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    I've been so over this motherfucker. I don't care how big his cock is, how gorgeous he is, the fact is, he's toxic. WE were TOXIC. I'm happy. Or I was till I got these emails:

    to me
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    your fault for not answering...

    Now I need to drink, a fucking shitload of vodka, Enough to question suicide...


    Thanks for not picking up, bitch...











    to me
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    I tried calling you multiple times while I needed to talk...

    Worthless bitch....




    I'm so sick of his shit. I don't talk to him for obvious reasons
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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    Im sorry --- Why isnt he blocked? You need to block ALL contact with him. Dont reply his MSG. Dont answer his phone calls. Block block block, or change everything!

    If he is bringing you stress, emotional problems etc.. You need to do this for yourself. You guys dealt with your previous problems and decided to break up. Should you guys be friends? I doubt it based on his behaviour, it is not heathly.

    His behaviour is unstable, he probably wants you back or is not happy. Tough luck. You could lay him down easy and tell him " Im sorry you're feeling this way, but this is causing us problems. We shouldnt talk anymore." But based on his emails.. calling you a bitch and those names are not a way to get respect! He deserves nothing back from you. He wasnt even being civil with you! There is no need to keep him in your life, I wouldnt even bother wasting enegry or stress on this loser. You're happy, stay postive, and get the loser out of your life forever!

    As for his suicide problem (again?) His problem, not yours. You were with him, you arent anymore. You arent his mother, lover, babysitter, you have your own life to watch after not his. He knows this, and needs to learn to get help for himself or whine about it. He is looking for any pity reaction from you and will only become worse if you deal with him. GL

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    I had all of his primary emails set to auto delete he made a new account. I haven't had any contact with him in a long time. I have no idea why he's doing this all of a sudden.
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    Nope nope NOPE. I get tired of pulling parallels between everyones worthless exes and mine...but man wasn't mine just a clusterfuck of every asshole ever. He tried pulling the same shit on me a few times. Blamed his drinking (which he knew I hate) on some "argument" we'd had, called me one night threatening to OD on pills, etc. It's all a manipulative ploy for attention. He's getting his jollies off thinking you're going to come running after him all worried even though he straight up disrespected you in both messages (the icing on the cake for him). Fuck that. Delete those emails, block him again, and keep it moving. Whatever he does to himself, it's his own damn fault and you have nothing to do with it.

    As for why he's all of a sudden contacting you again? They do that. I cut of contact with my ex over a year ago and this idiot came IM'ing me out of the blue in some last ditch attempt to who even knows or cares. No dice. Cussed out and blocked indefinitely.

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    Here's a possible response:

    Dear whiney little sissy, first drink is on me.

    or perhaps...

    Don't let the bottle hit you on the way out.

    Maybe I'm just a dinosaur, but it seems to me like the newest crop of 20-something men have no balls or pride. Anyway, sorry to hear this. I also had an ex do this (many years ago) when I was breaking up with her. It is horrible.
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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    I had an ex that did pretty much the same thing. Completely stopped contacting him and when I made the mistake of believing him when he told me he'd changed then went and said something that really pissed me off (won't go into details) wrote him one last letter telling him exactly what I thought of him, all the reasons I hated him and that I wished he had of killed himself when he threatened to. Blocked him from EVERYTHING and told all my family to ignore him.

    As far as I'm aware he's still alive and making someone else's life miserable. I've never heard a case of an ex threatening this then going through with it. It's just emotional blackmail. Don't let it get to you but if you are worried maybe let someone close to him know.

    Hope he doesn't try to contact you again.

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    Suicidal people attempt suicide, they don't threaten. Tell him to go fuck himself. Actually don't tell him anything, just keep ignoring him.

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    What happen to the first try? Chicken out like you will this time. Fuck you and go find a rock to die under.

    Now if only they listen to the last part..

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    I'm not completely heartless I had a mutual friend who lives nearby look in on him. He's quite well for an alleged corpse. Intoxicated, but other than that healthy as a horse.
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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    If you're really bothered by what he's doing, or if you think he's serious about committing suicide, you can always contact law enforcement.

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    He's quite well for an alleged corpse. Intoxicated, but other than that healthy as a horse.
    Whew!

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    Quote Originally Posted by eagle2 View Post
    If you're really bothered by what he's doing, or if you think he's serious about committing suicide, you can always contact law enforcement.
    Exactly.

    I did this when my ex in California was threatening to kill himself. I was living in Chicago at the time too. After his local police made contact with him he was so embarrassed he never pulled that BS ever again.

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    Yep, have a friend look in on him and then cut off all contact. Refer him to a third party, a friend, a therapist, the police, and then get out of that situation. He is clearly toxic and trying to drag you down with him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I'm not completely heartless I had a mutual friend who lives nearby look in on him. He's quite well for an alleged corpse. Intoxicated, but other than that healthy as a horse.
    Lol. I was going to advise that you do just this. I basically had my ex's best friend on speed dial due to all the pathetic texts he'd send about how he was going to off himself. I would never respond, I just called her and told her to deal with it. Sorry but we broke up and that is so not my problem!
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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    1. Pretty sure HE is the worthless bitch.

    2. He's using this suicide thing to try to get attention. If he's telling people, he's not gonna do it.

    I'm sure you realize this by now, but blocking him's probably the best thing to do if you're sick of him. If he adds nothing positive to your life, might as well cut him off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Suicidal people attempt suicide, they don't threaten. Tell him to go fuck himself. Actually don't tell him anything, just keep ignoring him.
    yup. ^

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    Ask him to put you in his will if he has anything of value.
    I can do better than you in a two bit fancy house

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    hes only threatning suicide to control you. thats one of the things psyco abusive men do.

    laugh at him a kick him to the curb. totally bluffing

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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    My ex got his Mum to text me saying he was in hospital, throwing up blood, might have to be admitted to stay in as he was so cut up about us breaking up and why was i doing this to him when he loved me so much. Truth was, he was sat in his car over the road from my home freaking my family out by being sat there for four hours. I sent his Mum a text back to say i wasnt sure why her son was lying to her but that he wasnt in hospital, he was stalking my house, that he might as well go home as i wasnt there, i was on the other side of the country, and that if he was so cut up about us breaking up then the other girls he was sleeping with would probably make him feel better. She hadnt known about him cheating and lying and apologised to me.

    I ignored all his texts etc including the "im going to kill myself because i cant live without you" ones and he eventually gave up and is now still living and has left me alone. If he does do what he is saying he's gonna do then its definetly not your fault and has nothing to do with you, he is the master of his own destiny, you know that he was no good for you and made a choice to leave, now he has to accept that choice, dont be taken in by him being whiny, he is a grown man and needs to act as such.
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    Default Re: My ex fiance is threatening to commit suicide (again)

    Or perhaps you could tell him that he's right, he really has nothing to live for. Maybe offer to buy him his "last" bottle. Goad him a little by telling him that he is a useless pussy anyway and that the best thing that such a ridiculous loser could do is to stop burdening others.

    At that point, either some male pride finally kicks in or he does it. Either way, IMO, the result is better than the ridiculous whiney mess that he is now.

    Sorry to come off so hard, but sickly weak men like this just piss me off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nuclear Martini View Post
    Restraining Order.
    ^^^This.
    Sorry. But unless you're on speaking terms/good friends... you're not the person he should be calling for this. Fuck 'em.
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