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    so I made a thread a while ago about being overly confident and arrogant towards guys and how it kinda worked sometimes, but not with everybody.

    I noticed that if you use that attitude with young guys though, and be really aggressive and insult them a lot in a half-playful manner, you can bank off them.

    the really really young guys who come into my club with a group of friends are so easy to play like that. I'll pick the most arrogant guy out of the group and just make fun of him. I'll introduce myself, shake his hand, and then laugh at what a weak and girly handshake he has. then I'll make some joke about his appearance like "why the fuck are you wearing that fitted? you think you're a gangsta? you're white. take that stupid shit off eminem"

    if the guy is really arrogant, he won't be bothered by the insults and he'll probably try to redeem himself. mostly when I do this type of hustle with arrogant guys they'll be like "oh you know you wanna fuck me" trying to look cool in front of their friends and the I'm like "I would rather THROW UP than touch your cock with a 5 foot pole. Maybe I'd jerk you off for a million dollars, but I don't have any tweezers on me"

    if I keep this up for like 5 minutes, the guy becomes more and more intrigued by me. then I say "come on asshole let's do a dance now"

    this worked ten times in a row last night, no joke. I tried a toned down version of the bitch hustle with some older men with NO luck whatsoever so it's gotta be young guys, but damn it's really effective!

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    Very interesting ^^

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    good to hear, im normally like that after days and days working straight so hopefully i can bank off it coz i cbf being sugar and spice seductress
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    Do these kids ever have enough money to make your night though? I've only met a couple of rich 21-year-olds in my whole life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azaleanola View Post
    Do these kids ever have enough money to make your night though? I've only met a couple of rich 21-year-olds in my whole life.
    I got 2-5 dances off each of them so it adds up. it's an effective hustle. my club gets FULL of these 21yr olds but it's a big club and it's not the kind of place you want to go to without cash so most of them bring at least 100

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    so I made a thread a while ago about being overly confident and arrogant towards guys and how it kinda worked sometimes, but not with everybody.

    I noticed that if you use that attitude with young guys though, and be really aggressive and insult them a lot in a half-playful manner, you can bank off them.

    the really really young guys who come into my club with a group of friends are so easy to play like that. I'll pick the most arrogant guy out of the group and just make fun of him. I'll introduce myself, shake his hand, and then laugh at what a weak and girly handshake he has. then I'll make some joke about his appearance like "why the fuck are you wearing that fitted? you think you're a gangsta? you're white. take that stupid shit off eminem"

    if the guy is really arrogant, he won't be bothered by the insults and he'll probably try to redeem himself. mostly when I do this type of hustle with arrogant guys they'll be like "oh you know you wanna fuck me" trying to look cool in front of their friends and the I'm like "I would rather THROW UP than touch your cock with a 5 foot pole. Maybe I'd jerk you off for a million dollars, but I don't have any tweezers on me"

    if I keep this up for like 5 minutes, the guy becomes more and more intrigued by me. then I say "come on asshole let's do a dance now"

    this worked ten times in a row last night, no joke. I tried a toned down version of the bitch hustle with some older men with NO luck whatsoever so it's gotta be young guys, but damn it's really effective!
    lol oh god. this works all the time, with almost all boys 18-21 (i can only speak from experience). it's the simplest reverse psychology, they're used to girls falling all over them, so when you act like you're NOT even a little impressed, they now feel the need to win your approval.

    this also works with bitchy alpha-type girls, but yes, older people will generally see straight through your shit.

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    yes!!! love it!

    I never thought about using that with girls though. I do notice a lot of the girls in the club ARE used to getting their ass kissed.

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    This sometimes works with older guys too but you have to get the ones who think that their ass doesn't stink. I walked up to a guy, who had obviously been drinking but not drunk, said hi and proceeded to talk to him. He says "oh welcome the queen bee. You sat down like you own this club." I was like all I did was sat down. We go back and forth for a minute and before I fly off the handle he says,"So you're one of those spoiled, manipulative bitches who thinks everyone wants you, huh?" I was going to clock him but the brain said,"No, I'm the spoiled fucking bitch you're about to break yourself for. Get your ass up and come on." It fucking worked! I couldn't believe it but hey it was one of my best nites ever. Normally I would have gotten his ass put out, but words fly out of my mouth before I take them into consideration sometimes. This time it was an asset.
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    I pulled this on a birthday boy while I undressed him and whipped him onstage. Can you say VIP with not only him, but one of his friends, and dances with the rest of them? I agree that SOME older men go for it, but there are better ways to hustle them.

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    Going on 30, I ignore/avoid any guy who appears under the age of 35 to me...

    There have been one or two times when young guys seemed interested in me... and I made fun of how young they were, baby-talked them, and basically treated them like children... IT WORKED!

