I've been in this business since I was in undergrad (around '06). Through the years I've seen many of my fellow dancer friends quit the business and start companies, careers and have families.
I'm concerned about my older friends who are still in the game and doing very poorly. They seem so miserable and while they want to get out, they don't have any solid plan. I recently spoke to a dear friend who's been in the sensual massage business for 14 years. Before that, she was a dancer. She is now 43. Although she is still attractive it's getting harder for her to get clients due to her age. So while she is working, it's hardly consistent income. She lost her apartment and she's now living in her car with her 2 dogs.(And yeah, I offered her a place to stay, but I live several states away). Another friend is 41 and been escorting for a few years. She has a college education, but she complains of feeling "trapped" like she can't figure a way out.
All of this got me to thinking, how do you know it's time to move on? Should a newcomer to the industry map out an exit strategy/retirement plan of some sort?
Ladies I'd love to hear your thoughts on this issue.



(And yeah, I offered her a place to stay, but I live several states away). Another friend is 41 and been escorting for a few years. She has a college education, but she complains of feeling "trapped" like she can't figure a way out.
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Her age is none of their business anyway.
It's not only an age issue. Young and beautiful ladies (with lower donation amounts) are entering the business everyday so it's making it harder for the more seasoned ones to hold onto clients. Basically I think she's fighting a losing battle but I wouldn't dare tell her because I don't want to kick her while she's down.

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