Results 1 to 20 of 20

Thread: cut throats?

  1. #1
    Veteran Member Aslinn's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    702
    Thanks
    130
    Thanked 464 Times in 217 Posts

    Default cut throats?

    How do you handel them? At my club a girl attempted it when I went on stage. I felt awkward telling the manager but idk what else to do but get in her face. When the manager looked at the cameras she not only waisted no time doing it to me but had also succeded in cut throating another girl while again she was on stage. Now this chick had already made near a hundred by that point and it was an incredible shitty night so there wasn't even a need for her to cut throat. Idk :p I'm about to just pee on her clothes and beat her up lol jk.

  2. #2
    God/dess shanna dior's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2008
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    4,980
    Thanks
    621
    Thanked 6,894 Times in 2,672 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    That sucks, but there isn't much you can do about them (apart from going to management, and, really, what are they going to do about it?) without being cut throat right back. It always helps to leave something (unimportant, like an almost empty drink that you won't be finishing or a booty towel on your seat) with you customer if you have to go on stage, or even asking them to come up to the stage to watch you though.

  3. #3
    God/dess cherryblossomsinspring's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    3,244
    Thanks
    2,454
    Thanked 4,800 Times in 1,707 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: cut throats?

    My sister used to tell me about stuff the girls used to do. Like one girl would jump on a custy's lap and tease him right when she walked away and did a set. My sis is alittle high tempered and tends to go off right there. I mean stop dancing and everything lol. Some women are so damn catty with trying to push up on custys like that. It really gives these guys way too much power.

    I really would like to go as a custy and see what the SC scene is all about. Some of these stories make me want to watch and see how people really act when no one notices.

  4. #4
    Veteran Member Aslinn's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    702
    Thanks
    130
    Thanked 464 Times in 217 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    So you mean she "stole" your custy? Unless she's going out of her way to sabotage you, like spreading rumors, telling custies not to go near you because of XYZ, or stealing/messing with your stuff, she's not doing anything "wrong." And you don't necessarily need to mimic her behavior to keep yourself afloat.
    Well no she didn't succede, when I was done off stage I sat at the bar and got dressed and he dismissed her for me. It was a Saturday night where we only had four girls and two song sets so she obviously ran up as soon as my ass left the seat. And technically she was doing something wrong its against the rules of the club I'm at to do that. Now if I had ditched him for a song by all means fair game, but I didn't I had to go on stage. Any who as for your situation; wtf she completly said she was too lazy to keep hustling and baisicly let you do the work.


    @cherryblossmingspring: you should! I went as a customer a few times and its amazing how much you don't notice when your working.

  5. #5
    Veteran Member Angel75217's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2006
    Location
    Dallas , Texas
    Posts
    404
    Thanks
    36
    Thanked 77 Times in 49 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: cut throats?

    So what's the magic time limit you're supposed to wait when a dancer leaves a customer before you can approach them? I have a feeling either way everyone feels like their cust got stolen. It's part of the game, she's just doing her job there. Do it right back You all aren't there to be friends, you're there to make your money.
    Licky like a tangerine


    .... Yea I said it!!!

  6. #6
    God/dess DesuvsDeath's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2008
    Posts
    4,016
    Thanks
    2,110
    Thanked 4,475 Times in 2,023 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: cut throats?

    If the customer likes you, he'll still give you his money.
    If you know you're coming up on stage... get him into the back asap... otherwise if he decides to buy dances from someone else while you're on stage there's not much you can do about it... it's his money.


