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    Hello Ladies

    I started dancing in October at a black club in ATL and I didnt do well at all. Everyone told me I would do well because Im cute and have a nice personality I just needed to be "molded". My two problems are I have NO confidence and its hard for me to act sexy so I usually ended up making convo like a friend would. I also dont have a big ass like the other girls so I have no clue how to clap (we dont do that heel thing b/c it looks silly) and when I went on stage people were laughing at me so I quit. I was tired of getting turned down and making a fool of myself. I really like dancing I just have low confidence and cant dance I think the most I made was about $90...Im getting ready to go back because I NEED money and I really dont want to leave the industry like this because I know I can do it I just need guidance and the other dancers are too bitchy to help because they think Im gonna steal their custies..

    Any ladies who have experience with dancing in black clubs in ATL please help!!

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    Default Re: PLEASE help me learn to dance and be sexy?

    My only advice is to smile like a total MORON and tell everybody you're new until you learn some moves.

    As a white girl in a mostly white club who danced very sensually (but in a completely white style), the only way I could break down the black customers' hard-ass exteriors was to smile like a moron and really amp up my energy like "Hey!!! How are you??" Otherwise they'd just stare at me like I had three tits.

    A move that's pretty easy to learn (that I mastered) was the one where you're on all fours (stomach facing ground) and you bounce your ass up and down quickly...not necessarily a black club move, but it does involve your ass...

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    ^^Thanks. Im working on my dance moves and trying to gain control of my booty and thigh muscles to clap my butt, its the hustle style that I totally suck with. Im only 18 so I look VERY young and innocent and custies dont take me serious when I act all sexy..

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    Default Re: PLEASE help me learn to dance and be sexy?

    One thing that helped me when learning to dance was recording videos of myself. Do you have a webcam/digital camera/camcorder? Try recording yourself dancing to music, and then watch it to see what looks good & bad, and try to improve. You can also watch stripper videos on youtube and copy what the girls are doing. : )

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    Thats a good idea thanks I have a camcorder on my phone..

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    I also record myself and watch videos on youtube.
    And I will try new moves out in front of my boyfriend. I trust him to be brutally honest on what looks good and what I should practice a little more lol

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    Honey we all go thru the gangly baby stripper phase..the only thing that's gonna cure it is time....watch youtube, practice and above all SLOW DOWN!
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    Have you tried any of the mixed clubs in ATL? When I first started dancing, I started at a black club and I didn't do very well. When I went to a mixed club I did better because the girls didn't dance the same. The black girls did booty clapping, but no one was dancing all extra, because they didn't have to. I also made a lot more money because of the diversity of girls and customers.

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    Default Re: PLEASE help me learn to dance and be sexy?

    Quote Originally Posted by vixenluv View Post
    ^^Thanks. Im working on my dance moves and trying to gain control of my booty and thigh muscles to clap my butt, its the hustle style that I totally suck with. Im only 18 so I look VERY young and innocent and custies dont take me serious when I act all sexy..
    Instead of doing something or being something you're not (overtly sexy) why don't you play up your cuteness factor? Get a cute lil school girl outfit, put your hair in pig tails and rock it! If you're the only white girl or one of the few white girls there then stand the fuck out!! Work with what you got and work it to the max.

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    Default Re: PLEASE help me learn to dance and be sexy?

    Try standing ( dance shoes on) with your feet planted on the ground and move your knees/thighs in and out.......this will make you clap your butt but not by using your heels..... which honestly I've never seen done. This is how I and everyone I know does it. How it helps, it takes a lil while. Also bend forward at your waist as teeeny bit, this also helps.

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