i cant be bothered to get a personality.



i cant be bothered to get a personality.





you cant be bothered to make money.




Its part of the job.
Rather it be . Bitchy, bubbly, ditsy, Dumb, Hanky, Spanky, or Just plain Raw and horny.
Find anything as long as its not.. "Board"
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Thats fine, and if you are making money doing whatever it is you do, then good on ya! But I'm the opposite- I can't be bothered to play a role. I am who I am. If you've seen any of my time on MFC, literally what you see is what you get. I'm not sexy to the average joe who wants to spend $50 in a private show, but I attract the guys who stick around longterm because I'm more than just a set of tits and ass to spank over once in awhile....I'm someone they can come and relax with and get away from lifes troubles. And honestly, vice versa. And it requires zero effort on my part because like I said, I'm just logging on and being myself, don't have to put on the fake slut act, don't have to bend over to a customers every request...if guys take me private, they get me, just having a good time and getting off. I don't do requests I'm not in the mood for, and guys respect that because they know that I'm not fake, and alot of guys are willing to show their appreciation to girls like me. Just like us girls get jaded, there are a slew of viewers who are just as jaded when it comes to camgirls treating them like a wallet. So I might not get back to back private shows but I get to sit around, hang out with people I'd honestly consider online friends, and have them spoil the living shits out of me. Yes sometimes its time consuming because I go out of my way to keep in contact with alot of them via email, twitter, etc and give each of them individual attention in my chatroom, but I'm happy to do it because these guys treat me good. I've had nites where I walk away with a grand or two, and all I've done is sit there and converse all nite. Guys appreciate a brain once in awhile and personality goes a long way...and at the end of the day I'd rather know that guys appreciate ME, because if I was just tits and ass to them, I'd easily be replaceable and thats NOT a good thing to be in this business, especially with fans who can make or break your nite.
Hmmm... see I really envy you ladies who have that special type of personality that enables you to sit on sites like MFC for hours on end and have guys fall in love with you that way. I just don't have it, at all. I don't find it entertaining, fun or relaxing in the least to sit around half naked chatting with a bunch of people I've never seen, heard and know nothing about, about my life, likes, and opinions. I have a boyfriend and friends to talk to about that stuff. I just don't see the point in pretending like I really want a bunch of screen names of people I probably won't see what they look like or even hear their voices, get to *know* me... I'm there for a fair exchange of adult entertainment for money. Not to make friends.
One of the things I absolutely love about skinvideo right now is something that most people hate... that the guys don't talk. I don't really *want* to talk. Talking in free chat to me is the equivalent of small talk in the strip club when all I really want is to secure a champagne room. It's a means to an end for me, that's it. I love skinvideo because I can be that stripper there. I move around sexily and do my thing. If they like what they see, they know how to speak up about it, ask questions or tip. We'll talk about what I offer in private, then cha-ching! That's where I pull out all the stops and get the guy who spent once, to do it over, and over, and over... And they return later or the next day or the next week for more! Once guys begin spending then I feel it's time to bust out some personality to make them spend more. But I can't handle the whole working for free thing... yet...
I'm definitely interested in cultivating a different kind of hustle though... you can never have too many angles. I'll be watching this thread.





Speaking of FREE shit, I decided to log into Yahoo! Messenger today, and I had 2 or 3 guys just now IMing me to try to get me to get on cam with them for free. *rolls eyes* The one dude was like "I'm sitting here stroking my big, long cock" and said that I could "help him cum." I said ok, and when I asked if he would like to pay for a cam show, he didn't IM me back after that...haha. Big surprise. The other guys I said this to ("Would you like to pay for a cam show?") also stopped IMing me after that...lmao. And I know I recognize one of those guys' screen names, as someone who has wasted my time once or twice before, looking for free shit.
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But if guys were throwing you $10, $20, $50 bills while you were making small talk, you'd think differently right? I mean sure, not everyone can do every angle of camming, I know I sure as hell can't and don't pull off the horny sexpot who's eager to pvt with every guy who has money (I turn down alot of pvts everyday because I only pvt when I'm really in the mood) but showing a bit of personality keeps guys coming back. I get guys who find me from three YEARS ago, and see me and say "omg, you're the Ashleigh from the camping video" , or "omg you're the girl who loves bacon, I've been looking for you everywhere!" (lol)...so if you CAN sit there and interact with the guys and show them that you're more than just t&a for them to wank to, they'll treat you like more than that and spend on you even when you're NOT naked, which trust me, is something every girl needs. I had surgery three weeks ago (internal cyst) and I haven't been able to do any kind of toy/playing/penetration, at ALL...basically have spent the last three weeks only being able to go topless, not able to perform, and my guys took care of me. I hit my goals every single week and its because my guys cared enough to know that my financial situation would be hit hard with my not being able to properly cam. I even had one of my boys help raise $1000 in one NITE (he chipped in over $500 himself) just so I had the peace of mind before going into surgery knowing my rent was covered for Feb. THAT in and of itself blows my mind...the more you give to these guys, the more you'll get.Not trying to sound preachy, but I see how much guys love girls being themselves and showcasing what they're about.
That is really, really cool and like I said I totally envy girls like you who have that special quality/personality like that. I've seen your blog and you put so much of yourself into your work. I've noticed that lots of the top MFC girls do that. I just haven't quite become comfortable with sharing that much of myself with total strangers. I would never tell my customers I was having surgery, for example (unless it was a boob job)... but by the same token it would never even occur to me to tell them that I really really LOVE string cheese, either... I just have two separate modes almost... when I'm being the real me, I'm one way... I try to be kind and fun and funny with my friends and shit. But when I'm my character, it's like I'm "on". And she's really just not that nice or sweet. She's sexy, somewhat dominant, and expects to be paid to be played with, which I really don't think goes over as well on sites like MFC. But it sure as hells racks up on Niteflirt and Skinvideo!
Good for you though! Maybe when I venture on over to MFC for real I'll consider playing nice. Haha...




