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Last edited by teaze; 09-21-2012 at 03:39 PM.





Ewwwww..... I hate hover-custies just as much as I hate sweat-pants-boner-men. They are so creepy!
There are a couple of things you can do.
1. Try to ignore him... really obviously ignore him... Don't meet his eyes, don't respond if he says hi, if he gets close just pretend he isn't there. Talk to a guy, any guy and pretend you are in the midst of the most amazing conversation... most hover-custies won't come up to you when you're obviously with someone else.
2. If you feel like communicating, make up some excuse... I have to go on stage, I have to freshen up in the dressing room, I promised this other customer some dances first (and then conveniently forget all about him and talk to anyone and everyone else).
3. Tell him straight up: "This fantasy is not for me. It makes me uncomfortable. I'm not interested in dancing for you so please leave me alone." Also, depending on the situation you can make it more cute--- "I hope you find the right girl for you and have lots of fun tonight, good luck!"
Be firm and unwavering without being rude (at first)... if he persists you can repeat your stance or call security. I have used this technique very successfully and without stirring up drama.
4. Speak to security at your club. Tell them about this customer, his particular request, and his creepy stalker-like behavior. Ask them if they could have a word with him. At this point he should get the clue.
There's plenty of girls who have this fetish too.
After being a webcam model and a dancer for 4 months, not much surprises me anymore... but I have to admit, the whole father/daughter fetish makes me sick to my stomach.
I've had guys approach me and tell me I look just like/remind them of their daughter and I have absolutely no problem telling them in so many words to fuck off.
"Everything in the world is about sex; except sex, that's about power."
-Wilde





I think I shared this once before but...
I met a girl in a club in Charlotte that used to bank off of guys with young girl fetishes. Since the club was owned by MAL I had no doubt that she was of age, but it was disturbing just to see her. She looked so damned young! She was small, had a babby face, wore her hair in pigtails and had on a little schoolgirl outfit. If I met her on the street I would have pegged her at 13-14 years old. She told me that some of the guys wanted her to role play and to be called "Daddy" during VIP sessions.
While I don't understand fetish guys in general, IMHO any consensual activities that happen between two adults is cool. But how a girl banks off of these types of guys without taking some heavy psychic damage is beyond me.




You can always pull a ROB if he doesn't leave you alone by
quoting him a high price, going back into VIP with him, and
then just doing your normal dance. When he complains tell him
that fantasy freaks you out and you'll just dance. When he complains
again, leave.
I don't advocate ROBs but this is one way to get him mad enough
that he might avoid your club for awhile or at least be creepy to
someone else. Because really, if he's going to eyeball you, you
may as well get paid WELL for it. I had one custy who really bugged me one time and when
he came back and requested me I told him he had to pay $150 up front
(this was day shift at a really small club.) well he got really offended
and walked out because I wouldn't dance for him. But HAD I gotten the
$150 I was only planning on making it an all air dance and screw him for
being a creepy dude (not with this fetish but still creepy.)




What does ROB stand for?
Goodbye Seattle Lusty Lady, where every Miss is a Hit, and every Hit is Missed. 1985-2010.



Rip off bitch
You should totally be like "Yeah, I'll pretend you're my daddy" get him back to VIP and then just sulk around the room glaring at him and if he tries to say anything just be like "Go away! I hate you! You're the worst daddy ever! I can't BELIEVE you! You're so embarrassing!" And similar horribly obnoxious teenager-ey things. Rofl.



^ Delightful solution. Off topic, but too-young dancers (I've a son pushing 24) is one reason I've backed off stripclubbing. When did I become the creepy old guy? Sigh.









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