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    Question Vanilla job dilemma (kinda long)

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    I declined the vanilla job this past weekend and decided to stick with camming. Thank you girls, for reading and posting here.
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    Default Re: Vanilla job dilemma (kinda long)

    Personally, I would cam, cam hard, and save so that you can prevent the unstable element of camming (computer death, internet, health issue, surprise bill), save up, visit with your boyfriend, go to school, and get a job in a related field after you finish your degree (or after you're out of your financial crisis)

    Lots of people have the luxury to work a job with very low pay for experience's sake, none of these people have a boyfriend with a terminal illness, bills to pay, family crisis, etc. A nice job in your field is great, but you can't afford it right now and you wouldn't be able to continue your schooling as well because of it.

    This is of course, just my opinion and I wish you the best of it, girl. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Vanilla job dilemma (kinda long)

    ok normally I would say take the job
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    in your particular circumstances I'd say that if you enjoy camming (or at least don't find it too bad ) then camming would probably be the way to go for now. You can finish up your studies and then worry about getting relevant work. You still have plenty of time. If you were older and out of school for a long time then I think things would be different. Just give yourself the least stress you can in the difficult situation you are in. But that's just me
    Good luck whichever way you go x

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    Default Re: Vanilla job dilemma (kinda long)

    I would say cam because with everything you have on your plate, camming allows you the flexibility that most jobs don't. Take some days, maybe a week to really think about what is right for you. Pray, fast, meditate or whatever you do that works for you.

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    for your situation cam and saving that money as well. goodluck!

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    Thank you, girls. Camming is what I'm leaning to, due to all the positives mentioned, I'm just scared I'll decline the job and all of a sudden start making nothing, lol. Or my computer will die the moment I hang up the phone and say no to the job. I guess I should stop being a wuss.

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    you dont sound excited about this job so the answer is easy- just say "no thanks."
    there will be plenty of job offers in your field when you graduate and in the mean time you can intern PART TIME or during the summer. it is not right for any company to expect you to intern full time (which is what it sounds like if its miserable pay), but if youre in the film and tv industry i know some people exploit people this way.

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