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    Skull Customers "Falling in Love" with you...?

    OK. So I work in body rub with 7 other girls, all of whom are very experienced in this line of work.

    So I'm brand freaking new at all this, and I'm a total hit with the clients. Remember when I was bitching about not getting calls at first? (Bad photos that hid my body and face)

    Not anymore. Not only am I getting a disproportionate amount of calls, more than I know what to do with. I could work 24/7 if I wanted. And the clients are really awesome and seem to like me...maybe too much.

    I've had several clients tell me that they've fallen in love with me, that they want to take me away from this work and go steady with me, they say they want to marry me (they weren't being funny either, someone brought a Tiffany's catalog to thumb through with me...lol).

    It's kind of creepy when you have repeats that come back only for YOU and continually tell you that they daydream about you every free second they have during their days and tell you that they "seriously love you". It's one thing to worship the sensuality I have and compliment me, but this is a little too far.

    I'm getting bombarded with HUGE tips and gifts, and these are actually young attractive guys doing this half the time, but it seriously creeps me out.

    Yet these guys are VERY respectful of my stern boundaries, although I'm great at forging intellectual connections with them, which they surprisingly enjoy even more than the sexy part.

    Is this normal, something that just goes with the territory? Because I asked the other girls, and they were seriously weirded out. They said that nothing like this has EVER happened in their whole careers.

    And these people constantly send emails about silly little day-to-day things, and send presents, etc.

    Am I just attracting creepy stalker types or something, or are these girls lying to me by claiming that this isn't normal? Don't get me wrong, I'm glad the clients like me and I'm even gladder for the tips, but I don't want to have any obsessive type show up with an axe one day.
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    Default Re: Customers Saying "I Love You"...lolwut?

    I think so long as you are moderately up front with business being business, and loving what you do but not looking to get married, stop working, or get into a personal relationship with the client, then you shouldn't have a problem.

    Girls can get stalkers no matter what. I say ride the gravy train and perhaps take measures to start to protect yourself a little more like hiding your IP address, and having someone drop you off and pick you up from work if possible.

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    Default Re: Customers Saying "I Love You"...lolwut?

    Cmon...doesn't this happen to ANYONE else...?? Or am I really doing something off?

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    Default Re: Customers "Falling in Love" with you...?

    Quote Originally Posted by LibraSnake View Post
    Yet these guys are VERY respectful of my stern boundaries, although I'm great at forging intellectual connections with them, which they surprisingly enjoy even more than the sexy part.

    As long as they are respectful and understand, then dont worry. Watch your back when you go home and never drive directly home if you think someone is following you, circle around or so until you feel safe.

    I think you should just enjoy their company, if you arent leading them on into further things (which seems like you arent) then just accept the gifts and thank them. Either they end up being awesome clients or they will turn into crazy stalkers. Im sure you'll be able to tell based on their actions. Right as long as they are respecting your lines, then I dont see anything hurting in gifts!

    I would also keep quiet, and not tell the other co-workers.. They might get jealousy, start hating on you, talking bad to your clients etc. That is something you should keep quiet. You know, how jealousy girls get if a clients guys his fav a diamond or something... Same thing here really. Mainly.. As long as you tell them and let them know its business for company... then go with it.

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    Default Re: Customers "Falling in Love" with you...?

    Yeah, I'm VERY protective of my personal privacy, and I always take measures to avoid being followed home, traced, etc.

    I've been concerned about crazies from day 1, and likely for good reason.

    As for the chicks, I've told them that I'd try to sell them to my clients, and I have...but they never really seem interested in the other girls.

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