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Last edited by teaze; 03-22-2012 at 06:38 AM.





I've always had the opposite problem. I've been both of those weights at that height (except without the 7 inch heels) and either weight guys thought I was younger.
Hi its frustrating i know to be told you older than you are i'm lucky i always have it the opposite way around i'm 24 n guys think i'm 19 and they say why you wanting to add years on your age for and accuse me of being a liar so now i just say i'm 21 or i'll tell them its rude to ask a lady her age. I wouldn't worry about it that much though hun just tell them your age and if they say your lying say why are we wasting time discussing this when you could come and have some fun in my play room and smile really sweetly.
xo
Honestly, dont even stress over it, do what you think is better for you in the business. Most guys tend to guess that I am older (21) when Im younger so I just go with what they seem is a reasonable age. I go with the age 21-22 80% of the time. Whenever I told guys I am younger which I am it hurt my business as they would freak out going "Really?" 100x times over.
Plus remember the club lighting, a half naked girl, make up etc makes the girl appear older and done up! As for the weight issue, being on the skinnier side tends to make people think its more youthful so the girl has to be younger. Think of blonde and brown hair, people always say go blonder when you want to appear younger. This could be the case.
I'm 20 and often customers guess that I'm 22+. I usually just go with it. It's not a huge difference, and I find if guys are asking questions like that, they're practically telling you what they want to hear, so why not just let them believe it so they're that much more excited to open their wallets for me.





I'm usually mistaken for being younger than I am (22), and that sucks, too. I've had guys tell me I look like their 15 year old sister or tell me I have a babyface. lol
Like others have said, it's also the makeup, the hair, & the club lighting. I'm sure if you tried changing your makeup and hair, you could easily look a different age. Even your outfit might play a part. I think girls look youngest when they wear those little stripper bikinis, versus bras or lingerie.
Hi! I just read the original post; I am dumbfounded because 5 7" and 120 is actually a bmi of 18 which is underweight. I myself am 5 7" and 124 and a size 2/4, me at 120 lbs is a size 2. Are you big boned? feel free to post a pic w/o face if you wish.
ALSO: regarding the age thing, guys seriously have NO CLUE what age someone looks like. Why? because along with our weight us women have been lying about our age forever and ever.



Why would you want boyish skinny hips!!!!!? Most men like hips, in fact it proven scientifically. 5'7 120? Thats still underweight.
Your weight is not making you look older. Your body is most likely more attractive now since you aren't starving it too skinny. I find women that are in their mid twenties more attractive than they were when they were 18-21. Most people I know feel the same way.
Stop being so hard on yourself please. It is not affecting your money which is a big indicator.
So what if you look 24? You may look like you are in your mid twenties for 10 years or more if you continue to take care of yourself.
you can try reverse psychology and tell people you are older then you look.(say 24-25). That worked for me. People would then say I look younger then that.(of course). And I all so found out that some men would ask because they wanted an older girl. Some older men with big bucks feel weird spending time and money on a girl the same age as their daughter. When I was 25 I would lie and say I was 30. Of course I would get compliment on how young I looked and some men would say its nice to finally get a dance with a WOMAN.




I'm 20 and I've had a handful of guys tell me I look like I'm 30. They hardly ever guess 20, but most say around 25 so I just tell them I'm 25...and then occasionally I'll tell somebody that and they're like "no way! I was gonna say you were like 20!"
I don't think weight has anything to do with it because I'm basically a twig. I'm 5'6 and 99lbs. I basically have the body of a 12 year old, no boobs, no ass, no hips, but I'm always being told I look way older than I actually am.




^that's DEFINITELY true. I started dancing when I was 19 and when I told guys I was 19 it was a HUGE turn off. I get way more dances by saying I'm 25. even if the guy is 21, if I say I'm 25, he's still into it
last night though I got a guy who was like "you're 25? man I have kids 10 years older than you!" and I was like "well damn do you want a dance from our oldest dancer? she's 50" and of course he was like "uhh no" and I was like "would you rather have a dance from a girl who JUST turned 18?" and he was like "nooo I'd feel way too weird" and I was like "so you'd rather have one your kids' age?" and again, he says no so I'm like "then what's wrong with me? it looks like I'm the perfect age" but he just turned out to be a time waster so whatever! :]


teaze-- you're totally underweight and must have a skewed perspective of what you look like- ever thought that having not enough fat on your face and hips makes you look bony and gaunt which ages you??? having a more rounded face and curvy hips will make you look younger, while having a hollowed out face makes you look older.
i'm your height, VERY muscular, medium boned, size 27 jeans/size 6 and vacillate between 137-143 depending on the time of month- guys always guess that I am 19-21 OR way older like 24-26 if I'm wearing more makeup.
I use reverse psychology and tell everyone i am 26 and i look so young because i exercise and am healthy. blah blah blah
I just turned 21 and I get 28-31 a lot- it really bothered me at first but as long as they spend money idc... esp since the older guys are usually the ones with the big bucks- At work I'm 24 now and I changed the way I do my hair and make up...




I look older than I am (22) and last year when I was 21 we had a 28 year old with a really young face working here and I remember a customer guessing I was older than her. It made me cry.
If a customer asks my age, I ask them how old they think I am and adjust my answer accordingly.




Hmmm....I am the same size as you now and used to be 110 when I was undereating...
Dudes guess I'm younger now. My face was really drawn and I had more wrinkles before, but with just a bit more weight on my face looks younger, less severe.
I dunno, IMO girls who are 24-28 make the most money and guys like girls with a curvier figure. I also make more after gaining the weight.



I'm 28 and get 21/22 all the time. IRL I get carded everywhere I go and without the makeup I get 19/20. It's a blessing. I will say when I was heavier as a teen and freshman in college no one ever ever carded me and just assumed I was older. I had way more curves and a more womanly body. I am just lucky I guess. Also, most guys do like girls who are not very young when it comes to spending lots of $ b/c they feel weird with someone so young. It goes both ways Dbag at RiteAid who sells me liquor all the time wouldn't sell me a bottle of wine, but happily gave it to my 22yr old bf by simply asking for his bday.
Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.
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