I honestly think that this thread covers a certain amount of the "future of camming". I believe that both of these "modes" will always exist, but that those who cannot give the full experience will be taking a huge hit to their wallets as the more social form of camming expands.
My reason for saying this is that where this is all headed, and always has been...the holy grail of it all, is the virtual girl experience, the online fantasy girlfriend you can never get in the real world. I believe it has always been the end result and the outcome that "men" are looking for.
That being said, most escorts will tell you that while many many many men want a regular girl who really understands their desires, there will ALWAYS be Mr. Variety (sometimes in the same guy too) who wants to get a quick check out of different and new....But being honest here, the way it normally goes is that the streetwalker gets $20-$50, the the escort gets $100-$500, and the trained sexual surrogate BANKS usually $1000 per session and often no sex in sessions. It is the Free Chat of sex for money.
It is my belief that the idea of this being a sexual business is much akin to the male idea that rape is a crime of sex. This business has a sexual reality to it and is based on human heterosexual attractions, the sexuality is much more up to how you approach it. This is why some of you drop your jaw at women who can do this and NEVER get NAKED. This business is about something much different than just "getting men off in camsessions". I think the ideas about this are just about style and what one is willing to do or accept. But the future is going to be an interesting place no matter what.
B



yes^^^ my thoughts exactly B
i was just thinking that this morning..
lately i have been lurking all the top model rooms.. sometimes for extended periods of time.. checking out different girls.. their profiles, what they do, what they wear, ..and on different sites.. (mostly mfc and sv) it seems like camming is evolving and it makes sense to me that these guys want more for their buck. since the door has been opened- the guys expect it, and we have no choice but to step it up. but that's fine- i'll do what i can to make more money!- and besides, if it means less penetration and less skin on cam- that's even better!! AND if it means guys throwing money at me for being ME!! alright!!! where do i sign up???? i finally get it.. be real- get on cam- get known- people will fall in love with you, you just have to be logged on for the guys to find you!!! oh, and not just be a "tits" and "ass".. there are tons of that and the guys looking for just that are usually the ones who are freeloaders anyway. hell- i see girls not even doing their makeup- jumping on cam in a halflit room, smoking, some of them not even talking to the people in their room, but still racking up tokens!! be real- that's it.
someone else said this before:
"evolve, or be left behind"
it's so true
camming is changing.. in a lot of ways!

From running my cam business now for only 2 months I can tell that spending time in free chat does help. The girls who spend time with free chatters make more money. I guess some guys like to see what they are getting before they take a girl private. They want to see what the girls personality etc is like. I know its more work then just waiting for the privates but it can be worthwhile. You also build up a big fan base and just because someone doesn't take you private right away doesn't mean they wont come back in a day or 2 and take you private then. The more people that see you on cam or see your page the more chance you have of someone taking you private. If you have the time to talk for free then I would recommend it. Of course you will always get the jackasses asking to see stuff for free etc but out of all the idiots you will find paying customers![]()
Also 1 thing I have noticed is that is a girl gets a guy from free chat into private they are usually longer shows (more money) and more chance of them coming back for further shows in the future as the guy has had a chance to find out and get to know you a little![]()





I just want to say thanks to EVERYONE that contributed to this thread! Your opinions have been awesome and eye opening. I have been working both MFC and SV and your advice has taught me how to make increasing amounts of money every day!!! It showed me how to just relax and FINALLY just be my self centered awesome self and how much ppl love that about me, hahaha. Thank you Bambalina for our awesome chat, you are the bestest! THANKS EVERYONE!!!
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