K so some people may remember I was having a rough patch with my husband a few months back. Well thank god the fighting has stopped. We have an occasional word here and there but totally managed to bring it back mostly by decreasing stressors in our lives and spending more time together.
Now I have a new problem. I guess it didnt bother me when we were mad at each other all the time, but now its starting to annoy me. The romance is gone. He used to be the most romantic guy. For example he'd make me candle lit bubble baths all the time. Buy me little silly gifts for no reason. Gave me massages all the time. Left love notes all over the house before going to work. Etc etc.
Anyway yesterday being valentines day I thought maybe just maybe he might plan something for me. Usually we dont do anything big that day. Just go out for dinner but it would be me who makes the booking. So yesterday I planned nothing. And nothing happened. Not a card, nor chocolate, nor flower in sight.I know singles complain about V-day but surely its worse to be in a relationship where the only recognition you get is a hug?? I mean he didnt even come home from the gym till 8.30 so I ate leftover food from the fridge by myself. I had bought him a small gift and card. I think he felt bad but geez... is it that hard? I know he can be romantic so I guess thats why it pisses me off.
So beyond V-day I just want to feel worshiped and adored. Is that too much to ask? Maybe being a stripper has spoiled me because I see guys jumping through hoops to impress me and my own husband seems to have no interest in making me happy anymore. Dont get me wrong. I will spoil him. I give twice as much as I get. I am a giver but I just want to feel a little more special than a sister.
Besides talking to him - Ive already done that and will still do it all the time... Any ideas? Im happy to hear from the guys to. Or maybe if girls have stories of their guys bringing it back to the beginning romance so I know there is at least hope.



I know singles complain about V-day but surely its worse to be in a relationship where the only recognition you get is a hug?? I mean he didnt even come home from the gym till 8.30 so I ate leftover food from the fridge by myself. I had bought him a small gift and card. I think he felt bad but geez... is it that hard? I know he can be romantic so I guess thats why it pisses me off.
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