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    how do u guys do super long privates- as in 20 minutes or more? i would think the guys get bored. once im done stripping im kind of out of ideas :-/

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    talk and/or Move your cam to get different angles while doing the same thing(floor,table,hold the cam etccc) whip out the lotion,oil or another outfit to change into.

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    Default Re: how to get super long privates

    Make friends with clients.
    Thoughs are the best returning customers.
    Anyone can watch free porn
    Thats not what their after.
    They want connections with women.
    Americanmade18 on most sites.

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    Have customers that are interested in privates PM you ''before'' you go private! Have the member describe to you what kind of private they are interested in and negotiate with the member as to what it is YOU wish to accomplish in private and how it takes at least an x amount of time for you to establish an orgasm. This way you are not wasting members time when they immediately expect for you to get naked super soon. If you are taking too long to get undressed when the member is expecting a ''quickie'' then you will soon be on your way to receiving many bad ratings which in return will effect your camscore overtime. Be real. Be upfront. Be honest with your token/financial goals when accepting privates. Good Luck with everything dear!
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    Default Re: how to get super long privates

    Totally agree with buffy here..

    If you take an interest in them, they will take an interest in you.. Its up to you what to tell them. They are looking for that connection. Once you have that connection, then the longer privates will come...
    And if you don't want to have that connection, then you have to have some kind of show that will get them to stay longer.... Like the differant camera angles and such that pushit said.
    There is no magic key to get them to stay longer. Just figure out your strong points and exploit them.....

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    Personality....!

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    Most of my super long privates are with guys who are into fetish stuff, roleplaying, domination, etc. The "vanilla" privates are usually a lot shorter, but out of those, the ones that last the longest usually involve a lot of talking & getting to know each other.

    Talking dirty usually helps to extend a private... also changing positions frequently. Instead of laying on your back for 20 mins doing the same thing, instead try doggie for 5 mins, then on your side for 5 mins, then suck on your toy for 5 mins, etc. Then start moving around camera angles... zoom in close for a few minutes, then zoom out, etc. etc. Just try to keep things fresh.

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    yes most of my successful privates are vanilla! i am not comfortable talking dirty or role playing or making too much noise.

    i change positions like every 5 seconds. ididnt realize you can stay in one position for 5 whole minutes and keep the guy interested! i would think he would get bored


    the connection thing scares me a bit since i dont want people being led on and feeling betrayed when i dont meet up with them to fuck.

    the oil and lotion thing are good suggestions

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    They don't like it when you move too much. You have to let them zone out into jerkoffland. If you're cycling positions they barely have time to decide if they like something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smurfette View Post
    Most of my super long privates are with guys who are into fetish stuff, roleplaying, domination, etc.
    Me too, though I only do fetish stuff on cam anyway...

    I do still attract the vanilla guys as they just look at My pics lol they are in for only a short while to be honest... I'm just Domme and it's my natural personaility so with all the "tits bb?" crap they soon sense the tone lol

    Anyway, the fetish guys stay in for a good while, usually 20-30 mins though some at 10 mins and some a little over half an hour but average of 20-30 mins but last night was my best yet....just over an hour in private chat plus £95 in tips!!!!! I just sat there and wound him up lol The most he got was to worship my feet and legs...Don't know how I managed to drag it out so long lol

    Was quite pleased with myself

    Princess x

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    Prescott nailed it.

    There are pros and cons to developing that connection. The obvious advantage is super-long privates. Some of my privates have gone so long that I've needed bathroom breaks. The disadvantage is that while you can do it without directly leading them on, my sense is that what makes that connection strong is this fantasy that you might meet up with them. Some are fine with the fantasy, others start pushing for something more, which means that they'll probably move on once they get frustrated. Sometimes I almost prefer the guys who just want to jerk it and go because it's less of a mindfuck.

    For the basic 20-minute private, I think it's about prolonging the sexual tension. I strip pretty quickly (I'm shit at stripteases), but what seems to make them run long is going slowly with everything else. I speed it up, pull back, talk a bit, shift positions (but not too often).

    Also - some guys just aren't the long-private type. Some are about thirty seconds from getting off and just need from quick visual stimuli. If they're barking orders, they're probably not going to stick around very long, unless you surprise them. The ones who are into long privates usually give off signs. They'll ask questions. Amp up the sexual tension, talk, touch yourself, talk some more. Draw it out.

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    Girls... You are very helpful. I've just found some mistakes that I had been doing... Thank you :*

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    Quote Originally Posted by bun View Post
    They don't like it when you move too much. You have to let them zone out into jerkoffland. If you're cycling positions they barely have time to decide if they like something.
    Yea i was thinking this. Ask them if they like the position you're in or if they want you in a new one. Don't just flail all over the place LOL.

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    I pace myself off the guest. If he starts barking off stuff, I'll try to slow it down a little, but you can usually get a feel for the ones who are in a rush. They are bossy and impatient. I usually give them what they want, but not too fast, then get rid of them because they aren't going to change.

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