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    I havent even started MFC yet but Im already getting myself psyched out over what to do in a private session. Since Im going to be non-nude, not sure what to do? Foot fetish, bra and panties? I picked MFC to start with because I can totally handle chatting occasionally (with an emoticon lol), acting oblivious and tossing my hair around, like Ive seen the other girls do....but when it comes to groups and pvts....wtf goes on? Mabey Ive just had too much coffee already and Im over thinking this...

    Experienced cam woman....help a girl out pretty please

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    Not sure if this will help or not or but maybe just start the session just chatting and trying to drag it out for as long as you can....

    Instead of jumping straight in there wait until he asks you to do things...

    If your non nude yes you could do fetish stuff or if the guy in your chat isn't that type of member you could to a sexy tease..tease with your eyes and smile wiggle your boobs in your tight top, flash a bit of leg or upskirt...

    To move on from that do a little sexy striptease with close ups...

    I know you will prob be doing abit of this in free chat anyway but always make them pay for the goodies even if it is a flash of your panties!

    Stick at what you're comfortable with...

    I hope that helps, just drag out the session, have fun, be sexy!

    Princess x

    Sorry if it doesn't help x

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    It did help! Dragging it out is a great idea

    I think my first few sessions I will have a few vodka shots to get in the mood and probably put some music on too. Lady Gaga, Britney, Deftones....I think that will do the trick.

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    Im watching XNicoleXO right now and they are throwing tokens at her like mad. Shes super cute and gets really excited when they do. She puts her hand over her mouth and looks all surprised and grateful. I have to admit...its pretty adorable.

    Granted, she did get naked for 3000 tokens but its giving me hope that I can eventually be confident enough to take it all off one day. I have a great body and a pretty face, but Im just naturally shy I guess. I'll get there

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    Default Re: Scared of groups and privates

    Have you tried non-nude camming sites?

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    I saw a link to one of them in another thread, I think you posted it actually
    I saw the max age limit was 25 though. Im just turned 30...I look 21 but I wasnt sure how strict they were with age.

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    They're never strict with age.


    If you're shy, MFC is a curious choice to begin with though. Plus you're doing something that is for the most part, still against the grain there and will not be expected by most guys.
    I'm not sure I'd have been camming this long if MFC would have been my first site.
    I say at least try another one too. It may not have the same traffic, but at least it will provide a different experience to go along with MFC.

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    Well the reasoning behind my thinking was that Ive seen alot of girls say...no pvts and they just stay in free chat and get tipped. I figured with SM and AW pvts are where you make your money and guys kind of expect privates as well. Until I become more confident with camming in general I thought MFC seemed like an ok place to start. Also, the games and raffles kinda sounded like fun to me since Im kinda silly. I thought mad libs would be something fun to try? Im going to give it a week or so and if it sucks I'll definitely try elsewhere.

    So you say the non nude cam sites arent age restrictive? Do you have links to the sites that dont have age limits?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherriebomb View Post
    Well the reasoning behind my thinking was that Ive seen alot of girls say...no pvts and they just stay in free chat and get tipped. I figured with SM and AW pvts are where you make your money and guys kind of expect privates as well. Until I become more confident with camming in general I thought MFC seemed like an ok place to start. Im going to give it a week or so and if it sucks I'll definitely try elsewhere.

    So you say the non nude cam sites arent age restrictive? Do you have links to the sites that dont have age limits?
    you can try onhercam.com or nonudecams.com / icgirls.com . Neither has traffic that will blow you away, but it could be something else to try. I just meant that when they say an age, they just basically mean you have to look that age. They're never strict on it.

