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    Sad 13 hour shift, the good and the bad

    Warning: Long and perhaps a bit ranty

    I went in at 5 to catch the end of Friday day shift and head on into the night. I don't work weekends normally, and I certainly did not know that shift ends at 6 am, not 4 am like other nights. Who keeps a strip club open that long? We're not even really in the city! I used it as a joke all night (It's for people who prefer lapdances to a morning jog!). I was 20 bucks short of my 500 goal, but I tipped out very well, and so I don't blame myself. For 13 hours, though? Damn.

    I just..... Ugh. I had my share of great custies, like VIP massage man, VIP artist (Pose for me so I can draw you later) (He also wrote me a poem...)... but I had my share of terrible ones. The worst was a VIP from a man who spent the whole time trying to manipulate me to do extras. Even when I was selling him the dance, he was asking for a happy ending, whatever. I said "Hun, I'm going to be honest with you. I'm a stripper, I do what I do and I'm good at it". He "appreciated my honesty and would like to see me do it". Silly, STUPID me. Not only did he tried to grope me lady bits many times, but he kept trying to pull down his pants and whip it out. He stood up, I felt intimidated, so I fucking pushed his ass back on the couch, pinned his hands back, and hissed "You whip it out, I'm leaving and I'm fucking keeping your money" I had lost it. We danced with him trying to fucking manipulate me "oooooh, baby I'll be your friend, I'll come back, just give me head." I ignored him for a bit, and backed up to give a sexy posey dance. I must have seriously lost it (this was 10 hours in....) and I actually SAID "You can't manipulate a stripper, buddy". Anyway, he acted like a real big boy and pretended to be asleep for the rest of the dance (WTF?). Ultimately, I treated him like shit, but I clearly stated my boundaries and he went against them. Then there was "I'm going to pull my dick out when you're not looking" man. I retaliated with "Oh, look at me, I'm a little air dancer! Yaaaaay!"
    I still feel like crap, though. I should not have stayed.

    Sorry, that was super long and ranty.

    Have any of you ladies ever lost it on a customer? I tried to keep it in, I really really did.

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    Aw sweetie!! That sounds like you were exhausted by that point! I cannot believe that they made you stick around for 13 HOURS!

    And yes, I lost it on a customer once....just the once! I'm always so careful about being upbeat and friendly on the floor, making sure everyone can see that I'm not snapping at custys or walking away rolling my eyes cuz I don't want another custy to see it. BUT. One night it was packed...horrible energy though, no one really spending, all the girls bitching, a bunch of guys getting thrown out, and rude people everywhere. Grabbing at me, turning me down horribly (so rudely, so horribly I couldn't believe it!)...I was almost ready to give up and just go home, and thought I'd give it one more try. So I walk up to these two guys, and did my little opening spiel, and immediately got hit with a wall of degradation. These two started discussing the "flaws" in my body right in front of me, telling me they might, but just weren't sure I was good enough for them, blah blah blah. Usually I would just smile and say "your loss!" and walk away, but as I started to leave, this guy grabs my arm (Don't. Fucking. Grab. Me.) and says "Oh C'mon, you have to sit and talk, you have to SELL it to us.". I whipped my arm away so hard he nearly fell off his chair and just snapped. I leaned down and fully hissed something like "I don't have to do a damn thing for you asshole. There is not enough money in the world to make me talk to you."

    I went home after that...lol
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    I made the mistake of coming in early, and the girls that left before 6 am got BITCHED OUT. I'm trying to make a good impression, I'm already a top earner, the staff takes care of me and vice versa--- I don't want to ruin that.

    That sounds terrible! Things like that make me want to get violent with them. Just a little shove would be nice, or a stiletto bludgeoning. Might be gratifying.

    I despise the "Sell it to me" guys. I play their game, but it's just.... eh. They're trying to show off that they know the game or whatever. Blah Blah Blah.

    Do you ladies recommend I leave the dance instead of doing the "forceful removal of hand" move? Does your club give a refund in you end the dance early for such reasons?

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    hell yes I would walk out of the dance! and yes, I have "lost it" several times, smacked dudes across the face, dumped drinks on them, I once grabbed a guys crotch and squeezed it very hard for trying to grope me on the floor!! How much are dances at your club? $20? $480 for that long of a shift sounds ridic!
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    Default Re: 13 hour shift, the good and the bad

    Quote Originally Posted by The Contessa View Post
    Do you ladies recommend I leave the dance instead of doing the "forceful removal of hand" move?
    It depends on the customer. If they don't SEEM like someone who would keep trying over and over when it's obvious that it's not okay, then I move their hand and keep going, maybe throw in a line about them being a good boy so you can be a bad girl. If I'm getting a bad vibe from them and they seem very forceful, I absolutely would stop the dance. This is where it's beneficial to get money from them upfront since they could put up a fuss otherwise. But just stand your ground, and grab something of theirs to hold as collateral. Lots of guys will take their cell phones out of their pockets or set their sunglasses down while getting a dance, so grab that and refuse to return it until they pay you.

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    Yes, Dances are 20$ for one song. It was raining cats and dogs and there was an accident outside the club the landed a pick-up on the sidewalk, and cops EVERYTHING for about an hour and a half, around midnight. Meaning NO custies came in at that time. I probably could have topped off at 600$, but still.

    It's a high contact club, I'm afraid the custie would complain to the management about me not doing my job. Sleeze.

    Thanks for the advice, ladies. I'm going in tonight, I'm not going to deal with that sort of crap anymore.

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