    Quote Originally Posted by Angel75217 View Post
    So what's the magic time limit you're supposed to wait when a dancer leaves a customer before you can approach them?
    Half the time girls think that if they were sitting with a customer it's THEIR customer whether or not he was going to give them any money. (Not saying that was the case here!)
    There are some girls you just can't please.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

  7. #7
    Veteran Member So Fine Divyne's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2008
    Location
    Thoroughbred Nation
    Posts
    468
    Thanks
    60
    Thanked 199 Times in 111 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    That is crazy, but at my club once you are away from the guy for stage or whatever it is his responsibility to either wait just for you or engage someone else. We have a girl at work who always sits with other girls when its near time for them to go onstage and then tries to talk their customers into dances as soon as they go onstage. It works often because she dirty dances or she manages to talk them into two girl dances while making a date with the customer later. Girls let her sit with them all the time. They still haven't caught on. A customer yelled to her the other day,"I said I'm waiting for *** I don't want a damn dance from you, okay?" She stays away from me like I have SARS because she knows not to try that with me, but meek girls get bowled over all the time with it.

    To me cut throating is when I go onstage and you go talk to the guy and he says he's with me and you go away. When I go dance for someone else you go back and he still says he's with me. You wait until you realize I'm gonna be with him until he leaves because the money is flowing and you come over and do something lame like ask for a cigarette(walking past 10ppl who are smoking) or ask for a tip while constantly rubbing on the guys shoulder or put your tits on him so he can get a chance to see/feel you while I'm sitting there. Had an old dayshift chick pull that one a few weeks ago and the guy was just like,"Why did she come over her and touch me like that but keep looking at you? I told her no twice." It was so stupid because when I stopped at the bar for a mint after first dance I heard her saying she wished I would hurry up and get up because she knew she could get money from that guy if I would just get out of her way. WTF? I hate girls that think just because they look a certain way that everyone will automatically prefer them.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

  8. #8
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: cut throats?

    If a bitch wants the scraps from my table she is more than welcome to them. Chances are I have picked that carcass clean and there is nothing left but bones. I don't leave my kills unattended due to scavengers like the aforementioned cutthroat.

    Once I bag my kill I stay with it till I'm done. The DJ knows I'll tip well so he skips me.

    If for some reason I must leave my meal ticket unattended he usually tells other bitches to fuck off and that he's waiting for me.

    That's right I am king shit! Fuck those bitches! Sit on your kill and devour it!
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  9. The Following User Says Thank You to tempest666 For This Useful Post:


  10. #9
    Veteran Member Aslinn's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    702
    Thanks
    130
    Thanked 464 Times in 217 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    Quote Originally Posted by So Fine Divyne View Post
    That is crazy, but at my club once you are away from the guy for stage or whatever it is his responsibility to either wait just for you or engage someone else. We have a girl at work who always sits with other girls when its near time for them to go onstage and then tries to talk their customers into dances as soon as they go onstage. It works often because she dirty dances or she manages to talk them into two girl dances while making a date with the customer later. Girls let her sit with them all the time. They still haven't caught on. A customer yelled to her the other day,"I said I'm waiting for *** I don't want a damn dance from you, okay?" She stays away from me like I have SARS because she knows not to try that with me, but meek girls get bowled over all the time with it.

    To me cut throating is when I go onstage and you go talk to the guy and he says he's with me and you go away. When I go dance for someone else you go back and he still says he's with me. You wait until you realize I'm gonna be with him until he leaves because the money is flowing and you come over and do something lame like ask for a cigarette(walking past 10ppl who are smoking) or ask for a tip while constantly rubbing on the guys shoulder or put your tits on him so he can get a chance to see/feel you while I'm sitting there. Had an old dayshift chick pull that one a few weeks ago and the guy was just like,"Why did she come over her and touch me like that but keep looking at you? I told her no twice." It was so stupid because when I stopped at the bar for a mint after first dance I heard her saying she wished I would hurry up and get up because she knew she could get money from that guy if I would just get out of her way. WTF? I hate girls that think just because they look a certain way that everyone will automatically prefer them.
    This is what she does and I mean everyday, I'm really not a talker, I'm a walker so she thought she could mess with me. I think she got tired of my customers turning her down (she can't take rejection). she's that girl where if guys don't tip her or she doesn't get dances she wil whine and whine and whine to customers and sulk and try to cost people money. She has literally pissed every girl in that club off, sh got her ass beat last night though cause she messed with the wrong girl who happened to be drinking last night.

