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    My friend is from another state. she is interested in moving to my state.

    She was my baby sitter growing up and visited recently. Shes a great person... lately she has been asking me about my living status (alone, roommate location) and i think she might be getting around to asking to live with me.
    i know that its hard to start off in a new state. I don mind helping her out for a LITTLE.. however i need my own place, i dont want her to end up staying. She has other friends in the area too. im starting my adult life and i need this space living on my own and i enjoy it. i guess im also worried that she'll be in my work related suff and i have to try and hide everything from her. i guess its possible
    she babysitter me growing up. shes great i just need a way to tell her i can help her get started but i want to keep my place my own.

    how do i say this?

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    Default Re: friend asking to live with me

    i love having my own space! its my sanctuary for everything

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    Default Re: friend asking to live with me

    Tell her the truth. Let her know that she can stay with you for a few weeks or months while she gets her shit together. "But just so everythings clear, this can't be a permenant thing" Period. Say no more.
    Its not rude, its the grown up way of dealing with the situation. Any self-respecting adult will respect your word, and do their best to get out of your hair as soon as possible.

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