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    Last edited by Athenathefabulous; 02-25-2011 at 02:52 AM.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Go to the local police station. Write up a report and ask what you should do in order to proect yourself. A resitiating order may be filed as well.

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    Stalking.
    Harassment.
    Libel.
    Slander.

    Conducted over State lines?

    Take it Federal.

    For proof you need your Facebook messages real account.

    Screen shots of the fake account.

    Any email you have from Crazy and her stunt dick. especially if it has the ISP.

    Multiple emails of a time period. Printed off.

    Proof of the multiple accounts made that attempted contact.

    Phone records from the club that originate in a specific State.


    Head on down to the FBI office in the Federal building all pretty and sweet.

    You will unleashed the salt covered, spiked, horse cock dildo, that ejaculates lemon juice into her life that is a Federal investigation into wrong doing.

    The FBI brings their friends from the DEA, IRS, ICE, and the Postal Inspector for nostalgia's sake.

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    WHAT THE FUCK. This bitch has gone too far.....what a psycho. It's worse than a crazy customer Continue to be persistent with the police, I know they're not going to be very helpful at first (when I had a stalker they barely did anything...it was terrible), but the harassment needs to stop. A restraining order, or even the police calling her up to question her might be enough to scare her off and let her know that you aren't going to tolerate this bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    one of my friends suggested the fbi and linked me to this site: http://www.fbi.gov/about-us/investigate/cyber/cyber. at first i thought he was kidding but i dont think he was... i thought that fbi mostly dealt with identity theft (the bank account kind, not the facebook kind). would they even really care about something like this? because while i am extremely upset about this situation, i know this is not nearly as bad as what a lot of ppl experience...
    Even though it's not that bad, it could potentially escalate into a dangerous situation (I've been watching waaaay too much Investigation Discovery Network lately). You never know what people are capable of. I'm pretty sure you taking legal action will be enough to scare her off though, just showing her that you ARE willing to take it to that level will send her the message that it's not a game.

    I had a customer a couple years back steal my phone and was calling my family telling them how he was going to kill me,calling the club saying the same shit, that he knew where I lived etc.. One phone call from the police and he disappeared. Sometimes that's all it takes with these people.. they don't think you're going to go to the police and when you do they back off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    one of my friends suggested the fbi and linked me to this site: . at first i thought he was kidding but i dont think he was... i thought that fbi mostly dealt with identity theft (the bank account kind, not the facebook kind). would they even really care about something like this? because while i am extremely upset about this situation, i know this is not nearly as bad as what a lot of ppl experience...
    You bring your proof and make your case. The FBI can be involved because the criminal acts cross State Lines.

    Title 18 United States Criminal code

    § 875. Interstate communications

    (d) Whoever, with intent to extort from any person, firm, association, or corporation, any money or other thing of value, transmits in interstate or foreign commerce any communication containing any threat to injure the property or reputation of the addressee or of another or the reputation of a deceased person or any threat to accuse the addressee or any other person of a crime, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than two years, or both.

    § 2261A. Stalking

    (2) with the intent—
    (A) to kill, injure, harass, or place under surveillance with intent to kill, injure, harass, or intimidate, or cause substantial emotional distress to a person in another State or tribal jurisdiction or within the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of the United States; or
    (B) to place a person in another State or tribal jurisdiction, or within the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of the United States, in reasonable fear of the death of, or serious bodily injury to—
    (i) that person;
    (ii) a member of the immediate family (as defined in section 115 [1] of that person; or
    (iii) a spouse or intimate partner of that person;
    uses the mail, any interactive computer service, or any facility of interstate or foreign commerce to engage in a course of conduct that causes substantial emotional distress to that person or places that person in reasonable fear of the death of, or serious bodily injury to, any of the persons described in clauses (i) through (iii) of subparagraph (B); [2]

    They may burden you with more collection of evidence. They may ask you to provide more evidence of harassment, for example your emails.


