i used to see pimps every day when i was escorting with agencies. thats a disgusting bunch of people.
i used to see pimps every day when i was escorting with agencies. thats a disgusting bunch of people.





Whats the only thing an Amish man and a Pimp have in common?
They both know how to work a hoe.




bahahahahahahaha
I hate more the pimp attitude of the untalented persons, than the real pimps.
I have a guy who wants to pimp me out as a prostitute. I figure I can make more money this way since my confidence about auditioning is down due to weight gain.
The thing is he wants to keep all the money to build it up he says. He also says I'm too scatterbrained to hang onto the money and would end up blowing it all on some bullshit.
That's why I want to get involved with him.
"You have demonic genius" -Naomi Wolf
"I very much resent it when people - maybe with good intentions or from a progressive point of view - keep telling me, 'It's their culture' ... It's like saying the culture of Massachusetts is burning witches." -Azar Nafisi





what the fuck? are you bring brainswashed or something? if you thought it was RIGHT you wouldnt ask....please dont be a dummy. wtf. Im sorry....
Do you think this is a dumb idea? If so, why?
"You have demonic genius" -Naomi Wolf
"I very much resent it when people - maybe with good intentions or from a progressive point of view - keep telling me, 'It's their culture' ... It's like saying the culture of Massachusetts is burning witches." -Azar Nafisi




erm just no
no
no
the only right that guy has to say you are scatterbrained is if you actually go along with what he's suggesting
you can do it by yourself (or use a reputable agency)
and jeez, you will be his SLAVE if you go along with him. The only time you need a man involved in your business is if you want to pay a guy a reasonable (low) rate for security, and you shouldn't be getting involved in needing security in the first place if you do this right.
please don't do that to yourself
What? She's totally got to be joking.
That shit had me in stitches!
Do you think he's gonna take my money and run?
"You have demonic genius" -Naomi Wolf
"I very much resent it when people - maybe with good intentions or from a progressive point of view - keep telling me, 'It's their culture' ... It's like saying the culture of Massachusetts is burning witches." -Azar Nafisi





you gonna let some reggedy ass man tell you how to manage your money?
How about a damn ACCOUNTANT.
good lord... somebody escort me out this thread!
The problem is that I'm not skinny so my confidence level isn't there when it comes to stripping. I figured this would be an easier way to ease back into the sex industry and buy me time to lose weight to go audition at an SC, like by June.
"You have demonic genius" -Naomi Wolf
"I very much resent it when people - maybe with good intentions or from a progressive point of view - keep telling me, 'It's their culture' ... It's like saying the culture of Massachusetts is burning witches." -Azar Nafisi
I was really hoping she's joking
Girl, dont let anybody put the hand on your money. You pay them for their services.
And saying you can't spend well the money you earn, that's offensive. I am surprised you don't see it that way, cause it is. Like he'd say u're a stupid bitch and treats you that way from the start, that's not an win win situation. You can only become a sex slave that way and not a good step. The sex work should brings you MORE financial freedom, not the contrary.
Men dont care if you are skiny or not. If they pay for your services, it means they think you worth it. The confidence comes WITH the MORE money you earn, not with less.
You can go to any audition, also. I know over weighted strippers who make bank. Men have other visions, they want to see you naked anyway. And remember the present i all we got, postponing a thing is like you'll never do it and being perfectionist in fulfilling sometimes can last ages.



Hey LilSweetVixen,
Okay, Please do not think I am trying to disrespect you, bash you, or make fun of you or any of that but Honey, you will be way better off by yourself. You do not need a "pimp" who is going to take all your money and spend it on his damn self ( Hell, he probably do not know how to manage his own money) He will probably only try to do just enough for you to make you think you are looking fly but not enough to help you get your own, so that you can better yourself......He will and I will repeat...He will try his best to make you co-dependent on him. It's a manipulative thing.......a brainwashing technique that he will use. He will make you feel like you are the world one minute and are trash the next so your emotions will be all screwed up thinking this is love and he gets me money and bla bla bla.....You don't need him, You can not NEVER EVER get ahead with a pimp. A pimp's whole goal is ......Yeah, his girls or girl because of the money and money only. When there is no money let's see how he really feels about you. I am not a pro or expert on being a cam-girl, escort, or any adult worker, but if you stick around here on this forum, you will get GREAT ADVICE from a lot of positive and smart ladies here, I promise you that. If you can read and you can apply what you read, then you should be able to learn the hustles needed to work for yourself in this industry. If not, I would suggest not doing anything until you are ready. Trust me a pimp is not looking out for you and he probably told you a lot of people will say this, Go Figure. But that is the game. You have to be one up on it. Just try to really hear what I am saying to you because it is nothing beneficial about having a pimp what-so-ever..Once you give that pimp YOUR MONEY, he will say that is ...OUR MONEY....but in reality it is HIS MONEY....You ever leave your pimp let's see what kind of return you get from your investment...=/........So how can he benefit you without all the slavery labor laws he is about to break by making you work your ass off just to look up-to-date on looking fly enough to get booked on another date, then what? You have No Savings or anything of substance to show for it...NADA!!!! Please, just do not do it. You can make your own money, you can take whatever he says and do it by your damn self, really. Your confidence will not miraculously jump up to 100% because you have a pimp either. Know that you are beautiful before someone else tries to say you are or not. Trust me that "pimp" is banking on you being insecure like that and he will feed off it. Just don't do it. I had my run in with pimps and it is not for me. I never had one and never can see myself with one since i feel like this has got be the most obviously bad business move ever........ Okay Lady, I hope I am not offending you but I am trying to be truthful so please do not do it. On that note, I respect any decision you make but that one, I think you shouldn't make.
" Be Positive, Patient, and Productive after all we are all Perfect Pretty Princesses" XOXO
No Negative Nancy or Drama Queens Please, Thanks xoxo
"I let my haters be my motivators..Now we can settle this like you got some class or we can get into some gangsta shit."
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maybe you should just cam.... hes manipulating you and your falling for it...... just like a weakling would.