  11. #10
    Veteran Member So Fine Divyne's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2008
    Location
    Thoroughbred Nation
    Posts
    468
    Thanks
    60
    Thanked 199 Times in 111 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    ^^Things have a way of working themselves out. The girl I mentioned in the first one was run off of night shift for her behavior and is a scaredy cat. She only works days and she comes late and leaves at 6:40 before the night shift girls start arriving. She got run off from her last club for starting mess and talking trash but hiding in the bathroom when challenged to back up her mouth. There are just some really messy chicks out here swinging from poles.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

  12. #11
    Featured Member
    Joined
    Oct 2010
    Posts
    1,686
    Thanks
    419
    Thanked 989 Times in 437 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    there's a lot of cut throat bitches in my club. last night a girl stole a fucking $600 CR from me last night and I ended up leaving with only 200 bucks!!!!! she sucked his dick so there's not much I can do to compete with that...but still I was pissed!

    I guess the only thing you can do is realize that if the guy really liked YOU he would spend the money on YOU. there isn't much the management can do about a cut throat bitch. unfortunately this is a cut throat business. I mean, what would they even do about it? if you think about it, they can't just go up to a girl and say "hey stop hustling so and so's customers"

    you can't claim a customer in a strip club. that's like claiming money. it's not your money until he hands it to you. until then, it's fair game.

    the only thing you can do is try to get your dance or CR before you get on stage. don't waste time!

    also, from another perspective:

    I've been accused of being "cut throat" before because a guy bought a CR from me after he bought ONE dance from a girl. she was like "he was my customer and I could have gotten that champagne room blahblahblah"I got so pissed off I confronted the customer. he told me the only reason he got the dance with her was to get her to leave him the hell alone. she was being pushy and mean so he bought one dance and told her he was out of money. he obviously liked me more.

  13. #12
    Featured Member Stripper Hacks's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2009
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    1,256
    Thanks
    687
    Thanked 484 Times in 277 Posts
    My Mood
    Happy

    Default Re: cut throats?

    So what's the magic time limit you're supposed to wait when a dancer leaves a customer before you can approach them?
    Some dancers make it really obvious that they are stealing someones customer.

    It's not something dancers should do especially in a smaller club.




  14. The Following User Says Thank You to Stripper Hacks For This Useful Post:


  15. #13
    Veteran Member Aslinn's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    702
    Thanks
    130
    Thanked 464 Times in 217 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    ^^ well ether way she came back after getting her ass beat and got fired straight away for lying to managment and cut throating. Most of you don't work in a club as small as my home club so I guess it would be hard for you to understand. I have been to bigger clubs and what your saying is true. But in a club that seats less then 100 people and only has ten girls danceing cut throating is a big deal.

  16. #14
    Banned
    Joined
    Nov 2006
    Location
    in the middle of a cornfield
    Posts
    5,119
    Thanks
    2,693
    Thanked 2,988 Times in 1,098 Posts
    My Mood
    Fine

    Default Re: cut throats?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aslinn View Post
    ^^ well ether way she came back after getting her ass beat and got fired straight away for lying to managment and cut throating. Most of you don't work in a club as small as my home club so I guess it would be hard for you to understand. I have been to bigger clubs and what your saying is true. But in a club that seats less then 100 people and only has ten girls danceing cut throating is a big deal.
    I work in an extremely small club as well. 14-20 dancers on a Saturday night, 7-10 on a weekday. We have something known as dancer etiquette.. if there's a drink there you don't sit. If a customer is at stage tipping, you don't take him away nor do you EVER do dances stage side.
    Just the other night my dance/work bff tried to cutthroat ME! I had my regular in (which everyone knows is mine) and she waits til I go onstage and goes over and sits with him. come over, look at her and say, "Umm buh-bye" and made a shooing motion. She was like, "Are you serious?!" I told her I was and she needed to leave. She left in a huff. Come to find out she's telling my guy that he should let her dance for him because it'll probably top my dances. grrr... just goes to show that you can't trust anyone!

