so i got an interesting phone call yesterday...my mom had called and started off telling me happy valentines day, and then said she had a weird question for me...was i or had i ever been an exotic dancer?
to make a long story short, there is some class-action law suit against a club or a person or who knows but a letter was sent to my home address (why did i put that down ?!?) and she decided to read mail with MY name on it...bc she was suspicious of the company name or something. anyways, i have lived abroad a lot and have always been vague about my employment and thought maybe i had just done it abroad but then i just thought you know what fuck it i'll just come clean....i mean its my life. right.......?
WELP, she is needless to say very upset....this is all turning around to how she was a bad parent, how i am doing the most vile, awful thing possible, even telling me everytime she closes her eyes she sees awful things and cannot sleep now! WTF. and here's the kicker, she is now telling me that i MUST tell my father face to face via skype and that the heart broken trifecta of mother, father, and holy ghost will then be complete. she wants my dad to know bc she is convinced i will be stalked/raped/drugged and end up dead in a morgue and she will have to come to id my body. and if found out THEN that she knew then he would never live with her for letting me send myself on the "downward spiral."
dramatic much??
i am trying to be calm but now the things she is saying are pissing me off. what if i came out of the closet?? i come form a conservative place but my parents have always been the beacon of understanding...they wouldn't care if i was gay. but no god forbid an "exotic dancer"... if it wasn't my own personal life i would find her reaction really humorous...but it is my life and i need some help! what do i say, what do i do?



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I got the same friggin' letter.... same scenario... my mom opened it and well... proceded to freak!

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