    Though I don't normally give the time of day to youngsters, I agree that guys under the age of 25 love to be treated like shit!
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    Wow, this is interesting. I used to ignore the young guys completely, thinking there were not enough 'trust-funds' to weed out from the herd. But this I need to try! Thanks

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    I'm in a military area; those youngsters are full with money every 1st and 15th of each month. I will pull the "I'm also military" line with them. Ah, since they tend to be lower rank than me, I can get away with being a total bitch.





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    If I can avoid customers under 35 I do.. occasionally I'll have to approach the young guys.. Being assertive works.. if I go up to them all smiles and try to talk to them like I usually do they think because, I'm young.. they're young.. we have loads in common and just want to drink.. hang out.. or ask me a million times for a date/my number..

    I'm not .. "mean" to them per se.. but, I don't pretend for a second that I like them or am interested in them.. they need to be told they're getting a dance and if I can tell I have them.. The more I tell them they're having.. Also, the hotter they think they are.. the less interested I act.. to be fair it's not hard seeing as I can't stand them.. BUT being assertive with them works..

    Older gentlemen I don't try this with at all.. most have them have a better understanding of how everything works.
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    I sometimes work at an 18+ club and am going in tonite, its really high hustle so I was looking for some tips to get back in that kind of game...I am soooo gonna try this tonite, it shouldn't be hard since most of those little 19-21 year olds are annoying as fuck....Bitch ON!

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    ^yeah I worked at a club just like that. it's funny because I didn't figure out until AFTER I quit there that you have to be real assertive with the young guys however there was ONE night where this dude was just pissing me off so much. you know the type of guy who's like "I don't want a dance, but my friend wants one!" the friend NEVER wants a dance so I grabbed the guy by the shirt and said "look I'm not TAKING no for an answer so let's fucking GO" and even the extras girl who never talks to ANYBODY was like "you go girl!"

    it's too bad I never made that connection until waaaaaaaaaaay later. the days where I was such a newbie stripper I didn't even fathom there could be different hustling techniques lol

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    Men love to be messed with. The younger ones do love a mean bitch, the older ones like a sweet girl with a little pepper. "Well, I'd love to dance for you, but I'm afraid you'll have a heart attack."

    With the older guys, start out nice and gradually turn up the moxy as you go along. Work with his comfort level. A little physical abuse sometimes goes a long way, as well. Push him back in his chair, give him a light slap when he says something cheeky. As long as you're smiling they understand it's playful. Contact is contact and men love it!

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    yeah i make good money being rude but i do it in a silly cute way they eat it up its weird but it works
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    The smartass approach always worked well for me


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    I was going around for my tips and this one guy was pulling the "I'm good" routine. I told him "Are you illiterate, motherfucker? The sign says tipping is mandatory. But if you are illiterate I used to volunteer for a literacy outreach program and I would be happy to be of assistance" my voice was dripping with sarcasm. (I did do community outreach)

    He grudgingly hands me a dollar and I said "Fuck you, I don't need your $1" and walked off. All of a sudden I heard a chuckle and a Scottish accent. BOIIIING! "I love a wee fiery lassie". I wound up selling about 10 dances in a row to this guy visiting from Glasgow. Some hotrod expo was in town. OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He was HOT.
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    I will try to give this method of hustle a try. I am usually very nice to guys and that works for me. But this one sounds like a lot more fun. And Oh ya, Ive banked off young guys, if they dont have money on them all they need is a credit card. They are more likely to make an "impulse purchase"

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I was going around for my tips and this one guy was pulling the "I'm good" routine. I told him "Are you illiterate, motherfucker? The sign says tipping is mandatory. But if you are illiterate I used to volunteer fora literacy outreach program and I would be happy to be of assistance" my voice was dripping with sarcasm. (I did do community outreach)

    He grudgingly hands me a dollar and I said "Fuck you, I don't need your $1" and walked off. All of a sudden I heard a chuckle and a Scottish accent. BOIIIING! "I love a wee fiery lassie". I wound up selling about 10 dances in a row to this guy visiting from Glasgow. Some hotrod expo was in town. OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He was HOT.
    hahahaha I do the same thing to dudes. I'm the feistiest dancer at my club and I capitalize off that. I'm not that hang out and chit chat type of girl, I'm more like GIVE ME YOUR MONEY and I'll give you a good time.

    whenever I ask a young dude for a dance and he's like "uhhh I dunnooo...." I'm like "tick tock...ok you're being indecisive, LET'S GO!" and drag him by the collar

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    This one bitch was trolling after my customer on the way to the CR I said, "here give her $1 so she can buy a new wig. You can write it off on your taxes as a charitable donation."
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