I've written a lot about reconnecting with who I thought was the love of my life. Basically the story is this: I met him years ago when he was a regular. We became friends but at the time I was getting out of a bad relationship. We lost touch and last January reconnected and there was instant sparks. He then asked me to be his girlfriend. I was happy and in love until a few weeks later he told me he didn't want a relationship because "women nag". I was patient and eventually then he came back or so I thought. In the meantime I asked him a few times to go out. He told me he would once he got over his "issues". I sent him a heartfelt email in August and a Christmas card and no response. I didn't even get a birthday call.
So I started to heal and tonight I find out he has an online profile! He lied to me about his so called issues. He never wanted to be with me at all sounds like. I know it's his profile.
I am beyond devastated. I am going to go to a singles group this week with the sole intention of hurting another guy. I will never let another man hurt me. If he had the decency to tell me he didn't want me this would be ok. But it's not. It's not ok to lie to me.



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