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    Default <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    So I saw this lawyer a few months ago, maybe 3 mos… for 2 hours, maybe a little more, at my regular rate of 500.00
    Well he gave me a grand, and spoke nothing of it. I said thank you a million times. Damn it I deserved that money, cuz this is one of those clients that just GETS ON YA LAST NERVE with all the touchy touchy moaning kissing too many compliments wants me be all in ya ear for the WHOLE appointment, wants second and third cups…. UGHHHH
    So now he gets in touch with me again, wants me to drive 45 minutes to an hour to meet him halfway. Ok I said cool, how long do you want to meet for?
    He said WELL, DONT I HAVE A 2 HR CREDIT? SO THREE HOURS. So now, Im like,dumbfounded. Hell naw Im thinking….he wants me to spend 3 grueling hours with him, drive an hour, for the price of a one hr. appt.
    I answered him and said ITS AGAINST MY RULES BUT I COULD MEET YOU…BUT IT WILL BE 350 (instead of my usual one hour 300)
    He was like I DONT WANNA BE ON UR BAD SIDE, Y IS IT AGAINST YOUR RULES?
    I said its just a business thing. Anything extra you give me, is regarded as a tip.

    Am I being greedy? Or smart?
    Because I do want the money, but Im not into selling myself short. That money has been spent months ago….

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    DO NOT give him credit. That's just ridiculous. This isn't a tab he has! You're an escort, not the corner store. In fact, I would suggest you never see him again as a client. He sounds manipulative and obnoxious. Quit with this one while you're still ahead.
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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    He chose to give you $1000 he is a grown ass man. That was a tip. If he wanted to prepay for a later service then he should have discussed this with you. I would not consider it a CREDIT at all. I believe you explained yourself to him good enough. He is a lawyer so he is smart enough to know better.
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Uh, smart. If he meant the extra money as a credit, he should have said so. That way you could have set him straight on it. Screw that.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Absolutly not..that was a tip - nothing more. & he should be paying your gas.

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    Thank you ladies. Texting him now. I already told him Id do it though, even tho I gave him the sign I didnt like it.
    SO I should say what?
    NM I got it.
    Thx ladies

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Told him no can do and he hasnt replie yet. Dont care if he does or doesnt. Im good!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    HELL NO...that was a tip and I'm not even an escort. If there is one thing I've have learned being in the adult industry, guys will try to manipulate as much out of you as they can!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Quote Originally Posted by AudrinaN View Post
    Told him no can do and he hasnt replie yet. Dont care if he does or doesnt. Im good!
    That's good. There are plenty of men who will follow the rules and not jeopardize pissing you off and making you feel uncomfortable. The smart ones know the happier they make you, the happier you will make them!
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    You know what to do!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Ugh I had a guy try to do that on cam! He tipped me a little extra and then came back like WEEKS later talking about how he still has "credit". Lol FAIL! Your custy sounds like a pain in the ass anyway!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    A few hours later and he still hasnt replied.
    He's got soooo much money and he wants to play cheap with me.
    Ass wipe.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    That was a tip. Everyone knows you pay sex workers as you go. No "credits" . What a dumb ass. He is probably just doing one more thing to be high maintenence and see what he could get away with.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    The only way that a guy should have a 'credit' would be if something like the following happened: your rent is due and you ask a regular to help you out with the promise of a future date for covering the rent. (Of course, any guy who advances money like that should just plan on never seeing it again, from the stories that I have heard.)

    If he and you never agreed that the extra $500 was for a future date, then this guy left you a tip. It seems that he is testing you to see if he can pull one over on you.

    If you want to have his business, consider charging something for your travel time and Outcall and for the time of the date. In short, you are boss. Do what you want. If he doesn't like it, there are others girls.

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    Default I know I am late to the party but...

