-----





-----
Last edited by Athenathefabulous; 02-25-2011 at 02:36 AM.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
Most of my partners are in their 20's and yes, its amazing how many of them put up a stink about using condoms. The argument they have is always that they don't sleep around anymore, etc etc. Apparently they assume condom use is only to protect the girl from them, and if they don't sleep with skanks its all ok. Silly boys. Anyone can have cooties, even pretty girls who aren't bar skags. They also have way too much faith in pulling out as birth control.





Yes I've met quite a few of these guys, especially guys who think because they are older they are at less risk of disease. Since I've relied on condoms as birth control (I can't take the pill) this is a no way would I go without.
Only exceptions would be when I sleep with a man who I will marry and we will consider having kids. Other exception will be when I am infertile (whether by menopause or just in general) and we are monogamous.




i've only had one guy bitch about using a condom (27) and he complained and moaned and in the end only wore one because i refused to fuck him without one.
the older men i've boned recently (33 and 34) didn't think twice about it. the first wrapped it up a few times in the beginning, then when we got monogamous he stopped wearing one cause I was on the pill. the other one didn't have one, didn't ask for one, and while we DID have unprotected sex (i know, i know, awful) he didn't think to ask till the next week about if he needed to be worried.
the others were great, they all put one on with no nudging from me.
It was 50/50 for me. The men who complained didnt last long with me nor did I want to be with them. I tell them "Either we have sex with a condom, or its no sex at all - your choice" Its funny how they complain and whine. There was a radio show that I was listening to, and the doctor on it said "condoms dont affect whether the man will go hard or soft, its the mind set" I believe that, if a man wants to have sex bad enough a condom should be the least of the worries.
I'm not very fond of condoms myself...but then I've been completely monogamous for 2 years (the third we brought in awhile back used protection, full stop). If I ever regain my appetite for "other" peen, condoms will be imperative to the equation. So far, it's been a mix, more so people in favor or using them than not. In the past, I've had a couple of younger guys around my age put up a stink about them, but overall they seem to be more accepting because they understand that there REALLY is a risk with unprotected sex. I've run into a few older men (40+) who wanted to be superman and not use rubbers, most likely because they're from a generation where it wasn't impressed upon them that all it takes is one bad night and their cock will melt off, lol. XD My ex was one of the young boys who would whinge about how tight magnums are and that they were cutting off his circulation.![]()
![]()
I think it's cute how no one considers pregnancy a "risk" anymore. Only HIV & herpes simplex (which most people already have some form of and don't know), huh? There's also a disturbing lack of attention paid to protection during oral sex. STDs aren't only transferred via genital to genital interaction. >.> <.< But to their credit, latex tastes really gross (even the flavored junk).
Old phrase: No glove, no love. I have the pussy, I make the rules.![]()
Last edited by Spinnerette; 02-14-2011 at 04:14 PM. Reason: Blaaaaah adding stuffs





We don't use condoms unless we're having 3somes...that being said, I noted there's a full box of magnums XL's unopened. If I come home and the box is open.... j/k lol I trust him :-p
besides I told him if he ever cheated on me, I would tie him up, find the bitch, cut her dozens of times with a razor, pour honey all over her, allow red ants to crawl over her body, kill the bitch, dismember her, force feed him the pieces and then cut off his dick and feed it to the snake.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest





I've heard of many people who got various STDs from oral sex including warts in the throat. Gross. I realize looking back at my past, which includes lots of oral, I am lucky I never got anything from that. However, I did contract HPV, the form that is precancerous, not warts. My doctor told me that you can get this even if you use protection, which is pretty scary if you think about. I had mine removed via a LEEP and it changed my view a lot about sex. I almost always used condoms in the past and still got it.
Many people underplay the pregnancy risk and I see so many myths online that it bothers me. I've even had guys tell me that since I am 40 they wouldn't worry about me getting pregnant. This is completely false because women can still get pregnant until they go through actual menopause, and the average age for that is 51. I know so many women who got pregnant in their 40's because they thought it still couldn't happen, and the amount of younger women I know who got pregnant astounds me. Even taking the pill doesn't mean there isn't a risk since I know women on the pill who got pregnant.





I fucking hate condoms, and much prefer mutual testing and a monogamous relationship for safety. But if it's a sudden thing, the heat is on, etc., I will use Naturalamb which feel much better than latex. I don't buy the propaganda about them being unsafe, as opposed to fucking latex, either. Sure it's theoretically possible something could get through the sheep intestine it's made from, but so is a meteor crashing through my roof as I type this. If intestinal linings weren't a very effective way of protecting the body from ingested toxins and microorganisms, we'd all be dead.
The AIDS virus in particular does not scare me at all, if I am using Naturalamb. Transmission is extremely rare from vaginal sex anyway.
Which reminds me of the risk balancing going on in the minds of so many people when it comes to different risky activities. How many people wear seat belts every time they drive? How many people drive after having 1-2 drinks which can impair driving enough to get killed? How many people wear motorcycle helmets if it isn't required in their state? Going for a date with the hot guy on his bike and having a couple drinks before going home is way riskier than unprotected sex afterward.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
______________________________________
I absolutely HATE condoms.
Ive had a few sexual partners.All boyfriends. Do i know for certain they were monagamous?? Id like to think so but you never know.That being said,I do get tested annualy for stds and HIV.
Married people dont normally use condoms cause they feel they are in a committed relationship. But again u never truly know do u?
No real point to my post. Ive never had a boyfriend get excited to use a condom.
And I never had a one night stand mainly because I HATE condoms!





