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    14 views and no responses?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
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    I'll give you a

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    Default Re: What Should I Do? Depressed Over this Guy... Please Help!!!

    Honey you posted a huge wall of text, trying to read it gave me a headache. I'm sure if you tried again with like paragraphs people would be willing to read it and give you advice.

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    Default Re: What Should I Do? Depressed Over this Guy... Please Help!!!

    You posted on a Saturday night on Stripperweb...most of the ladies here were WORKING.

    Post again, and give people some time to respond.

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    Default Re: What Should I Do? Depressed Over this Guy... Please Help!!!

    You left it up for like 2 hours on a sat night hun, give people time to respond.

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    oh, you guys have a good point. sorry i will edit and post it again

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    ok i just broke it into paragraphs

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    So sorry I started to read it before and gave up, but I think it was right after work. And after work I have no brain left.

    If there is one thing I have learned, that is never let anyone of the opposite sex reduce you. That gives them control, and there's only one person you want in control of your life. You know who that is.

    Easier said than done, but trust me, it gets way easier over time. I have yet to break up with anyone and regret it.

    I was a whining bitch the first breakup, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
    I seriously almost called an ambulance because noonly is this an emotionally and mentally scarring ordeal, its actually having a physical effect on me too.
    This guys definately mindfuckin you, get away from him before you need an ambulance as you put it!!! Stop being a doormat for this guy. Don't you think you deserve somebody who sees you as an equal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelCummings View Post
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    Need the Cliff's Notes version

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    I only read the prologue and the 1st 8 chapters, but here is what i got out of it.

    1. you told this guy that you wanted to cool it when things were apparently going well. So, the confusion and uncertainty was introduced into the relationship by you.

    2. you involved this GC in the middle of this 'confused' relationship, who immediately made it worse, and you continue to have contact with GC even though he is saying shit behind both of your backs like a high schooler.(and he is not alone in behaving like a highschooler)

    3. You get upset that he is seeing someone else, even though you A)have never met in person, and B) 'broke up' with him. It doesnt matter WHAT she looks like, maybe he just wants someone a little more mature, less drama, someone local...etc, Maybe he is happy to be done with all the highschool bullshit.

    So here are some suggestions for you.

    1. Never acknowledge ANY communication from GC ever again....de-friend him, block his emails, etc, that guy is worthless.

    2. Dont text ANYONE 15 times without a response. HE GOT THE MESSAGE. Texting him anything more than 2 or 3 times makes you seem like a desperate stalker.......the odds that he will respond go down with every extra text.

    3. Grow up and learn from your mistakes, dont do any of the things you have done here in future relationships.


    I doubt you can undue the things you have done and get this relationship back on track, but if you want to try i would do this.

    In a week or 2, send him ONE(or 2 or 3 if you cant fit it on one) more text, or leave him ONE voicemail, or send him ONE email....... telling him that you are sorry for all the immaturity and drama that YOU caused by trusting someone that you just met over him....and that you miss his friendship and would love it if he would give you another chance.

    If he ever contacts you, dont say anything snarky about his girlfriend...(because he has one and he likes her and he shouldnt have to apologize for it)

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemiwinks31 View Post
    I only read the prologue and the 1st 8 chapters, but here is what i got out of it.

    1. you told this guy that you wanted to cool it when things were apparently going well. So, the confusion and uncertainty was introduced into the relationship by you.

    2. you involved this GC in the middle of this 'confused' relationship, who immediately made it worse, and you continue to have contact with GC even though he is saying shit behind both of your backs like a high schooler.(and he is not alone in behaving like a highschooler)

    3. You get upset that he is seeing someone else, even though you A)have never met in person, and B) 'broke up' with him. It doesnt matter WHAT she looks like, maybe he just wants someone a little more mature, less drama, someone local...etc, Maybe he is happy to be done with all the highschool bullshit.

    So here are some suggestions for you.

    1. Never acknowledge ANY communication from GC ever again....de-friend him, block his emails, etc, that guy is worthless.

    2. Dont text ANYONE 15 times without a response. HE GOT THE MESSAGE. Texting him anything more than 2 or 3 times makes you seem like a desperate stalker.......the odds that he will respond go down with every extra text.

    3. Grow up and learn from your mistakes, dont do any of the things you have done here in future relationships.


    I doubt you can undue the things you have done and get this relationship back on track, but if you want to try i would do this.

    In a week or 2, send him ONE(or 2 or 3 if you cant fit it on one) more text, or leave him ONE voicemail, or send him ONE email....... telling him that you are sorry for all the immaturity and drama that YOU caused by trusting someone that you just met over him....and that you miss his friendship and would love it if he would give you another chance.

    If he ever contacts you, dont say anything snarky about his girlfriend...(because he has one and he likes her and he shouldnt have to apologize for it)

    wow! i don't think i could have said it better myself. sorry but soooo true.

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    I only read half of it.. but based just on that, you already told him you wanted a break. Then you msg him, making HIM confused. He did nothing wrong, all he is doing is talking with this girl, when you told him you wanted a break, he had every right to.

    Adding his friend into the relationship, I think was wrong. His friend is trying to get with you, how do you think Cas feels about that? It may seem wrong in his eyes. It should have been just with you two, and it things were fine then you should have left them this way.

    If you want to have any relationship with this guy, give him a week, write him an email and let him know you are sorry for overracting, and you want to remain friends with him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemiwinks31 View Post
    3. Grow up
    Mostly this.

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    well i told casanova that cg was trying to talk to me, and he was the one who encouraged me to get to know him! so that isnt my fault. and i was saying not that i wanted to take a break from cas and i being something but that i just didnt want to become obsessed so i was trying to back off, i was trying to help him, not me! anyway, I heard "let it burn" on the radio after i created this thread lol, so i'm taking that as a sign

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