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    Is it true the dancer respects a man at the club who attempts to score points but never buys dances?

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    I asked the question after reading online advice from other men trying to make money with their counsel ...whichis make yourself stand out and get to kniow the girls. Consequently the dancer will bit perceive the man as a human ATM machine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mhi View Post
    Is it true the dancer respects a man at the club who attempts to score points but never buys dances?

    A man who goes to a strip club and doesn't spend money on the dancers is a waste of their time. Wasting a woman's time when she is trying to earn a living will not garner any respect from her what so ever. If dances are not your thing you and you would still like to get to know a lady you should be prepared to pay a her generously for her time to sit with you in the club.

    Not sure what your long-term goal is here but a strip club is not a singles bar. The ladies are not at the club looking for Mr. Right, they are working. Romance can and does happen but it's not something you can buy and it is much more the exception than the rule...
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    Men that don't spend money at clubs aren't thought of anything except trash.

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    If someone advises you to hang out in clubs without spending money, then you should probably take every piece of advice they have ever given you and do the exact opposite.
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    There used to be a guy on these boards that, instead of posting opinions & answers, he would just post links to about 10 previous threads where the same question was raised and answered.

    I used to think that he was a really obnoxious guy - but, I'm beginning to wish he was still around.

    Here are a few similar threads:
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...ight=scoundrel
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...ghlight=pickup
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...ghlight=pickup
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...ghlight=pickup
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthr...ghlight=pickup
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    Quote Originally Posted by mhi View Post
    Is it true the dancer respects a man at the club who attempts to score points but never buys dances?
    No. Not at all.
    Think about it... if your income was based on actually making sales... would you respect someone who came to your job, sat in your office trying to talk and 'get to know you' so that you couldn't get anything done and went home every night with no money and couldn't pay your bills?


    Quote Originally Posted by mhi View Post
    I asked the question after reading online advice from other men trying to make money with their counsel ...whichis make yourself stand out and get to kniow the girls.
    Dancers don't want to get to know you nor do they want you to get to know them.
    We're there to work. Not meet men or make friends or find dates.
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    Whenever I did go to the SC (before I transitioned) and got a dance, I'd always tell the girls "You can skip talking to me after and go make that money!" I paid for my dance and had fun, but it's imperative that customers understand that the girls are there to get paid. If I want another dance, I'd let them know, but I don't expect them to waste their time talking to me because the clock is ticking I deal with the same BS on cam with people wanting free conversation. I don't cam for fun, so don't waste my time unless you want to pay for it.

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    It would only make me disgusted with you. Im not a charity thanks. This is my workplace... Im here to earn money.

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    Who deserves your money more - the beautiful woman doing her all to entertain you, or the PUA asshole shilling bullshit to desperate guys that is based on - bullshit from other desperate guys?

    No, it's not true, no, it doesn't work, and the episode in Mystery's show where they pick up strippers they had to resort to paid plants because not only was his shit not working, but they were about to get booted from the club for pissing off the girls, lol.

    PUA stuff CAN work, with a particular breed of really desperate girl with serious self esteem issues and well below average IQ. Even then, it usually doesn't. And in a strip club, it's a total waste as most of the girls are already on to that shit, and it's disrespectful on top of it, preventing her from making money. She's at work to pay the bills, not to find a guy to bang tonight. Get it straight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    Who deserves your money more - the beautiful woman doing her all to entertain you, or the PUA asshole shilling bullshit to desperate guys that is based on - bullshit from other desperate guys?
    Almost Jaded - you're handling this all wrong.... You should get in on the PUA "guru" biz and profit from your experiences... This is how you should repond to threads like this:

    Hey MHI, forget all that PUA bullshit you've read... I am Almost Jaded, the only genuine stripper-pickup guru. I live with three strippers and have foursome every night (except for the nights when we invite additional strippers to join us in 5-somes, 6-somes, 7-somes, 8-somes and 9-somes).

    It took me nearly 20 years of being a strip-club junkie and pathetic loser to stumble across the ultimate secret for picking up strippers. It is radically different than the lame shit that other so-called PUAs tell you about picking up strippers... None of those PUA live with three strippers or fuck strippers every night - I do. I stumbled onto the secret by accident, but once I learned it, I have used it time and time again - It has never failed. It is guaranteed to work!

    The secret consists of four things you have to do. Sounds simple, but it is not. Each of those four things requires you to listen very carefully to the dancer, identify her archetype (there are 6 dancer archetypes) and then tell her stories with subliminal meaning that tap into her dancer archetype. By just collecting a few pieces of information from her, you will be able to tell her things about herself, she didn't even know... With this, she will feel that YOU are her lost SOULMATE, who understands her better than anybody. She will be emotionally and spiritually drawn to you. Her intelligence level is irrelevant... The secret works on an EMOTIONAL and SPIRITUAL level.

    For $2,000, I can teach you the secret, rehearse the routines with you, and then, take you to the stripclub to practice and demonstrate stipper pickup.

    If you cannot afford $2,000 at this time, I can sell you my home-study course for $500. It comes with 3 CDs and 3 DVDs.

    Don't waste your money on other PUAs giving you bullshit and ridiculous advise that will get you laughed at by strippers and kicked out of the stripclub - I'm the real deal, I'm Almost Jaded. Send your check or money order to...
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    The more you spend on me the more I like/respect/acknowledge you.

    Also... what does "score points" mean????

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    Quote Originally Posted by mhi View Post
    Is it true the dancer respects a man at the club who attempts to score points but never buys dances?
    What does this "score points" mean. Does it refer to an attempt to have sex with a dancer?

