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    Default how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    if you just got a champagne room or five lap dances in a row with one customer, how do you excuse yourself so you can go talk to other customers without him thinking you're being rude? especially if he's not gonna spend any more and just wants to buy you drinks for the rest of the night

    I find that whenever I get a champagne room, when it's over I'll say "well I gotta get back to work, it was nice talking to you, now go enjoy the other sexy ladies!" but then I'll see the guy staring at me pretty much the whole night and not buying dances from other girls and I feel bad.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    I usually get put back into rotation immediately after a CR so provided I've already asked for more time in CR and he's said no, I take the guy back to the floor and find him a seat (he can finish the champagne there if he likes) and then hop up onstage. If I need further excuse, I'll tell him I'm going to the DR to freshen up, or my boss has asked me to entertain some new clients.
    I've never had a real problem with this, although I did have one guy get really drunk and start following me around because he lost his phone (turned out he left it at home) so I told him I had a really good time with him but I think he should go home and get some sleep so he can come see me again the next night.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    You've pretty much got the idea, just stop the feeling bad part!

    Heading off to get changed can also help - as they may be inclined to either 1) not notice you slipping off elsewhere because you're wearing something different. or 2) want more dances because you're wearing something new.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    Ummm its your job thats why... Dont feel bad. He should feel bad for trying to hog your time. You are not a charity. Just tell him that you'd love to stay all night but you have to get back to work. And leave it at that. Fuck I hate it when guys act like, "oh you are just all about the money"... ummm ya duh do you go to your job and tell your boss... dont pay me today cause Im having a good time.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    "Did U hear the DJ just call me? I think he just called me…. Thank you so much…I gotta go"
    Then just disappear lol

    LOL

    But seriously, it IS your job…. He needs to respect your time. Be straight up. The above always works ^

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    If I'm having a really good conversation with a customer then I'll give him an extra song to finish otherwise I will tell him that I need to get back to work. I've never had a customer not understand this.

    The clubs that I work out kick you out of the VIP if you're done with your time and not renewing so it helps break up the awkwardness of telling your customer that you need to leave.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Ummm its your job thats why... Dont feel bad. He should feel bad for trying to hog your time. You are not a charity. Just tell him that you'd love to stay all night but you have to get back to work. And leave it at that. Fuck I hate it when guys act like, "oh you are just all about the money"... ummm ya duh do you go to your job and tell your boss... dont pay me today cause Im having a good time.

    Exactly.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    If I know they're done spending... I walk them out of the CR and to the entrance of the club. Then I say something like "Thanks for coming to see me... I can't wait till next time."


    They usually take the hint that it's time to go.
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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    ^LOL I can't imagine doing that. you've got some serious balls.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    You already got his money, who cares? As soon as I get the first no, I politely excuse myself with "its been great but I've got to get back to work then." Kiss on cheek, get up and leave. That way he knows you aren't going to sit around for free. And if he wants to keep hanging out, this is when he gets a clue that its time to hit the ATM.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    You already got his money, who cares? As soon as I get the first no, I politely excuse myself with "its been great but I've got to get back to work then." Kiss on cheek, get up and leave. That way he knows you aren't going to sit around for free. And if he wants to keep hanging out, this is when he gets a clue that its time to hit the ATM.
    yeah. I guess even though the guy stopped spending, if I know he's the type to spend big bucks I want him to like me more so if he decides to spend some more before he leaves, he'll pick me and not some other girl. I don't want to rush off leaving him with the feeling that I just used him for his money...which I totally did....but you get what I mean

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    ^LOL I can't imagine doing that. you've got some serious balls.
    Well... you know how a lot of the time when someone is trying to do something nice for you... you smile and go along with it even though it's not necessarily what you want?
    Same concept here.

    I act like I honestly just assume that they're leaving since we're done (I don't sit with customers unless they take me to the LD area and pay per song or buy a CR for convo so there's no reason for them to think we'd go sit in the main room for free)... and they just... go along with it. Out of not wanting to correct me or because they really were ready to go, idk... but it works for me.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    that's true! I never even thought of trying that

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    Default Re: how to politely excuse yourself after a champagne room or a string of dances?

    If he was rude and groopey then I just get my clothes and say I'm leaving - no explanation needed for these guys. If he was a decent customer then I will give him a kiss on the cheek or a hug and say I had a great time but I gotta get back to work. I usually talk to him whilst get dressed and get payment, so after one more song I am out of there. If he spent lots of money I don't mind spending a few extra songs talking to him as I'd probably be in a good mood by then!

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