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    If you're having a girls' Night Out and your friend brings her man is it wrong to kick his ass out?
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    um, yes? it's GIRL'S night. I hate that crap.
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    Funny you post this. My roommate just came home pissed as hell because his girlfriend (who he's been with for the past week) was "kidnapped" by her best friend to go have some fun.

    No there is nothing wrong with it. People don't have to be around each other all the damn time! And you shouldn't have to hang with your girls man, if you wanted to hang out with him you would call him up. I can't stand people, they are so stupid.
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    ugh co dependent relationships piss me off. yall can handle a few hrs apart.

    yea, id say kick his ass out. or do things that are painfully girly-- like manicures and graphic discussions of periods.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Yep! ^

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    I had an ex do this to me! But I was under the impression it was couples out, not just the women... I got an "urgent phone call" and had to leave.

    Just keep in mind the guy might not know!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jester214 View Post
    I had an ex do this to me! But I was under the impression it was couples out, not just the women... I got an "urgent phone call" and had to leave.

    Just keep in mind the guy might not know!
    That would suck to be Shanghaied into your girlfriend's chick party. Lots of talk of bloating, who's the most fuckable guy, and speculum horror stories!! LOL!!

    Yeah, I'm thinking it's pretty obnoxious. I got stuck hanging with one of my friends and her new guy who was also a friend of mine. We were all cool until they started baby talking and cooing and making out. I gave them time alone and was called JEALOUS of their "connection". What kind of freak would I be to sit and watch them make out for a half hour?
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    My bf insisted on hanging out at a little ladies get together. I told him to invite over some guy friends, he said they were all busy, but really he thought my girls would stay for awhile then leave. We reminisced about stripping for hours because most of my friends have left it behind, whereas, I just jumped back in. The aftermath:"I mean all ya'll did was talk about the club, and girls you didn't like, and disgusting stuff that happened before Platinum was shut down. I mean I felt so out out place and lost. You didn't even try to include me." Sorry, dude you didn't have a "how you liked manager Ms.*** better before she got off drugs story" or a "$1K nite story", but didn't I tell you the girls were kicking it. It's their own damn fault because they are usually a drag. Men are content to have a gf around who is not an active participant in the convo at all and has no point of reference, but have a problem being seen and not heard.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by So Fine Divyne View Post
    It's their own damn fault because they are usually a drag. Men are content to have a gf around who is not an active participant in the convo at all and has no point of reference, but have a problem being seen and not heard.
    They're used to bending the world to their desires and their point of view. They can't imagine the gathering wouldn't become all about them and "making them feel welcome" AKA letting them dictate the focus of the night.
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    Whenever we have a girls night and someone brings a dude...he's sent packing lol. He can be a DD if need be. lmao





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    If you're having a girls night out, then I think its totally fine to kick the guy out.. What's good about a girls night out with a BF?

    Whenever, girls or I discussed girls night out, we mentioned to each "No guy friends, or Bfs" so everyone agreed and understood. I think girls and boys should always have their time out, but having a group of friends altogether is good too if all parties are mature.

    So if it's a girls night out, girls only! There are different topics to discuss and talk over, where guys wont feel comfortable, know, or cannot comment nor listen to!

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    Sounds like the problem in the original post isn't with the guy, but with him and the girl. It looks like she insisted he come, and couldn't understand that the rest of the party didn't want to just watch them make out. Maybe she wanted to show off their "connection," or was just too selfish. I don't think you could even just kick the guy out, because she would just be pissy the rest of the evening.

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