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    I'm starting to wonder if these threads are real? I mean aren't you going to these clubs and noticing how fast girls walk away from you? I think this is self explanatory.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack
    Almost Jaded - you're handling this all wrong.... You should get in on the PUA "guru" biz and profit from your experiences... This is how you should repond to threads like this:

    Hey MHI, forget all that PUA bullshit you've read... I am Almost Jaded, the only genuine stripper-pickup guru. I live with three strippers and have foursome every night (except for the nights when we invite additional strippers to join us in 5-somes, 6-somes, 7-somes, 8-somes and 9-somes).

    It took me nearly 20 years of being a strip-club junkie and pathetic loser to stumble across the ultimate secret for picking up strippers. It is radically different than the lame shit that other so-called PUAs tell you about picking up strippers... None of those PUA live with three strippers or fuck strippers every night - I do. I stumbled onto the secret by accident, but once I learned it, I have used it time and time again - It has never failed. It is guaranteed to work!

    The secret consists of four things you have to do. Sounds simple, but it is not. Each of those four things requires you to listen very carefully to the dancer, identify her archetype (there are 6 dancer archetypes) and then tell her stories with subliminal meaning that tap into her dancer archetype. By just collecting a few pieces of information from her, you will be able to tell her things about herself, she didn't even know... With this, she will feel that YOU are her lost SOULMATE, who understands her better than anybody. She will be emotionally and spiritually drawn to you. Her intelligence level is irrelevant... The secret works on an EMOTIONAL and SPIRITUAL level.

    For $2,000, I can teach you the secret, rehearse the routines with you, and then, take you to the stripclub to practice and demonstrate stipper pickup.

    If you cannot afford $2,000 at this time, I can sell you my home-study course for $500. It comes with 3 CDs and 3 DVDs.

    Don't waste your money on other PUAs giving you bullshit and ridiculous advise that will get you laughed at by strippers and kicked out of the stripclub - I'm the real deal, I'm Almost Jaded. Send your check or money order to...
    :roflmao:

    OMG, MM & I both laughed so fucking hard reading that... Awesome...

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    ^ Seriously,... there's very good profit potential in the pickup "guru" biz... I think 1 out of every 20 boys in the US is willing to shell out hundreds and even a couple of thousand dollars for "how to get laid" education.... (specially if it involves strippers).

    Sad... I blame our school system... This subject (pickup hot chicks 101) should be taught in all schools as a regular part of a boy's sex education.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    I'm starting to wonder if these threads are real? I mean aren't you going to these clubs and noticing how fast girls walk away from you? I think this is self explanatory.
    I think the guys that show up here asking these questions are fairly naive and inexperienced about the way clubs work. Honestly, I was a bumbass who kept falling in love with dancers 20 years ago too but there was no internet for me to come and ask these same silly questions on so I just figured it out on my own. I remember asking a fav once many years ago why she was sitting with a guy all night after she complained that he was nagging her about going out with him. She told me that he was tipping her $20 bills while she sat there. Putting two and two together was pretty simple after I heard that sort of thing a few times...
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    ^I was thinking they were all the same guy. too much time on his hands... probably because he never actually gets to fuck strippers... or any woman for that matter.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Am I the only one there that slightly suspects this is Laxman coming back to stir the pot again?

    The post has already started somewhat of an argument, and the nature of it seems to me that this is someone, if not Laxman, that is trolling.

    This is just my opinion.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post

    No, it's not true, no, it doesn't work, and the episode in Mystery's show where they pick up strippers they had to resort to paid plants because not only was his shit not working, but they were about to get booted from the club for pissing off the girls, lol.
    They filmed that scene when the club was closed, filled it all w actors. I know that club well and its nothing like that in reality, none of it would have worked.

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    I had heard a different version of the story, but it still involved paying the dancers to go along with it after they failed miserably for a while and pissed off a bunch of girls, lol.

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    when i go to a gay bar and watch buff men dance skantily clad, the LAST thing on my mind is dating or love, and this is coming from a girl who is OBSESSED with love and marriage and monogomy. i dont get how men can think about "relationships" at a strip club. hell i have a hard time getting them to think about anything but sex in my day to day life!!

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    ^ What's dating, love or relationship got to do with it?... I don't think most guys intend to pickup a dancer for marriage purposes. I think its more of an ego thing, like, - If I can do it, I'm going to brag about it forever to every person I ever meet.

    What is brag-worthy about picking up a stripper? This has been debated on here before. Me personally, my real life ego-driven bragging-rights fixation (during my college years and 20s) was on out-of-my-league beautiful snobby rich bitches, because I was poor growing up and this presented a fun challenge for me. The guys who are fixated on picking up strippers do so for these reasons (i.e., stereotypes): (a) strippers are seen as sex godesses and will fuck your brains out like sex godesses, (b) strippers get hit on constantly, but reject 99.999999% of the guys, so dating one makes you really really really special, (c) strippers only date alpha-males, so dating one give you ultimate "alpha male" status and (d) strippers are masters of seduction and pickup game, so only the best pickup artist can outgame a stripper - you get your Master of PUA Science certificate in the mail.

    Another thing is that there is no "approach anxiety" or "bitch shield" with a dancer. A really hot girl at a bar wouldn't give these PLs 10 seconds of her time and she'd be a total bitch about it. But, the really hot dancer is willing to give the same PLs 15 minutes. So, he thinks, maybe, that's enough time for her to see what a great guy he really is and a special connection to ensue.

    Also, you'd save a LOT of money on lap dances and extras by turning your ATF dancer into your GF.
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    Since I don't think the OP posted again in this thread I will say that he is a time waster in and out of the club. Hehe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack
    Also, you'd save a LOT of money on lap dances and extras by turning your ATF dancer into your GF.
    Bwwaaahahahahahaaaaaa....

    *gulp* *sniff* *breathe*

    Riiiight.

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