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    So I started dancing 3 januaries ago. I consider myself attractive and men usually find me very pretty (im a slim brunette long hair etc) but Ive always been SHY and NEVER APPROACHED ANYONE. thats right, I NEVER WENT UP to talk to anyone.Somehow guys always came up to me and I made as much if not more than the other girls in the club. Now, I moved to a bigger city where the girls are much prettier.. lol and more fierce in their hustle, and had ot learn to hustle, which I still couldnt. I moved because of extreme drama with the ex.. stupid me I didnt cut it like I should have and he came and we continued it.. and it culminated into a very effed up end that broke me and something in my mind "snapped". I stopped seing men as humans. I hATED MEN. I stopped dancing for 2 1/12 months because they disgusted me so much I didnt want to be around them. now Ive got this ANGRY attitude towards men and see then as nothing but wallets and things who I can play and take their money and thats it.. went back to the club recently and I have NO FEAR of hustly whatsoever anymore... I just walk upto a guy and sell them within 2 minutes, and have banked, and have seriously not one guy turn me down. Its SO messed up that I had such a huge turnaround when I genuinely stopped giving a fuck and started hating them and was a super bitch. Anyone else with a similar story? men confuse me. when I used to be shy and ask them for a dance id get some yesses and some maybe later. Now Im not shy im confidenjt I walk up to them and tell themhow they are coming with me and not one single person says no, when Im a bitch. its wierd

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    Default Re: Something just snapped in my head.. or you could call it click..

    good for you girl! lol I noticed after a few months of dancing when I stopped viewing customers as people I made a LOT more money. I don't see ALL men as wallets, but I do get what I want and quickly from most of the men in my life lol

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    damn lol i wish i could still be a bitch too people and make money like that i think im just too nice too bbe mean to custies lmao maybe i oughta start trying that out i might start to bank more
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    Default Re: Something just snapped in my head.. or you could call it click..

    Congratulations! Got any specific tips?

    I started a thread asking about bitchy techniques but didn't get much of a response. (http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=147811)

    I'm glad this approach is working out for you. If you care to share, I'm all ears.

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    it was a lot in how I perceived them that changed and changed my hustle.. I no longer saw them as men but as less than human scagbags (yes Im coming on a little strong) that are not worth shit so Im not scared of getting rejected by them,im so much better than them just by being female. With that in mind I would walk up to a guy knowing I would sell him because he is infinitely inferior and im muchbetter and that confidence showed through, I didnt act like I was better than hi, but it showed through and was felt, I guess. Its a little hard to explain. Just dont give a shit about them and they somehow like that (there is a right balance though you know, dont ever be rude unless youre joking, just super confident)

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    I think it's more the way that you present yourself than the fact that you don't see them as human. Since you don't see them as human (probably not the healthiest outlook, but you know that) you don't give a fuck what they say or do or think of you so you're giving off a carefree, take no shit, "take it or leave it, I don't give a fuck" super confident vibe in the way you present yourself. People are drawn to that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    I think it's more the way that you present yourself than the fact that you don't see them as human. Since you don't see them as human (probably not the healthiest outlook, but you know that) you don't give a fuck what they say or do or think of you so you're giving off a carefree, take no shit, "take it or leave it, I don't give a fuck" super confident vibe in the way you present yourself. People are drawn to that.

    You've said it pretty well. And no probably not the healthiest outlook,I realise that, but I can't really help it and in time I will get back to normal I believe. And yes ^^ thats basically the attitude I had that made me do a killing. Sophia if you want the bitch hustle that is the vibe you want to give off, not necesarilly being a "bitch" to the customer per say, I was still not out of bound wiht them by any means.

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    Default Re: Something just snapped in my head.. or you could call it click..

    yep. my biggest problem in this business is that i see them as people.

    and the funny thing is that they tend to see the bitches who hate them as nice, and the nice girls who respect them as human beings and mean and/or bitchy.

    which could explain why they're in a strip club in the first place.

    i don't know why, but i just can't let go of the idea of them as humans. and it sucks. the closest i can get is when i work after pulling an all-nighter. i'm too tired to give a fuck about people in general, so that helps my money some.
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    Default Re: Something just snapped in my head.. or you could call it click..

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    It's so hard to have that "Psh who needs you" attitude when it's very obvious that I do.
    I kind of loled at that.

    Hmm its not so much of a pshh who needs you attitude... last night that I worked, and made 710$ was monday night, there was almost no one in the club,like less than ten.. but when I walked up to the few that WERE there it wasnt an (I dont actually really think that or are that self absorbed but just trying to explain kind of the way Iacted)"i dont need you" attitude but more of a" You nasty man you shouldconsider yourselflucky that someone like me even talks to you and not spending time with me in the back would be stupid and barely thinkable to you and you would regret if you didnt"sort of mindset, i guess, hard to explain, but all while still smiling and flirting, but very confidently.
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