In the thread about being a loner Nuclear Martini posted about telling her bf how hard it is for attractive girls to make friends because other girls are often worried about said friend taking the attention off of them. I thought of how many of us dancers are loners for that reason. I considered whether it is what we do or our appearance that makes this more true or not and I think appearance plays a role. I included a story in the other post about an incident that happened to me.
I often think people assume attractive people always get perks, but I honestly think I have had more negative experiences than positive ones because of this. I can not even recall how many arguments I have publicly had with strangers, mostly females, who decided they didn't like me simply based on my appearance and needed to voice their opinion. Does anyone else ever deal with issues like this?




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