    DO NOT give him a credit! I cannot believe he is pulling that nonsense with you. Are you young and new to the game, because he is attempting to take advantage of you. The best thing to do is just gradually disconnect from him: don't see him any more, and any correspondence should be short and sweet, and eventually cease. He isn't a good regular, although you might think he is. He is manipulative and passive-aggressive. Move on, he is not worth it.
    Sorry you had to put up with that crap.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    He is not a regular thank God….
    And I text him last week (i posted up there when I did so) and he has not replied.
    Oh well!

    MY regular is all I needed he rocks. So didnt need this asswipe!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    This has happened to me before.
    I am glad he wasn't able to take advantage of you. It is a lesson learned so if it ever happens again you will be prepared.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Glad you got rid of him, omg! I hate guys like that...bleh! Sometimes no amount of money is worth repeat business...especially that type!

    I also agree with what everyone else is saying here too. That extra money was not discussed at the time of the appointment, as a "credit" so it is yours and you owe him nothing. I have a regular client who sometimes pays my car insurance for me, and I will deduct that amount from the money he gives me the next time I see him. That is an arrangement that we discussed beforehand! And sometimes he'll give me the extra money anyway. I'm all up for being negotiable, and working deals...with TRUSTED regulars, not some fly by night dude who tips me once. And especially someone who was all up in my ear, and in my shit, with barely a gasp of breathe the entire time! What a douche!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    Maybe you should put a little disclaimer on your site profile saying something along the lines of "tips are appreciated, but do not count towards any "credits" towards actual services", or something like that. that way, if another guy tries to do this in the future, you can say that counting a tip towards credit for your time is explicitly against your terms and conditions

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    That's a great idea Angel, but I've been doing this on and off for years...and something like that has NEVER happened to me. That guy just sounds like a total douchbag!

    That is funny though, maybe escorts should have our "terms and conditions" written out and exchanged with our "gift" haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by neliana View Post
    Ugh I had a guy try to do that on cam! He tipped me a little extra and then came back like WEEKS later talking about how he still has "credit". Lol FAIL! Your custy sounds like a pain in the ass anyway!
    lol @ FAIL!!!

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    umm this guy sounds like a really UGLY GUY! He's a loser that got alittle too happy with your last visit. Now he's low on cash and feels like hmm well I gave her double maybe I can get that back. This is what we call a chargeback on a cam site. A guy got all crazed out in private spent a few hundred getting off on his limp stump and thinks hmm I spent too much let me get my money back and use it on another girl. Looooooser!!! I'm glad he's gone, he seemed like way too much of a hassel anyways.

    Next thing you know this guy will be pulling this over and over again then screaming you scammed him on some board somewhere.

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    Default Re: <Escorting> He wants a credit…UGH

    You are absolutely right, that's why I hate review boards.

    I don't stand a single centimeter over 5'2", and I am a 34c. On my very first review on TER the giy said I was 5'8" and a B cup. Since it was my very first review, his description is what is laid out for all to see. I had a guy texting me one day saying "your ad says your a C cup, but your review says a B cup. Which one is it?" I was like, "I'm a C cup," and was being a little flirty, telling him if he booked an appt, I would show him in person. He then procedes to argue with me, saying all of us girls lie, we use fake pics, etc. I then said to him "I buy a C cup bra, and that's what I wear every single day of my life. Why on Earth would I spend $35-$50 on every bra I own, and walk around wearing the wrong size?"
    I was so mad after that I blocked his ass, he can never call or text me again. I dont even want to get into how many guys say "oh my you're so tiny, or oh you're so short" all because some dude wrote the wrong thing., and their expecting me to be 5'8". But oh no, now it's written, it's there forever, it was written "by a guy, for the guys" so it all must be true

    The review itself is a really great one, btw...but by him getting those simple details messed up, that initself has also created an entirely different set of problems.

    Sorry to rant or threadjack, but in a nutshell, I'm glad she got rid of that custie...and these review boards are nothing but a pain in the ass sometimes.

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