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    Default Lapdances 101

    I am going to be working at a lapdance club..I have only worked at no contact clubs so I am clueless on the whole how to give a lapdance thing, how to get customers to want them or ask them if they want one basically the whole deal with lapdances...
    anyone have any videos or good advice for lapdances?
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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    Dances make the bulk of your $$, and I have always tried to ask as 'charming' as possible...
    "You know you wana go in the back.."
    "Come have some fun.."

    Try the search function in these forums... newbie and hustle... and of course youtube.com always has some good ideas...

    My only tip to you that I cant stress enough is learn how to do a LD with your heels on! I see so many girls back in private with no shoes on.. like um.. Just looks tacky! We strippers... They make shoes just 4 this line of work!! Use em!! Have fun at work, thats why the boys come out to see you!!

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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    Buy a dance from another girl. And make sure to let the customers know that you're new. It makes you seem less goofy, and they usually eat that up!

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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    Personally, I keep my shoes on for LAPdances. However, my club also offers a BED dance where the customer lays on the bed, they still aren't allowed to touch etc. I like to stand on the bed straddling them for part of it so I DO take my shoes off for that (as does every girl in the club lol) but I second the keep your shoes on!

    Watch some videos or buy a dance from another girl. That helped me a lot.

    As for asking, the usual recommendation is chat with the guy for about 2 songs and then bring it up. If you do it sooner than that you may seem too much of a hustler, later than that and you're wasting time.

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    ^someone told me about the bed dances once. the girl said they were a LOT easier to sell.

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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    I actually always take my shoes off for dances. At first, I kept em on and did my thing, but I find that, because of my tall height and how low our lap dance chairs are, it's much harder for me to get close to the customer with the shoes, and, in turn, it's less comfortable for me. A lot of guys really like that I take my shoes off too, but I don't think it really matters what you do with your footwear to them (unless they're foot fetishists).

    Giving a lap dance is fairly straightforward, though I do recommend purchasing one to get a better idea. I spend the first part dancing up in front of them, lightly touching their face/arms/chest and slowly stripping. Then I move closer to them, lots of body slides, eye contact, sensual touches. Just move very slowly in everything you do, and drag out your moves as long as possible. One move that I find goes over very well is getting close to their face, doing a bit of an eskimo kiss with our noses/foreheads touching, letting my hair fall into a curtain around us, holding that for a bit with a coy smile, and then sliding down their chest. When it comes down to it, you really don't have to all that much in a lap dance - it's just a matter of making it seem intimate and that you're enjoying yourself as well.

    As for getting customers to want them - *most* come into the club wanting a dance. They know how a strip club works. Sure, you'll get a few who just want to watch the stage for free while nursing a beer, or who just want to waste your time with chatter, but for the most part, they're there for the reason to get dances. To sell them, pick your target, and make chit chat. Establish a rapport, keep it sexy, and make him want a lap dance. There's countless tips in Hustle Hut that'll help you out with this aspect.

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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    check youtube. I just looked up some stuff on it that I plan to use tonight. I've danced for almost 9 years but have been at the lapdance club 7 months now. At our club we are required to take our shoes off for dances. The big boss doesn't want heel punctures in the couches.

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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    i never took my shoes off to dance, teh only time my shoes came off was at the end of a night when they were rediculusly sore, but that wasnt often.

    I prefer to dance in my heels for lapdances, it makes me feel sexier and move better.

    I do have a mate who dances without her shoes on coz she finds it easier without, guys really dont care from what i can gather, they just focus on her huge tits hehehe.

    buy a dance, or if u have any friends who are dancers, get one to demo for you, you'll get the hang of it, and after so many you'll start to fall into a rutine, if u get bored of ur rutine, switch it up, try new things on a mate or someone who willgive u honest answers.

    Oh and dont dance like ur at a rave haha, ive seen a few too many girls do this and watched tryin not to giggle while the guys blinkin constantly haha. slow and sexy, slow and sexy.
    I do alot of eye contact in dances, some girls dont like to, so look between thier eyes if its too wierd. makes it feel more personal, and like your dancing just for them, not just bein a dance robot lol

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    Default Re: Lapdances 101

    We have to take our shoes off cause the manager got tired of the stilettos putting holes in all the couches - lol...but i agree with keeping it slow and sexy, making eye contact, and making it seem like you're really into it....that usually gets me more than one dance out of a guy

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    I always take my shoes off and put them toes peeping under the door so its obvious someone is in the room - the other girls will see them and not open the door to my room. Uninterrupted lapdances are better! I've only had one customer in 4 years who asked me to wear my shoes; I put them back on and someone barged straight in. He then admitted he could see why I take them off.
    If your shoes are dirty and smelly I can see why it would look tacky to go barefoot. I scrub my shoes faithfully every week from brand new and they stay clean and pretty. Having nicely painted nails and tidy feet is good too.

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    I don't take my shoes off. It's illegal to do that here...

    These are good lapdance tutorials http://www.vimeo.com/stripxpertease

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    Yes, I agree that you should buy dances from other girls to get the customer's point of view. It will give you much better insight into what they're thinking and feeling. Think of some of the different senses, smell, touch, sound, and sight. Most guys want the GE (girlfriend experience). I find that the men like a lot of smiling and eye contact. Pretend (to some extent) that they're your boyfriend and you're trying to turn them on. I try to include some intimate touching (not sexual) on the arms, neck, shoulders, leg. Just try to make them feel special and they'll definitely be back for more. Remember though that lap dances are supposed to be a TEASE not the real thing. Its all about the fantasy.

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    I would also suggest not taking your shoes off. The floors are incredibly dirty and it just looks unprofessional IMO. Disgusting fact - One time I actually picked up a rare fungus from South America from walking around barefoot in the dressing room. Always keep your shoes on, no matter what.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rileygrl06 View Post
    I would also suggest not taking your shoes off. The floors are incredibly dirty and it just looks unprofessional IMO. Disgusting fact - One time I actually picked up a rare fungus from South America from walking around barefoot in the dressing room. Always keep your shoes on, no matter what.
    You just totally freaked me out. Im never taking my shoes off at work now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rileygrl06 View Post
    I would also suggest not taking your shoes off. The floors are incredibly dirty and it just looks unprofessional IMO. Disgusting fact - One time I actually picked up a rare fungus from South America from walking around barefoot in the dressing room. Always keep your shoes on, no matter what.
    Quote Originally Posted by missyqueenb View Post
    You just totally freaked me out. Im never taking my shoes off at work now.

    That just made me go wash my feet, jeez !
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