
Originally Posted by
Spinnerette
I don't think you should tell him until you guts get "serious". He isn't your dude and you're not his lady so at this point, his understanding of why you can't magically materialize or clear your schedule every time he comes calling isn't important. He just needs to know that you can't and accept that. You're a grown woman with personal priorities and that's all he needs to understand at this point. As for him coming around at weird times (2 AM???) um...chill time should be between the hours of noon and 10 PM. Back when I would date, that's prime time for having normal dates whether its ice cream and walking through the park or dinner and drinks. And it only happened a max of 4 times a week.
I'm a hard-ass though and my approach may be counterproductive in the eyes of some but unless I'm attached to someone, I don't see myself as owing them any explanations. But you like him so I can see where you'd want to be as nice as you can be and give him a bit more insight into why he can't be willy-nilly with your time. I still stand by not telling him just yet though. That could cause some undue duress.
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