would you use a strap-on on a guy if he wanted you too? anyone ever have this fantasy? just curious and if not how much would it take for you to actually do it? discusss
would you use a strap-on on a guy if he wanted you too? anyone ever have this fantasy? just curious and if not how much would it take for you to actually do it? discusss



I would go for it in the bedroom, if that's what he/I/she wanted.
Never in a strip club! eek!
When I escorted I did not offer it.
yes ur right def not in the strip club haha but i mean more like if your bf wanted you to then i guess
Nope I wouldn't, but then I'm a submissive and that is a very dominate thing to do.
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."




Done it, not interested in trying it again. Like Jaz, prefer not to be dominant one.


I've done it a couple of times. I think it is pretty interesting, definitely a different point of view.





J wanted this and I was totally up for it. He never took me to the sex store to shop for it though.
I personally wouldn't... I wouldn't be with a guy who did ask this, why? It's a submissive act, and during actions of intercourse, I prefer to be submissive. Ofc there is a time and place to switch roles around which I am fine with but... a strap on is something I would question him on.
The only time I was every allowed to get a toy near my ex, was when BJS were in place that he couldnt say no. Hahah. Even then he wasnt fully comfortable with a tiny tiny tiny toy.



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I dominate you. verb
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Hell no this is not a club thing but I've used strapons. I have a really good one.
But I won't use it on OP because he's obviously just here trolling for free wank material. Again.
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No. I wouldnt.





IS it really such a bad thing? J turned out to be such a terrible boyfriend ( f0r me ). Maybe a red flag?
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."




i think i would let a girl try it on mebut i hope this doesn't make me that weird i mean i am all about dominating a girl as well
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Umm, just don't know how I'd feel about this one. A guy asking you to lick that area, maybe including a little rimming is one thing. There are tons of nerves there plus the whole prostate orgasm thing is just mind blowing, and I won't say wanting to have your ass penetrated by a dildo makes you gay. However, it just gets confusing after that to me. I mean if my partner enjoyed it or was curious possibly, but I would hope they wouldn't be claiming to be 100% heterosexual either. I've met guys who are into this and claim they are completely straight, but something in the back of my mind always screamed *bi-curious* to me. IDK
Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.





I've got double standards...I would use a strap on on a girl if she wanted it, but never on my bf. Like many of you girls - I'm a sub, and using a strap on on my bf would put me firmly in the dom role (yay for shortening words so you can't misspell them! lol). When I'm with women, I'm definitely the dom anyway, so a strap on would be fine!
Funnily enough, my SO loves ass-play, and I've used toys on him before...just never one with a belt to it!
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I have no problem boning someone up the ass. I see no reason it changing anything about being a don or not... But I was in a fun little game called whos on top.
i didnt like wearing the tutu!! i was just trying it out!! haha
You did post a thread about what other feminine stripperwear you should get.....think that kinda shows that you at least somewhat liked wearing the tutu. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, I used to dom guys in the club all the time. It's just not who I am irl we all tried to answer your question honestly.
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."





Some people are discussing this in terms of domination/submission - I don't know - I like to play both roles, but as a sub, I've never wanted to dress up in stripperwear, nor have I ever wanted a strap-on inserted into my ass... My idea of submission involves being tied up while the girl is on top teasing/fucking/yelling at me and/or putting her pussy on my face and "forcing" me to eat her out. I don't consider strap-on sex or crossdressing as being part of domination/submission play. It would only be applicable if the guy is into real hard-core humiliation and pain and considers feminization as the ultimate form of humiliation, degradation and "punishment" -- and this guys is probably a misogonyst (i.e., because he has such a low opinion of women). But, the OP does not come across to me like this type of person.
A guy who wants to crossdress and be fucked in the ass with a strap on, is, in my opinion, gay (if he never has a craving for pussy) or bisexual (if he likes pussy, too) ... or, if you don't believe in labels, lets say that on the spectrum of masculine and feminine colors, he is very close to pink --- not that there is anything wrong with that.
To the OP - if you're gay or bi - be gay or bi - find yourself a guy to do you, we won't judge. Finding a willing guy will probably be easier than finding an interested girl. But, if you insist on a girl with a strap on (i.e., if you're not ready to admit to yourself that you're gay or bi), then a professional escort, or maybe a professional dominatrix, might be the best to scratch your itch.
Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.
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True professional doms don't offer any sort of sexual services. Of course, the guy paying may see it as sexual and he may even get off but it's going to be by his own hand...
I know a couple of escorts who will do the strap-on thing. Neither of them offers anal sex but they will happily ride your ass if you want to pay extra for it.
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