  17. #15
    Moderator Aurora_Sunset's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2011
    Posts
    6,430
    Thanks
    19,846
    Thanked 18,507 Times in 4,919 Posts
    My Mood
    Breezy

    Default Re: cut throats?

    It's one thing for me to see girls go up and whisk guys away right after I get onstage (I get annoyed, but I blame it mostly on the customer because either 1) I wasn't his type or 2) he's too weak to just say "I'm waiting for Aurora" when another girl has her tits right in his face) but I'm having a problem with a girl who literally steals custies right out from under me. Several times, I'll be sitting super close to a customer, and right when I'm obviously in the middle of speaking to him, this girl will come up and plop herself right in his/her lap, always specifically angled so her back is facing me and completely cutting me off from sight/the conversation! I end up sitting there awkwardly, not even remotely being acknowledged or a part of the table anymore, until I just get annoyed and get up and leave. I know the obvious answer to this is to just sit in customer's laps so she can't but I'm really not a big lap-sitter unless the customer and I have a rapport going that makes it really obvious that he would like me on his lap. I really don't want to start drama, especially since this girl pisses off and provokes fights out of everyone, but what can I do besides awkwardly sit on everyone's lap for fear that she'll take advantage if I don't?

    Also, what's the protocol about taking customers away from the stage? I was under the impression that if a guy was sitting at the stage, tipping, it was bad etiquette to go up and try to get him to go for a dance unless you had made an actual arrangement with him earlier. But the other night, I made almost no stage tips because there were about 10 people sitting at the stage, and they'd be sitting there set after set after set, tipping all the girls, but the second I went up, there would only be one left, because other girls were grabbing the other guys from the stage. Then, of course, not only would I not get their tips at stage, but when I got offstage, I still wouldn't get any tips because "they didn't see me dance." It was a slow night, so I understand everyone was frustrated with the fact that the majority of custies were sitting at the stage all night, but even (or especially) in that situation, is it wrong to make another girl's night even worse by taking all hope of tips away after you've gotten yours?

  18. #16
    Moderator Optimist's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2004
    Location
    House of Aion
    Posts
    8,074
    Thanks
    7,881
    Thanked 5,705 Times in 2,127 Posts
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: cut throats?

    I've worked in many tiny-ass clubs with 10 chicks on a shift and none of these clubs had an idiotic rule like that. The money is his. Take a moment to let that statement sink in. We're not blowing you off, we're trying to get you beyond this make believe mentality. You can wish his money is guaranteed and wish the other girls would sit on the side and sing kumbayaa wishing you well as you, alone, hustle a customer. It's not realistic. If you go to other clubs without having learned this lesson you will be in for a rude awakening. So, it's far better to take it in now.

    In essence you have said that it was an insanely slow day and every girl should sit on her hands and wait for you to decide whether they can approach a guy even if it takes an hour for you to close or even if you never close the sale. But the fact that she got so many yeses says that these guys were willing to pay her and not the girls she "stole" from. They weren't going to spend that money otherwise and maybe the reason you have so few customers is that they are not allowed to choose who THEY want. The girl plops down and he is hijacked even when she goes on stage until she feels like going away. As a customer I wouldn't go back.
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

  19. #17
    Veteran Member Aslinn's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    702
    Thanks
    130
    Thanked 464 Times in 217 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I work in an extremely small club as well. 14-20 dancers on a Saturday night, 7-10 on a weekday. We have something known as dancer etiquette.. if there's a drink there you don't sit. If a customer is at stage tipping, you don't take him away nor do you EVER do dances stage side.
    Just the other night my dance/work bff tried to cutthroat ME! I had my regular in (which everyone knows is mine) and she waits til I go onstage and goes over and sits with him. come over, look at her and say, "Umm buh-bye" and made a shooing motion. She was like, "Are you serious?!" I told her I was and she needed to leave. She left in a huff. Come to find out she's telling my guy that he should let her dance for him because it'll probably top my dances. grrr... just goes to show that you can't trust anyone!
    Dang you get seven girls on weekdays!? We get four if were lucky. When I say ten girls, I mean that's all that are employed.

