a lot and he contradicts himself all the time and he comes up with an excuse for everything. I've realized that I'll never see that money again, which is fine, but I feel disrespected and used and I want some 'justice'. I've tried being civil with him but there's no getting through to someone like him. Since he's semi famous, he has a following and I think making a video for Worldstarhiphop.com would out him as the con artist he is and make people see him differently. Also, on twitter he talks about what a great man he is and how rich he is, and in reality, his whole life is a lie. It really bothers me that he puts up that front and some people actually believe it and here I am knowing the real miserable sorry excuse for a human that he is. He should just be honest, either with me or with his fans. If he would just tell me "Hey, I needed that money at the time to pay rent and sorry, I lied about what I was going to use it for", that at least I could respect and I would leave him alone and just chalk the $600 up as a charity donation but for him to be such a dick and say things like "that's chump change", it just pisses me off. It doesn't make any sense. Am I wrong for wanting to expose him? If nothing else, he will be embarrassed and I can save the next poor girl some heart ache and money.
Give me some advice ladies, I know giving him the money was stupid and trust me I've learned my lesson. He talked a real good game and I thought he would follow through with getting the money back to me. In retrospect, I should have realized he was beneath me when I saw him at the club not spending any money. And the worst part is that I actually liked the idiot, we had a lot of fun together. But hell hath no fury like a woman scorned and damn't, I'm scorned. I want him to regret the day he met me.



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And you're a smart, savvy lady...... However, you have to accept that the money is long gone, and attempting to retrieve it from him is more effort than the cash worth. Don't get tangled in his hot mess.




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