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    Default Help me get my mojo back!

    I've been sick for the past 3 days or so. Today has been the first day I've felt decent enough to get on cam... but I'm just SO out of it and uninspired! I got on to AW paid chat for a while but felt so self-conscious and nervous about it that I actually canceled my first group show, then logged off because I just didn't feel like dealing with it.

    How do you handle "getting back into the groove" after a hiatus? I only need to make $100 more for rent this month which seems easy enough but I feel so nervous and weird... I just can't seem to get back into "sexy money-maker" mode.

    Anyone else experience the same thing?

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    Default Re: Help me get my mojo back!

    I do this everytime I take off "too long". I get all nervous and neurotic. It's easier for me to slip back in using adultwork than Streamate, though. Streamate gives me nasty anxiety when I haven't worked there in a while...

    of course once you're there and doing it, it feels great & easy.

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    Default Re: Help me get my mojo back!

    I always feel this same way as well! what i would probably do is log into aw and do pvt only After the first show you always feel eased in to things. then log back out and set up your normal way, i always find it easier to deal with one person at the start .

    Funny how we feel that way isent it? But honestly i always feel after you have done one show your ready to tackle the rest " its that first one that gets you this way"

    I was off for a week as well and thankfully my first show was a reg so im raring to go now but its deadio lol!!!

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    Yeah, happens to me sometimes. As bun said, especially if I didn't work. I just take a few deep breaths and ask myself wtf do I think is gonna happen to me when I go online that's scaring me. Usually I come up with nothing, lol and when I get online and do the first or at least second show, it goes away. Just try to do something that really relaxes you before you get online, put make up on while you're listening to your fav music... That way it shouldn't be too traumatic. And then you drag your sexy ass in front of cam, you know you have tons of fans there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MistyRose View Post
    Yeah, happens to me sometimes. As bun said, especially if I didn't work. I just take a few deep breaths and ask myself wtf do I think is gonna happen to me when I go online that's scaring me. Usually I come up with nothing, lol and when I get online and do the first or at least second show, it goes away. Just try to do something that really relaxes you before you get online, put make up on while you're listening to your fav music... That way it shouldn't be too traumatic. And then you drag your sexy ass in front of cam, you know you have tons of fans there.
    Best advice ever! ....especially this part: "I just take a few deep breaths and ask myself wtf do I think is gonna happen to me when I go online that's scaring me. Usually I come up with nothing"

    Im so glad Im not alone in my weird fear of being on cam. I mean seriously...whats gonna happen? If I hate it and all the guys are assholes, I can turn off my laptop lol. No big deal.

    Good luck Smurfette...you can do eet!

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    Default Re: Help me get my mojo back!

    Happens to me too. I just have to make myself get on for a set time, maybe even as little as 15 minutes. First show I get seems to get me right back in the groove.

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    Default Re: Help me get my mojo back!

    Thanks everyone! I knew I couldn't be the only one who felt this way sometimes...

    Well I wimped out yesterday and never got online. But today I'm really motivated. I just cashed out from MGF so seeing funds delivered to me helps me get out of my slump a bit.

    I feel fine physically but my nose & my head is so stuffed up... it's really no excuse not to work though. I'm gonna put in some good hours on AW.. hopefully by the end of the day I'll be back to my usual self.

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    I've been sick for last 2 .5 weeks. Going to Dr. tomorrow, but it has hurt my motivation because of all the sinus pressure and fatigue. I just slow down when I need a break since camming isn't my only source of income.

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    I just found this and it actually works!

    http://www.mind-energy.net/archives/...out-drugs.html

    Ah, I love the internet.

    Off to work now.

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    Default Re: Help me get my mojo back!

    I get, not anxious but...barrier to entry, you know? Like, "ugh, it's going to take an hour to turn on the lights and make the bed and put on makeup...then I'm only going to have 4 hours before I have to go to beddd and I have to make dinnerrrr" and it gets so, so easy to just not do it.

    What I've found is helpful is to turn on the cam while I'm setting up. Just a low earning site for you or a voyeur cam. It's like, "well I'm already on and making a tiny bit of money...I could be making more if I put my makeup on..."


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