Recently began dating (if that word even applies...) a woman who lives locally. We've known each other for about a year, but she'd been out of the country for much of that time. Whenever she was in town, we hung out (with her best woman friend). Finally, we stopped acting like there wasn't a mutual attraction, and we slept together. (The restraint on both our parts was reasonable: Her friend was someone I'd slept with several years earlier.)
It's been a few weeks and a few overnights, and now she's being distant and declining invites to see movies, have dinner, etc. I'm getting the cold-shoulder vibe. My worry is that I'm incompetent about reading these signs. She may just be, as she says, terribly busy.
Should I quit it with the invites? But I don't want to offend her, either. I truly like her (even if the romance meter reads "mild") and her gal pal, with whom I'm still friends.
It's all so awkward.![]()



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