    To get tipped in free without countdowns means you're really working your room and very high on the page imo. It'll be regs mostly that are tipping like that. For many, privates are the easiest way to raise camscore at the beginning to get up the list.
    Otherwise you will start half way up with the others new mods at around 40-60 in your room day after day just staring at you with the odd premium or 2 that says hi.
    To keep conversation going or create any conversation in that atmosphere can be hard, and it can get anyone feeling awkward, let alone if you're new to it.
    But if you're a personality that can develop that kind of momentum and work your fanbase, then yeh it can happen in free for you
    Just don't let privates psych you out. They're one of the best ways to develop good regs and raise camscore.

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    Very helpful stuff Snow! Thank you

    I just get freaked out by one on one stuff. Especially when I think about cam2cam. Yuck. Im going ot keep a pic of Johnny Depp taped to my laptop near my webcam so I can stare at that lol.

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    Just don't view anyone's cam anywhere else than in private!! On MFC you will constantly get harassed to view cams.

    lol believe me, if you decide camming is for you and stick with it awhile, you will see so much weird stuff on cam2cam and get so many odd requests that NOTHING will shock you.
    When someone goes "do you like cam2cam bb", and you say SURE I DO lol. You will privately go ick but yay, cause I waste time talking to him about his dick and talking dirty instead of actually doing anything the whole time, and I can drag this show out! lol

    But privates are the easier option for me and many others really, freechat can be very hard work and can burn you out.

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    Default Re: Scared of groups and privates

    you can do a slow teasing striptease and dance. would you be willin b to use a vibrator over panties? that would work.

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    Out of like a 4 hour session on MFC, ill prob be fully naked only once or twice, and put on a show show...once or twice...
    Majority of time in free chat, and make most of my money whiled clothed, or just teasing. You can do it. Imo if you're lacking something (nudity.. toys..audio..blah blah), you gotta make it up somewhere... Talk a lot.. build regulars..go slow. that way if you ever decide to go nude, you'll already have a fan base dying to see you nude. There's a lot of different type of guys on MFC, and imo the majority of the big spenders are there to talk and just have a regular friend they can come see.

    do whatever you want in private/group. if they see you're having fun and not just faking it like most girls, they'll like it... they might even enjoy the naiveness, so play it up

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    Thats exactly what Im thinking rabbitx! You are gorgeous by the way

    Im sure I will work up to nude. I definitely think its the art of the tease in MFC. Ive been studying the girls with lots of people in their room and making money. They are the ones who have a genuine smile on their face and are having a good time. Im a talker and have no shortage of ideas for room topics lol. I have realized however, Im a terrible self-photographer (is that a word?). So guys are gonna have to make do with just a few pictures till I can get some more quality shots up.

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    >Im going ot keep a pic of Johnny Depp taped to my laptop near my webcam

    I was surprised but they are usually 'normal' guys and very yummy ;P

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    Well good luck to you.

    I do agree with snowc though, MFC is a hard site. The girls you see making money for seemingly doing nothing have put in a lot of time and work building a fan base. You dont just log on and bam get a room of hundreds of people content to just see you flirting and throwing tokens at you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    Out of like a 4 hour session on MFC, ill prob be fully naked only once or twice, and put on a show show...once or twice...
    Majority of time in free chat, and make most of my money whiled clothed, or just teasing. You can do it. Imo if you're lacking something (nudity.. toys..audio..blah blah), you gotta make it up somewhere... Talk a lot.. build regulars..go slow. that way if you ever decide to go nude, you'll already have a fan base dying to see you nude. There's a lot of different type of guys on MFC, and imo the majority of the big spenders are there to talk and just have a regular friend they can come see.

    do whatever you want in private/group. if they see you're having fun and not just faking it like most girls, they'll like it... they might even enjoy the naiveness, so play it up
    This.

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    See I'm the other way around. I hate public because I have to sit there and try to be generally pleasing to all members, when in fact my true nature is quite twisted and at its best when I'm in private, where I'm very comfortable talking all sorts of perverseness with my guests.

    Just don't get suckered in by those guys demands for nudity, etc. just because they say "the other girls on here do it all the time! ". ..Stick to your guns and control your room. Good luck!

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