God, I despise rubber too. I can't wait til the day I get married. So I can get a lifetime of orgasms without the damn rubber.
I had been in exclusive relationships using condoms until I met my current boyfriend who is a condom hater. I was surprised, I assumed that everyone just used condoms and sucked it up. It never occured to me that they could be uncomfortable. So we did testing and blah blah blah we're exclusive and I'm on birth control and we don't use condoms.
I did see this story on the news the other night about STDs being out of control in the elderly because they don't use condoms haha.





I hate condoms and I probably bitch about them more than any guy I know. I still always use them though. Im not complaining cause I want my partner to not use them. Im just bitching because I can. Ill still always use them even when Im really drunk or high. Its kinda like taking my makeup off before I sleep. As much as I dont want to, I still always do. No exception.





Before I was with him I had been pretty promiscuous. I always used condoms when I was sober, but during my wilder days there were a few fuckups... All I can say is that I'm damn lucky.....
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
Men still do this? geez, i thought they disappeared much like girls who won't give head. Eventually lack of getting laid makes them adapt.




I dunno Trem... if 10% of what some of my friends say is true, there's a lot of people who really don't worry about condoms.
I make jokes to the contrary all the time, but I always wrap it up... Only one person that I didn't with, and that was a long term relationship where I was quite sure she was using birth control. To be honest, condoms don't bother me that much.

Never thought about not using a condom, it was always automatic. I'm sure bare feels better to go bare but I will wait till I am married to try that.





The cerebral side of me understands the need for condoms when with strangers, but the animal/physical side of me is convinced that the inventor of the latex condom was a sadist.


If your in a monagamus relationship thats an entirely different story. If your not I see wearing one as a sign of safety and respect. Guys who argue that they can't get it up with one, can't feel anything, etc are just manipulating you. It works both ways, Im surprised as to how many girls say that they are sure im clean and we shouldn't use them. Whoever doesn't want to use one disrespects you, him, and all the future partners either one of you will have. Is that really a guy you want to have sex with or be involved with?
In this day and age, I can't believe ANYONE would bitch about using a condom. I mean jesus, HPV leads to cervical cancer in women...and men don't even get tested for it! They are walking carriers. Statistically, if a man has sex without a condom ever, he has HPV. SCARY. Not to mention herpes. Aaaaaah!!!!!





Well, putting the logic aside, condom sex is pretty crappy, at least for me. It is like eating a good meal with a balloon on my tongue - there's barely any point. Heck, jerking off quite often feels better than condom sex. Maybe age plays a role, but as I've gotten older the mere sight of a condom is sometimes enough to cool my jets.
Again, as much as I understand the need for a condom, I hate them so much that I want to to punch a hole in the wall even as I am putting one on.
Sometimes clear thinking doesn't factor heavily when animal urges are in play.![]()
I dont remember them being THAT bad......i wouldnt THINK of having sex without one when i was single.....and one night stands or hookups????? holy shit, talk about russian roulette. Ive used them periodically while married when she had to go off the pill...now and then.....to me, it only makes sex a little less fantastic......no big deal, i dont mind them




I always use condoms, my ex-fiance is the only one I have gone bareback with, the important thing that I learned is that even if you are in a monogamous relationship you can't trust anyone.
I use Durex extra sensitive condoms, they are the best ones that I have tried. I used to use regular lubricated Trojans but I almost could not feel anything. I don't understand why anyone would use standard strength or extra strength condoms, does anyone actually use those?
This reminds me of a story: few years ago while on vacation in Rio while at my favorite strip club/brothel, one of my friends (Joe) was complaining about condoms, the conversation went like this:
Joe: condoms suck I am having problems finishing with the women, maybe I am drinking too much.
me: what kind of condoms are you using?
Joe: I am using some Lifestyles condoms that my friend's wife gave to me, she works at a planned parenthood.
me: what kind are they? you know, thin, regular or extra strength?
Joe: Lifestyles extra strength
me: Of course you can't feel anything, you may as well be using hefty heavy duty trash bags, here next time try one of these Durex extra sensitive condoms.
Joe went with another girl. When I saw him later on in the night he had a strange look on his face, I asked him whats up?
Joe: I am kind of worried now.
me: why?
Joe: That condom you gave me broke when I was fucking that chick in the ass.
me: did you use plenty of lube
Joe: only a little, the condom was pre-lubricated.
Bookmarks