    Keep in mind your opening yourself up to Investigation too. Be aware that you don't need Law Enforcement coming across any emails referencing recreational pharma and unreported monetary income.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    yea i dont think i want the fbi investigating me etc.

    a standard police report wouldnt open me up to investigation though, would it? i like jadelove's idea where tehy call her up and hopefully she backs off. im assuming that a standard police report is not going to invite the LE to read my internet stuff?

    also there are no emails... only facebook. she did go around trying to get my email from other people though... fortunately nobody gave it to her.
    Can you spare $300 to have a Lawyer draft a letter explaining her actions are
    A) Criminal Acts
    B) Civil offenses
    C) Will be moved to Federal Court for maximization of penalties, if all activities are not ceased immediately and a letter of apology not made as public as the harassment has been.

    ?

    Emphasis that the penalties are time spent in a Federal Prison.

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    I think a regular phone call from the police will be fine just now. Do get to the office when you can to file a report (for furture refences, if she becomes worse). Ask the officer to call her and ask her to stop all her actions that involve you. Hopefully they are able to call, or do something along the lines of telling her to stop. Keep trying if they say no. If she becomes worse, go back and annoy the hell of the station until they take action, its their job afterall.

    If she becomes worse, then getting a laywer, and other parties seems favourable.. but all it takes is a phone, or a visit at times. Take screenshots of everything she did, wrote, included what your friends told you about her. She probably thinks you are playing with her, maybe she'll think the police call is fake... and *too many things to image that she'll do..

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    Everyone has good advice. If she saying she would come to your home, work, and school. I would show her picture and explain shes your ex gf and she been harassing you and if you filed a report with the police and she shows up.. well its not going to be a happy ending for her.

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    Have you reported this to FaceBook?

    http://www.facebook.com/help/?page=798

    Personal Privacy Abuse

    I need to report an impostor profile.

    If someone has created an account to impersonate or imitate you, please go to the impostor profile and click "Report/block this person" at the bottom of the left column. Check the "Report this Person" box, choose "Fake Profile" as the reason, and add "Impersonating me or someone else" as the report type. Be sure to add a valid web address (URL) leading to the real profile so that we can review the information.

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    ^ Numerous people on fb, including myself have all reported the profile.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    ^^It's really starting to sound like maybe they're both involved. Unless you've mentioned at some point on your wall that you were allergic to apples. I'm sure she's read the whole thing.

    But... idk... "Honey is she allergic to any foods?" just doesn't seem like something even a stalker would think to ask. It'd make more sense for someone who knew you well to throw that in.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    I agree with all of the above. A few years ago I had an online stalker and they created a profile of me on MySpace. I reported it and called the local police. They kept it on file in case they caused trouble.

    At work be very careful. Have someone walk you to your car and tell someone at work about this. The way she sounds she could do anything from shoot at you to throw acid in your face. I would check into a restraining order if possible but may not be able to get that unless she attacks in person.

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    I found this page with Facebook Law Enforcement Subpoena Guides

    http://publicintelligence.net/confid...007-2010/#2010

    Perhaps someone in law enforcement can get them to help you if they're not responding.

    I agree with JadeLove that you should have the police contact them. I received a threatening call once, so I had the police call that person, and they never bothered me again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    if i had a post on one of hte facebook status battles that mentioned i have done blow on a rare occasion at work, could that cause problems for me? i thought you couldnt get in trouble for posting stuff about drug use... only if there was pictures or what not. oy this is why i do not like involving the law.
    Yes, it could cause problems for you. I strongly suggest that you delete anything you posted regarding the use of any illegal drugs on FaceBook. or anywhere else on the internet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    ^^It's really starting to sound like maybe they're both involved.
    I can't help but to agree with this. The focus of these complaints has been her, but where is she coming up with all of this detailed information? At the very least he is running his mouth.

    I'm not sure what his angle is here, but you might want to tell him to cut the shit and make her do the same while he's at it. There's something seriously wrong here when these two feel the need to focus so much of their thoughts and energy on you, the ex.

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    ^It occurs to me that he COULD just be running his mouth WHINING about her 24/7 and that's why the new GF is crazy, obsessed, and knows way too much detail.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    ^I guess anything is possible, but I have trouble believing that he doesn't know anything about what's happening.

    But even if he is really unaware of the situation, IMHO he still needs to be told to shut his mouth about what he learned about Athena while they shared confidences. He also needs to take some responsibility for stopping the misuse of personal details that were not his to share in the first place.
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