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    I just tried out a new club in my area and there's this one dancer that pushes buttons of mine that havent been pushed in YEARS!
    This girl is the sexiest, sweetest girl Ive ever met in a strip club! She makes me feel like a million bucks(which I know is her profession) and I dont want her to feel weird around me. So should I tell her how she makes me feel or will that make things weird?

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    Just buy more dances from her.. We hear the same thing all over again how men want this, or how we are that..

    Money talks, and if you become her regular, she'll give you more attention which will make you a happy man.

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    She's already made me a very happy man! I can't wait to see her again she has that effect on me!

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    I think they're happy to hear about how great you think they are, as long as you don't make it creepy.

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    I always enjoyed the compliments, especially if they were spending money. Just be careful not to sound creepy/stalkerish and be honest with your praise and not too over the top!
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    often, when guys lay on the flatter and get really nice, they can't help but hope that the girl will be like "wow, i really like you too, we should go out sometime". and when she doesn't (because even if she does like you, she probably has a valid reason for not dating customers), they feel disappointed, and some of their interest fades. things that remain unsaid are often far more powerful. even if you are totally cool just getting dances from her in the club, it'll still make it less fun for you if you spill your guts. just keep quiet and let the money say it for you. unless you want to stop going, then i guess saying it will help you ween yourself off of her.
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    crownrep,

    I am willing to lend a helping hand. But first, I have to learn where you are coming from.

    What is your objective in telling her how you feel about her? What do you want out of it?

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    What Kisca, PJ, and SSS have said is all on the money. Enjoy your time with her, enjoy what it does for you and how it makes you feel. I'm no stranger to this myself, I call them "stripper crushes" and they're lots of fun (but expensive, lol). Keep it in the club, within your budget, and enjoy it while it lasts.

    IF it ever goes anywhere, it must be HER idea, and not one planted by you. Pursuing her for more than your time in the club will ruin the experience for both of you and has a 90% or better chance of failure. SSS addressed this and it's true.

    Those of us who HAVE or have had relationships that started this way all tell the same story - we spent a lot of time and money, and one day the dancer mentioned that she was into us and would like to see what would be possible.

    DON'T COUNT ON IT. Personally speaking, of my dozens of stripper crushes over the years, this happened with 2 for whatever reason. I'm lucky and an exception to the rule, lol - and again, I emphasize that that's 2 out of dozens. Not dancers I've bought dances from, dancers I was a regular for and had a connection with.

    Enjoy!
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    ^^^^ I absolutely second this!

    There is no harm in telling her how you feel as long as it is kept light and complimentary. I love hearing about how good I make guys feel, but it does bug me when guys cross over into that creepy, kind-of-emo, you must be my soulmate stuff...I dislike the idea of having that much power over someone, or being THAT important to them. But just telling her that you really think that she is amazing is perfectly reasonable.

    I also second that the best way that you can show her how much you like her is to spend money on her! Spend time with her, and have fun.

    It sounds like you are trying to remember that this is a job, and not get your hopes up...good for you! I appreciate customers who can enjoy the experience without starting to believe that I will run away with them...lol
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    Thanks to all for the advice!
    I have been back 3 times this week and took alot of your advice. I decided to get to know her by spending time & $$ with her. I went during the slow time where I could hang out & get to know her better. I got 4 dances & tipped an extra $20 - she worked the room & when she came around without a new customer, I got 2 more dances.
    I love havin' a "stripper crush" I am a very lucky man to have met in the flesh - my dream sex partner!
    I haven't felt this damn good in a long time and knowing the boundaries makes things alot easier. I look foward to our meeting next week, the funny thing is she works on the side for a divorce lawyer! LOL

    She is so fuckin' awesome! She seduces you mentally & physically but at the same time you know that you aint gettin the cooch!!

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    Default Re: Im REALLY attracted to my regular dancer

    What city are you in?

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    Quote Originally Posted by crownrep View Post
    She is so fuckin' awesome! She seduces you mentally & physically but at the same time you know that you aint gettin the cooch!!
    Enjoy your stripper crush, but avoid excessive alcohol if it is going to make you say or do anything stupid.

    Stripper crushes are nice, but if it starts to become an infatuation, take a break and get dances from another sweet and sexy dancer.

    Listen for clues that she's willing to provide extras - if that's what you're interested in.

    Remember, she's fantasy figure... The real girl behind the stripper mask is probably as flawed as the other woman/women in your life. (No offense to dancers.)
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    No dancer will take offense to that Jack; they post in the "I'm in love with a stripper" threads to no end, trying to convince guys of that very thing, lol.

    Re Hunstsville, AL - just wondering.

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    Thanks Jack,
    I think I'll stick with my fantasy of who I want her to be and just enjoy it for what it is. Thanks for reminding me, but DAMNIT there's so many things about her that turn me on and get my blood flowing!
    I dont know, maybe she does remind me of an old flame, as a matter of fact - she does and that relationship didn't work either'
    Ive just got to keep it in check, maybe take a break for a little while & cool my jets before I do say something stupid & ruin everything!

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    Quote Originally Posted by crownrep View Post
    Huntsville Al
    isn't that home of Antoine Dodson? lol sorry I know that's off topic.

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    It's OK to be emotionally honest with her, but make sure you've been completely honest with yourself first.

    A dancer has every right to make you feel like a million bucks and not date you.

    You have every right to ask, but no right to be a jerk if the highly probable scenario occurs.

    The only thing I'll tell you is be prepared to be exploited if you've met the wrong girl. Again, make sure you're being honest with yourself before you embark on any of this.

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