I just started working so I don't expect to be amazing at closing private dances, but it seems like every day, I end up losing a bunch of dances to other girls. I ask a guy if he wants a private dance and he says "in a little bit." I say "ok, just let me know" and if he doesn't want it in the next few songs, I say "Just let me know when you want that dance" and move on to someone else for a little while. 15 minutes later, another girl that went up to the previous customer right after I left is suddenly the one getting the dance! I understand that I'm not going to be every guy's type, but if they don't want a dance from me why not just say "no thanks"? I feel like I'm losing the dances because they have to warm up to the idea of spending that kind of money, but when that moment comes, I'm no longer the one sitting with them because they said "Later" and don't know how to say "I'm getting a dance from another girl" when someone else sits with them. I don't want to waste an hour of my time sitting with one guy, but this is really frustrating me!



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