Only insecure naive woman have pimps. Pimps feed off of vulnerability....At first i thought you was trolling....
But now that I see your serious....
Who the hell is he to know how you will manage your money....
your gonna sell your pussy to give HIM the money... nowhere in this game is the money YOURS. He is nto gonna set up a savings account for you, nor will he give a damn about you if a john kicks your ass! you will still be uip next morning hitting the track!
Secondly.... why cant you get a REAL job...go to school or something... ???? Am I missing something here....
or do you like playing the victim role?
Ok so Im being blunt, but lets get to the bottom of this, woman to woman!!
If you listen to his dumb shit you will for for ANYTHING.... and your life will end up getting screwed up.
find a workout plan and stop making excuses PLEASE.
He is already trying to mentally abuse you and honey it could lead to worst physical violence and he may demand/force to have sex with him and just a lot more horrible stuff.
Yes it's dumb idea as stated by me and the other helpful ladies up above nothing positive about Pimps.





I've never known any, but what I can say is this: anyone who downgrades you in any way, is someone you need to avoid.
That way you can avoid having them prey on your insecurity, & using you, & ruining your life.
Take care.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt



It sounds to me like you need to talk to someone. Go and find someone to talk to. A friend, member of the family, counselor before you do something very stupid. You're not even mentally capable to get into escorting. Escorting is not for people with low sense of self. You are already heading down the wrong path. Why a pimp and not a reputable escort agency? And why escorting? Is it just because you THINK you can make money selling yourself? Be prepared to face a lot of rejection. You cannot handle anything like this because you are already rejecting yourself. BY the way you are talking you will most likely be taken advantage of, raped or beaten. Believe it or not you have to be very smart to be an escort or you'll get busted or end up dead in a closet. The successful escorts know the ins and out and most of all they're all independent (meaning they do all their own advertising and keep their own money) . Sorry I can't help but please leave the escorting idea alone. Start a maid service, cam or something else. The last thing you want is a pimp that will abuse and use you.
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LilSweetVixen,
YOu need to stop all contact with him. He's a lowlife piece of shit that is going to take ALL OF YOUR MONEY. HE does NOT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU.
Get some self confidence. IF you feel the sex industry is the only way then TRY CAMMING. Hell sign up for streamate and earn 35% from the comfort of your own home. YOU DO NOT NEED A PIMP. PLEASE GET THIS THROUGH YOUR HEAD.
YOU DO NOT NEED HIM. STAY AWAY FROM HIM. IF HE HARASSES YOU CALL THE COPS. GET AWAY!
There's lots of helpful ladies on this board but please do not have any contact with this scum. If you do YOU WILL REGRET IT.
No, you would not get your money back. NEVER. You think he's going to put it into an account and invest it for you? No. He's going to take it, and use it. You get the dregs. You'll never lose weight and feel better about yourself because you wont have money to go to whole foods. You wont be able to even THINK about going grocery shopping because all you'll have to wear are clothes that your pimp provides. You think your pimp is going to get you a gym membership? You'll be lucky for a used tae bo DVD. You're going to feel like shit for a LONG time because pimps want you feeling sad and useless and out of control.
Why are their all these pimp negative thoughts in this thread? Because we're all women who like to keep our money and even if we only buy hair stuff and nail polish it's ours. We like to have clear heads and feel good about ourselves. Pimps don't want you to have a clear head. That's why pimps are always trying to get you high on shit that has serious withdrawal.
Pimps would use World Of Warcraft, but then you wouldn't have any time to fuck anyone.
Pimp doesn't care about your health. He cares about taking your hard earned money and living off of it.
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You don't sound like you belong in the sex industry at all. You have such low self esteem now, and I doubt escorting/cammin/dancing will improve it, considering all of the rejection from strangers and rude comments you'll have to deal with.




Pimps.. Never seen a use for them.. Why would a give my money to someone that doesn't help me get the job in the first place?



After reading this thread . It is very clear that the OP is going through a hard time. She should not be asking questions related to the sex industry at all. It is also clear that she is already in a relationship with a pimp![]()
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