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    Default Helpful hints for top 5 cam questions?

    1. How do i get a guy to go pvt?
    -Personaly , I dont greet everyone who enters, unless its slooowww. Guys will go pvt only if they are interested.

    2-What do i say when they ask if there attractive , or i like there penis?
    You dont have to awww them , simply say "Its nice" Or "Ohh How Big".
    If they are ugly , But asss ugly , Just say , Aww your cute , the effort (because they know they arnt cute) will count for something.

    3-What do you say when they want to meet in real life.
    -NO , make it VERY clear there is NO chance , Dont ever ever lead them on
    that makes a stalker , If they cant get it , No matter how sweet they are. BAN them.

    4-I dont do anal , Squirt , or even penetrates , will i make money?
    Its called faking it , most of us are masters of this. Its not hard. And earns money in all thoughs categories.

    5-People are mean to me , its really depressing me , should i quit.
    Well , yes , if its causing you a emotional impact , camming isnt for you.

    We all have our off days , But if you think its effecting your mood , and life
    Its not shameful to want to bow out gracefully. You and your well being is ALWAYS first. I guess that line describes any question for camming there is. YOu AND YOUR WELLBEING IS ALWAYS FIRST.


    These are just my opinions on these questions. not facts.
    Whats yours?
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    I can't stress the "NO REAL MEETS IN PERSON" enough... I get asked this all the time and tell the guys that I'm only interested in online fun, here and now. They will try to convince me that "it's SO much better in person, I'll make you happy", etc.. and I'll say, "what makes you think I'm not happy?". In a way, them playing the " Knight in Shining Armor " act is insulting. It is best to NEVER lead them on just because you want to make money!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    4-I dont do anal , Squirt , or even penetrates , will i make money?
    Its called faking it , most of us are masters of this. Its not hard. And earns money in all thoughs categories.
    I was thinking of doing this but I am really naive and have no clue how to fake it so that it looks real. Any advice on how to position our bodies towards the webcam so that they can't see that we're faking it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittykrane View Post
    It is best to NEVER lead them on just because you want to make money!


    I agree with this! And after all, we can't stand it either when guys play mind games with us in real life and use us.

    If you lead a guy (customer) on, eventually he will find out, because he's gonna keep nagging you about the in-person meeting...he's NOT gonna let it go. If he discovers that you were BSing him, he'll probably get pissed off and find some other chick(s) to spend his money on, and if doing a chargeback is possible, he may do that too + post a negative review/rating for you.

    In my opinion, it's best to just make it clear that you will not meet in person. There's ways to do this without coming off "bitchy." Just smile and be like "Aw, I'm flattered, babe, but I don't meet up in person...I'm sorry, sweetie." If they keep nagging you about it every damn time they come into your room, ban their ass. Fuck his money. There are lots of other horny guys on the internet who will pay for a cam show, AND they've got enough sense to know that it won't go any further than that.

    I've had guys come into my MFC public chat bugging me about meeting in person, and the other guys in the room just laughed at them. LOL. They laughed at their asses and basically told me "Good for you for not agreeing to meet that perv." I'm cool with raffling off pics, items, etc., but I don't see myself doing any "Meet me" raffles. If they're that horny where a cam show just ain't enough, they can browse the Craigslist personals section or Backpage.
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    I agree with this as well. I'm getting alot of "sugar daddy types" that beg to meet. I would say they are usually 65yrs old+ They get creepy even when you say no. They stick around talk you to death. On any other site other than MFC I would suggest to watch how much time you spend with these types. They tend to sit and talk for hours for free . What happens is that other men will think you are busy and pass your room right by. So he has no money but he's also blocking you from making money. Politely let these guys go. Also don't be so quick to chat with any guy that says ooh I'm having a bad day, or I need advice. Once again this guy is usually looking for free attention. Why does this grown man all of a sudden need your advice? I only say this from experience. The guy is usually whacking away or he's trying to block you from other men.

    Chat for alittle while I say keep it to 15-20 max. When you can see this guy is just looking for free attention, try a nice comment to send him on his way:

    I just started saying : Well wow that was a great conversation. Thanks for stopping by and have a nice day. If they get nasty like wait is that it? Say ooh were you looking for a private? They will feel dumb and say no and so ok well that was fun, take care and have a good weekend. This guy will usually stay in the room a few moments longer but divert your attention to a book or something behind your comp. Reapply make up and just look busy with other things.

    Also there are guys that never spend on the site and really just pop in for free attention.
    When you get a guy that says " Ohh I'm about to go to bed" but you've seen him on the site for the last 5 hrs. Trust that he's not going to bed. This comment he's saying is his get out of doing a private card. So instead of him talking you to death. Just send him on his way. And soo Oh well thanks for stopping bye and good night

    I just started doing this and one guy in particular felt like such a fool that he said ...ok lol. and left. Nothing is worse than someone trying to spend your time for free.

    Also cover your feet on cam.
    I don't show my feet unless either a tip is given or I'm taken private. Most will want to see more than your feet but walking around with your feet showing in front of a foot fetish guy.. is like walking around topless.

    Also don't engage in too sexual a conversation with a guest or member. This to them is free phone sex with video. Politely stir the conversation back to something boring and penis flattening. Yes I know this sounds bad but I used to get alot of guys wanking in free chat.

    Beware of certain submissives:
    A good 75% are just attention whores. If you have someone come in and start going on and on about their wife makes them do this to men and blah blah blah. He's just in your room because another man is. These types only pop up when you're speaking to another man. They want the man's attention and are using you to get it. Kick them from your room and resume your conversation.

    Believe me when I say, I've tried to ignore these above and 98% of the time I messed up my income potential for the night.