  20. #18
    Veteran Member So Fine Divyne's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2008
    Location
    Thoroughbred Nation
    Posts
    468
    Thanks
    60
    Thanked 199 Times in 111 Posts

    Default Re: cut throats?

    I worked in Hot Springs Ark last year during racetrack season Mar til Appleblossom in April and I almost had a knockdown drag out with lone other bg there. She kept saying I was stealing her customers. Well she thought every guy she had ever danced with was her customer. She made it her business one nite while we were both sitting with clients at stage to keep leaning back and talking to the guy I was talking to behind me. It was just hi, how u doing, too bad you're tied down with the new girl crap. Guy was just like tell you what I'll talk to you when I'm free. She keeps doing it. Her customer who is seated to right of me says what the he'll are they doing? I explained obviously they were old friends. He says well I'm sick of this shit let's do some dancers. Bam! She's onstage next waittress comes to collect $ for dance. She's onstage screaming "we don't cut throat here, that shit is rude, I've worked here for 8 years." I calmly explained I wouldn't admit to working in Podunk nowhere for 8 years and never graduate to Little Rock and I bet they don't do what she was doing yell onstage like a country bitch. Her "customer" was good for 6 dances and an add'l $100 slipped in $20-$40 tips because he felt bad she was mean to the new girl.


    She was only angry her plan backfired and I felt she got what she deserved. The guy I was originally sitting with bought dances as well because of her behavior. You live and learn, but I don't let ppl push me around at all. She stole my phone my last nite there but so what. It's March now and I think I may go "steal" her $ again this year.
    Last edited by So Fine Divyne; 03-12-2011 at 05:00 AM.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

  21. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to So Fine Divyne For This Useful Post:


  22. #19
    God/dess DesuvsDeath's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2008
    Posts
    4,016
    Thanks
    2,110
    Thanked 4,475 Times in 2,023 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: cut throats?

    ^There's always someone who thinks everyone they've ever danced or sat with is their customer. It's so stupid.
    Just because you're sitting with someone... doesn't make him your customer... things to consider:
    Is he tipping you for your time?
    Has he bought dances and then suggested you go sit for a while?
    Is he your regular/is he there to see you?
    If you can't answer yes to any of those questions... he's 100% fair game no matter HOW LONG you've been sitting there not making a sale, lmao.

    I've worked at big AND small clubs... and honestly... it's the customer's money... if he chooses to give it to someone else even after you've been working on him for a while, you can't get hung up on it... you have to go find some other way to make money.
    If you know you work with a girl who will sit in your customer's laps... you better jump in his lap if you see her coming! If you know there's a girl that will swoop in if you go on stage... close the sale before your stage!
    If you work with a girl you know will try to grab up customers you've been trying to get money from... you're better off just getting better at hustling than her than you are QQing about how that was YOUR customer she just did that $1200 CR for... because a. she probably doesn't care and b. it won't get you the $1200
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

  23. The Following User Says Thank You to DesuvsDeath For This Useful Post:


  24. #20
    God/dess DesuvsDeath's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2008
    Posts
    4,016
    Thanks
    2,110
    Thanked 4,475 Times in 2,023 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: cut throats?

    ^Yeah but some girls will do it anyway because they dgaf.
    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

Similar Threads

  1. Maybe im not cut out for it...
    By Callyish in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 40
    Last Post: 04-02-2011, 03:07 AM
  2. Do my Looks Cut It?
    By kissesfrombambi in forum Picture Post
    Replies: 29
    Last Post: 10-23-2009, 06:55 AM
  3. Help me get cut
    By Miss_Luscious in forum Body Business
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 07-02-2007, 06:01 PM
  4. AHH!!!! sore throats suck!!!
    By Bastet in forum Body Business
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 01-25-2006, 07:51 PM
  5. CUT THroats...How to deal
    By k8t in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 14
    Last Post: 11-08-2005, 08:31 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •