Well, it happened. I found out that my girlfriend who I had seen as this angelic loving devoted person was actually not that at all, and had been cheating on me the whole time with several different people and lying about it through her teeth.
I myself have always said that when people cheat it's because they are somehow unsatisfied in their relationship, but that's a hard pillow to sleep on when you've been totally loyal to someone, given them everything you can and more, and treated them with respect and honesty.
For myself loyalty is a quality unsurpassed in a person, let alone a girlfriend. I would gladly trade beauty, brains, or a hot body for simple loyalty. I'm not a perfect man or partner, never will be, but one thing I've always had is 100% loyalty, and I don't think that's asking too much for in return.
So to end this rant, I'd just like to say if you're thinking about cheating on someone you love, or are doing it already, then don't. Just tell your partner you're not satisfied with certain things, and then either try to change them, or leave them. It's that simple. Nothing less is worth it. I had every good memory with this person torn from me, and nothing but disgust left. It sucks. Don't do it.
Edit: Just realized how ironic it is that I'm posting this on Valentine's Day. Sorry for shitting on your chocolates everyone.



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Sorry that happened. You deserve better and you will find better.




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