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    My responses to will you meet, "I've never done that before! How would I know you weren't a creepy murderer serial killer?" And everytime they ask, I just suggest that they're going to kill me. This seems to give them enough incentive to keep on trying to convince me they're not going to kill me (with their wallet, of all things, smh) but enough to where they know I'm not going to meet Joe Blow. I don't get many creepy guys, just people trying to convince me that I would love to meet them... and let me face it. A very attractive well mannered respectful individual COULD possibly convince me that I should meet them. It's never happened, it probably wont, but I'm not a never-say-never girl. And yes, I have a husband, but it's possible that I COULD lose my damn mind and fall in love with some handhumper on a cam site. Being a never-say-never kind of girl doesn't seem to get me any more or less creepers than anyone else.

    My responses to someone opening up their cam, whether on their face or penis: "Why hello there handsome!"

    If they ask "Do you like my cock?" "That is some excellent equipment you have there, Ace!" "Oooh. Now I could think of a lot of things I could do to that!" (Stomp it, squish it, put it back in the pants where it belongs) "Where do you expect me to put that huge thing!"

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    Argh the attention whores are the worst! Regardless of the site, you get the guy on there telling you how he and his wife or GF are watching you or he tells you his sexs-capade right there in free chat. I just ignore those ones because a good one will come in to private and rattle off his story while you "ooh and aah" over it til he blows.

    I had one that was going through a divorce. He just wanted to hang out and feel like I was keeping him company. When I would go silent he would be like "you still there?"..you ladies know that type! It's like "yes, I'm here chatting up someone who wants to go private with me"... then you get the "oh, sorry I'm bothering you, I'll leave now"... Me: "ok, have a nice evening"..

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    Quote Originally Posted by bun View Post
    And yes, I have a husband, but it's possible that I COULD lose my damn mind and fall in love with some handhumper on a cam site.

    Quote Originally Posted by bun View Post
    If they ask "Do you like my cock?" "That is some excellent equipment you have there, Ace!" "Oooh. Now I could think of a lot of things I could do to that!" (Stomp it, squish it, put it back in the pants where it belongs) "Where do you expect me to put that huge thing!"
    haaa! thats hilarious!

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    Ohh my personal favorite : What do you do in pvt?
    Now this is my all time most annoying question. Because I may say I eat food out of my garbage disposal lol. basically this is the freebie wanker i would say about 58% of the time. When I started camming I was going down a list like I was at the deli asking for the specials on meat.

    Direct the question back to the guy. : What are you looking for in a private? This leaves him stuttering even though you can't actually hear him do it. lol If he doesn't know what he wants, then why would he pay for anything? I usually hear DP AND ANAL. Do you have a guy that I can watch you with?

    I SAY NO TO ALL OF IT. They looked at your profile so they know what you're not into , but they just like trying to rare themselves up to see if you'll change your mind just for them or worse if you'll talk about it allowing them to get off right in free chat. NO NO and NO. I even give a messed up face just to make them shrink. hehehe evil but effective!

    One guy in particular came into my room asking if I had any vacuum parts lying around. I was like umm what for? Ooh so you can put it in your.................

    I had to say umm no not trying to explain lint in my...... to the obgyn. Please move on to the next room, I'm not into dusty orgasms. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    1. How do i get a guy to go pvt?
    Tease, flirt, laugh, be silly. Say hi if he says hi. Answer *reasonable* questions. Occasionally ask, "so who wants to see more of my sexy body in a pvt show?" or mention that you're really horny and need someone to take you pvt so you can get off for them. If he's asking too many questions or wants to know sexual information tell him that you'll answer the rest of his questions in pvt.

    2-What do i say when they ask if there attractive , or i like there penis?
    I try and think of a movie star he looks like. The penis thing is a tough one b/c sometimes they want you to say that it's small (small dick humiliation guys) so I always turn that one back around and say, "what do you think of it?" and then reply with that indication.

    3-What do you say when they want to meet in real life.
    "You're so silly!" *giggles* like it was a joke. If he insists I respond that I'm really annoying in person. If he insists again I joke, "I have the super aids so bad that you'd get it just from me breathing on you. That's why I'm home on cam all the time. I can't leave the house!" If he insists again (which they very rarely ever do) I get very serious, stop moving around and say, "Baby, there's a good reason I'm here in my house and not there in your house. Let's drop this now so that we can keep having a good time. I really like you and I'd hate to have to tell the mods that you're soliciting prostitution on the site because then they'd ban your account by IP and credit card."

    Occasionally I have guys in free chat give me their numbers or ask there. I tell them sarcastically, "Sure baby! Deposit 5K in my paypal account in the next hour and I'll be right over!" then block them.

    4-I dont do anal , Squirt , or even penetrates , will i make money?
    I just say, "Oh, sorry baby. I don't do that." I can sometimes squirt so the squirt guys I tell them I've done it maybe 5 times in my life and it MAY happen but probably won't. Sure some girls fake all of the above but I'm not so adept at it. I still make decent money. You just have to find your niche.

    5-People are mean to me , its really depressing me , should i quit.
    If it's really bumming you out that much, yes. Most of the successful girls develop a thick skin and have a good sense of self/self worth. If you find that you're not developing that or if you have bad self esteem it's not for you. Even the strongest of girls has a guy or a night when it all gets under her skin. Sometimes you want to kick all their teeth in. But if it's 7, 8, or 9 out of 10 nights as opposed to 1 guy or 1 bad night maybe it's time to go.

    Cherryblossoms, OMG, "What do you do in pvt?" ME TOO! Drives me insane a little, but I guess it's a decent icebreaker.
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    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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