Not sure this is a whole thread worth, but...
It was year-and-a-half into a five-year stint with my long-running favorite Miss J. I never asked her out, never even hinted at it. (I had another experience that would've kept me from doing something like that anyway. ) I just was enjoying the visits. I did see her outside a few times later, but nothing of a real get-together nature.
Anyway, during a back-rub she turns to me and said, "The other girls think that I should start seeing you outside. I said no." I thought briefly and deflected it with "It would complicate things..." and left it at that.
I guess the question I have is, if a guy is showing up all the time, have you girls tended to ward off any possible advances, by saying something like that?
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