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    Ok so there is this guy I really like, and I'm wondering how I can really turn him on to the point where he almost starts licking me lol you girls know what I mean, like how can I make him really hard without getting completely naked and without looking like I'm trying? I know he has a thing for heels, and I just read that thread posted on here about pheromones so I'm going to experiment with those as well. Does anyone have any other tips or secrets?? I really want to know how to tease him and drive him wild til he thinks I'm completely irresistible and wants to wife me LOL. Thanks

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    This is very easy! We're visual creatures, so you're on the right track about heels. Show lotsa skin (e.g. legs and cleavage are always nice). Otherwise, just smile and be approachable. And if he's attracted to you, then your "work" is already done...

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    Easy except for the part about not looking like you are trying.... this is like something from a sit-com but if you have a gay guy friend he could play the role or the guy your are trying for? no, too crazy.... anyway, ultimately don't you want him to realize you are trying?

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    short skirt, very flimsy panties, high heels -- bend over in front of him to pick up a handful of shiny pennies.

    He'll get the idea fast.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    2 words... Basic Instinct

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    ^ Yes!

    To the OP - Do you just want to get him lusting for you or you want him to fall in love with you (so he wants to "wife" you)?... need some clarification.

    Turning a guy on is easy, but making him fall in love with you is much more complex. To turn a guy on, all you need are high heels and a tight fitting mini dress or mini skirt. Acting a little slutty is okay if you just want to have sex with him, but may backfire if you want him to fall in love with you. To get him to fall in love with you - you need to have a lot of things in common.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot View Post
    Easy except for the part about not looking like you are trying.... this is like something from a sit-com but if you have a gay guy friend he could play the role or the guy your are trying for? no, too crazy.... anyway, ultimately don't you want him to realize you are trying?
    lol well he already knows that i like him but i don't want to come across as obsessive or desperate bc im really not, im an attractive girl and most girls wouldnt even consider him that hot so he already cant understand why i like him and hes already told me hes not used to getting attention like this

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    short skirt, very flimsy panties, high heels -- bend over in front of him to pick up a handful of shiny pennies.

    He'll get the idea fast.
    lol! well the problem is that i met him online so i dont quite have phsyical access to him yet...

    omg i don't understand whats come over me, im like into him more than ive ever been into anyone!

    and to the person who asked if i want him to lust after me or him to make me his wife, can the answer be both? lol

    i definitely want something longterm with him

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    Shouldn't you already be skilled in this considering your profession? Just turn on the charm like you do at work and do all the things that makes you money: strong eye contact, being positive and cheery, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    omg i don't understand whats come over me, im like into him more than ive ever been into anyone!

    and to the person who asked if i want him to lust after me or him to make me his wife, can the answer be both? lol
    Be careful! A lot of sexual predators on the internet.

    What makes you think this guy is looking for anything long-term?

    What did he say online that makes you feel so much attraction? How do you know he's not just using "pickup artist" material on you. Google "online seduction".
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    Have you tried a bundle of perfectly aligned, crisp $50s? This always works for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Be careful! A lot of sexual predators on the internet.

    What makes you think this guy is looking for anything long-term?

    What did he say online that makes you feel so much attraction? How do you know he's not just using "pickup artist" material on you. Google "online seduction".
    well, because he said hes looking for something long term and he wants to get married and have chiildren in the next few years and he's saving sex for marriage like me (we're both 20) and idk he's just sweet and he doesnt seem as shallow as most guys, but now im worried after reading an article about guys "on the down-low" that he might be gay and looking for a gf/wife to use as a "cover up" because he's never had a gf before and he NEVER mentions anything even slightly sexual, its always been me thats been the first to bring it up and we've never even had phone sex or cyber sex or anything! He tells me I'm sexy every now and then but he never ever says anything even slightly dirty and I asked him why wants and he said he wants to be respectful and I gently told him like 4 months ago that he could say xxx things and tell me what's on his mind and he said awesome i will do that but 4 months later and he still hasn't! what's his deal?? I've NEVER had a guy act like this, ever. And at first I thought it was really attractive that he never said anything sexual but now its annoying lol because girls get horny too and i'm very physically attracted to him so i wish we had more of that type of interaction!!!

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    ^ You only know this guy from online communications? You can't rely on anything said over the internet. Its far to easy to lie and fabricate a fake persona. At least in real life, body language, voice, gestures, etc. can provide hints that someone is lying.

