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    Default How do you deal with it?

    The abuse
    I really got it bad tonight
    worse time ever
    and it hurts bad
    by someone who knows my real name

    I know im not " a fat oompaloompa"
    Or a "yellow tooth crack head"

    But really
    the face that someone would spend
    hours saying this to you
    just to hurt you
    is the worst thing of all.

    Please tell me how to coap.

    I can deal with the normal stuff
    but when it goes on hours and hours
    i feel like puking.
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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    The abuse
    I really got it bad tonight
    worse time ever
    and it hurts bad
    by someone who knows my real name

    I know im not " a fat oompaloompa"
    Or a "yellow tooth crack head"

    But really
    the face that someone would spend
    hours saying this to you
    just to hurt you
    is the worst thing of all.

    Please tell me how to coap.

    I can deal with the normal stuff
    but when it goes on hours and hours
    i feel like puking.
    oh no! im sorry this happened. did they do this on in one of your public chat rooms? on your facebook? what happened and why would someone be so mean!?
    if something like this happened to me i would just completely erase this person out of my life. whatever mode they are using to try to communicate with me, i would block it and not even read or listen to anything they say because the most powerful tool you can give someone like that is taking the time and energy to listen to them. whoever that person is doesnt deserve anymore of your time!

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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    where did this happen???

    this person knows you?

    i have had people do it to me before.

    i have been through verbal abuse before. i don't really wanna type a bunch of stuff about it on this forum, so if you wanna pm me you can.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    The abuse
    I really got it bad tonight
    worse time ever
    and it hurts bad
    by someone who knows my real name

    I know im not " a fat oompaloompa"
    Or a "yellow tooth crack head"



    I'm sorry that someone is being a douche to you, honey. It is such childish behavior.


    I'm not sure which cam site this happened on, but if I were you I'd take a print screen shot of it (in case you need it as evidence) and save it to the Paint program on my computer. Block/ban/ignore the loser. On MFC if you ban someone from your public chat, unfortunately they can still post on your profile wall and send you MFC mail...so you have to 'ban' AND 'ignore'. Also try sending an e-mail to support. Even though MFC has a habit of saying "We gave that person a warning," I would hope that enough complaints about this person would help.

    And if this person is threatening to tell your family/friends about your camming, that means they'll actually have to admit that THEY were checking out the cam site in the first place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    On MFC if you ban someone from your public chat, unfortunately they can still post on your profile wall and send you MFC mail...so you have to 'ban' AND 'ignore'.
    You can also disable wall posts completely. I did on mine because I don't even want to deal with assholes. I think we all get them from time to time.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    The abuse
    I really got it bad tonight
    worse time ever
    and it hurts bad
    by someone who knows my real name

    I know im not " a fat oompaloompa"
    Or a "yellow tooth crack head"

    But really
    the face that someone would spend
    hours saying this to you
    just to hurt you
    is the worst thing of all.

    Please tell me how to coap.

    I can deal with the normal stuff
    but when it goes on hours and hours
    i feel like puking.
    How are they contacting you? Is there no way to block them?

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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    Buffy,
    People who do stuff like that are generally losers and unhappy with their lives, trust me!
    Try this: be the bigger person, be strong, move on...
    Don't worry about these ppl they know they're pathetic and they wanna hurt others to feel worthy.
    hugs

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    Ignore it girl. Love yourself and you wont care what other people have to say. Really, I'd be flattered that someone spent so much time out of their day thinking about me. It's sickening how they're so obsessed with you, that's not normal behavior, even if someone hates your guts. Obviously there is something mentally wrong with that person, and they're the biggest fucking losers ever to sit in a webcam chat room and harass a woman. It's probably some jealous bitch from high school or some creeper who somehow found out your real name and is obsessed with you. Just ignore them, dont even respond to that bull shit.

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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    Thank you girls so much!
    It hurt a little
    and i was even scared to get back on cam.
    But i look at it this way
    They obviously want my attention
    rather it be good or bad,
    And bad publicity is still publicity lmao.

    They came back again today
    and i was just soo over it
    like really dude
    2 days in a role
    now i just feel sorry for you lol.

    Again thank you all for the support!
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    *hug* buffy. don't even give those kinds of loser douche fucks a second thought. ignore them, ban them, and get back to making money and talking to the millions of guys who adore you and think you''re fucking hot.
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    Default Re: How do you deal with it?

    sometimes it even gets to me and i am pretty thick skinned. im on a site heavy with guys that expect EVERYTHING for free and half dont speak fluant english. but i use that boot/ban button like an iron fist.

    sounds like you need to change sites from all the posts you have made lately. i really think you should try some new ones.

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