    Send him a sexy pic - not saying you have to be nude - just very provocative and playful. If that doesn't excite him any - then you should be worried.
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    I have! I havent ever sent him any nudes, but I
    ve sent him some REALLY hot pictures that have ALWAYS worked lol. He said they were really sexy but he hasn
    t done anything or said anything sexual since then (and that was like 3 months ago)! I'm just really frustrated lol, I never thought I would ever have a situation where the guy wasn't secxual enough, but girls have needs too!! lol. And I really wish we at least had phone sex or sent each other dirty texts or something... This lack of sexual attention is not only leaving me sexually frustrated but also insecure, like maybe he's not attracted to me enough? He initiates a lot of our conversations, but they're always just about normal stuff. So how do I get him to open up about his fantasies, get horny, etc. with out seeming to forward or coming across as a nymph? lol. I already have apprehensions as far as telling him my naughty thoughts and initiating that type of talk because honestly, I'm not white but he is and I'm afraid he will think I'm the stereotypical hypersexual minority, thats portrayed in society, or ghetto. I'm really not, but as I stated above, women have desires too and I just want to connect with someone I genuinely have respect for. It's not JUST about the sexual aspect, I just really want to connect with him and feel close to him on a deeper level. I know it's hard to explain if you haven't ever dated online but I really feel like I know him, I've even chatted with his brothers and sisters and his mom!

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    Read Why Men Love Bitches, and if he sounds too good to be true, he probably is.
    it could just be a ploy to get sexed up pictures from you, his aloofness towards sex frustrates you and makes you want to arouse him, the best way to do that over the internet is pics/cam. plus, hes saving himself more marriage? I think only 5% of the american population actually saves themselves, and imo the vast majority of that 5% are women. (source) i wouldnt get my hopes up

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    I am a pretty aggressive guy when it comes to affection. I don't understand why there are so many woman on here that want affection & can't get it from their partner.

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    how to drive a guy crazy and seduce him?

    don't give him much attention and be a bitch.

    90% success rate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    I have! I havent ever sent him any nudes, but I ve sent him some REALLY hot pictures that have ALWAYS worked lol. He said they were really sexy but he hasn
    t done anything or said anything sexual since then (and that was like 3 months ago)! I'm just really frustrated lol, I never thought I would ever have a situation where the guy wasn't secxual enough, but girls have needs too!! lol. And I really wish we at least had phone sex or sent each other dirty texts or something... This lack of sexual attention is not only leaving me sexually frustrated but also insecure, like maybe he's not attracted to me enough? He initiates a lot of our conversations, but they're always just about normal stuff. So how do I get him to open up about his fantasies, get horny, etc. with out seeming to forward or coming across as a nymph? lol. I already have apprehensions as far as telling him my naughty thoughts and initiating that type of talk because honestly, I'm not white but he is and I'm afraid he will think I'm the stereotypical hypersexual minority, thats portrayed in society, or ghetto. I'm really not, but as I stated above, women have desires too and I just want to connect with someone I genuinely have respect for. It's not JUST about the sexual aspect, I just really want to connect with him and feel close to him on a deeper level. I know it's hard to explain if you haven't ever dated online but I really feel like I know him, I've even chatted with his brothers and sisters and his mom!
    You haven't met him live? Do you skype with him? You need to see how he responds to you - eye movement, body language, facial expressions, etc. If you cannot meet in person, at least skype with him.

    Go to the bookstore and pick up copies of "Superflirt" and "Superdate" by Tracey Cox. These books discuss what cues people give off when they are attracted to you.

    Maybe he is a dog trying to come off as a "gentleman", or maybe he is Amish, or maybe, as you said, he is only looking for a cover.

    It really seems strange that you would be so attracted to someone you've only chatted with online. What if he turns out to be hideous?

    I also agree with dawnfire90 - don't get your hopes up, this guy doesn't sound real.

    Oh,... and if you need a boost of security and self-esteem, post your pics here... (or post pics in the thread: Post Pictures of YOU Volume 3 -- in Picture Posts).
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    thank you guys so much for the advice. i want to go into detail but im afraid to on here since its a public thread lol, but if any of you guys or girls would pm me i can give you my messenger or something bc i really need advice on this and i would love to hear opinions from girls and guys to have a rounded perspective on the whole situation and what i should do.
    maybe part of my attraction is that he is kind of mysterious/playing hard to get sort of kind of, and its something entirely new to me. I am just so used to getting an overwhelming amount of very strong attraction signals from men, as are most attractive girls, with little to no effort. So it's thrilling, confusing, exhilirating, and really frustrating at the same time!! lol

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