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    Going to go on a bit of a rant...venting...

    Okay...you come into the club, get your drink, sit down, and you want to hang out and chit chat with me. Cool. You offer to buy me a drink. I gratefully accept, still sitting in my personal space bubble. You reach to touch the inside of my thigh...HOLD IT!!!
    I don't care who you are, what you bought me, how much you paid...QUIT FREAKING PUTTING YOUR HANDS ALL OVER ME! You never shook my hand, you don't know me or anything about me...you wouldn't do this if you met me in the mall, so why do you think it's okay when you buy me a drink??? I'm not insulting anyone who does allow custies to touch...not at all.
    THIS IS NOT OKAY TO ME! I don't like it, I don't want it. CUSTOMERS, STOP TOUCHING ME!
    Anyone out there got a nice polite way that I can tell custies not to touch me or should I just be blunt about it?

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    Ugh. Agreed. It's really nasty. "Oh, you've sat down. Here, allow me to please feel you up for free."
    The WORST... is when they try to put their hand on my lower back... it's such an intimate gesture... it literally makes me SICK when they do it.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Default Re: Why must you Toucheth??!

    Ug, irritating. They think because they bought you a drink that they get free reign over your exposed skin. Not so dear custys, not so...


    Do you work in a No-contact club? If so, remind them that the goods are "pretty to look at, but not to hold". If you work in a light to heavy contact club, and you allow contact in your dances, remind them that they have to "pay to play". Men can't touch for free, and buying a drink doesn't constitute as payment (none of that money goes into your pocket). Be as stern as you can the first time so they get the point. Also, this helps weed out the cheapo's who don't have money for dances.

    Good luck!

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    I hate being pawed, and I HATE HATE HATE sitting on stranger's laps!

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    Default Re: Why must you Toucheth??!

    There are quite a few laps sitters where I work, the men obviously love it, but it feels so fake and awkward to me. Uhg.

    I just take their hand and redirect it gently. If you work in a contact club, you could say something like, "Oh? Ready to go already" and look toward where you do dances. I personally think it'd be hilarious if you just said your subject line in a kooky English accent.

    I'm with DesuvsDeath, intimate-feeling touching freaks me out if I'm just sitting, but for some reason I'm okay with it during a dance.

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    ^I'm really glad I'm not the only one.
    I always felt like a freak for being so bothered by something everyone else thought wasn't a big deal...

    It really does make you feel just completely disgusting, though.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Ugh they make me vomit inside too. Once I know I hate them, I figure there is nothing to be lost if I also get really aggressive... In making my sale that is. As soon as they get handsy, I say something like "Oh you are frisky, we need to do a dance." All flirty, as I move to assume the lapdance position(conveniently this also moves me away from the unwanted rubdown.)
    Now he will say yes or no. If yes, lets face it, its probably going to be an airdance but at least you get paid. If he says no, you know to GTFO immediately, so you do not have to endure a creepy back/thigh rub from some assface who has no intention of spending money.

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    UGH 100% agree. The last time i checked you dont need to run your hand down somebody's leg when they ask your name?! In what country is that a way to say hello?

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    fortunately the touchers don't usually spend so you ask quickly for dance and walk the hell away

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    Default Re: Why must you Toucheth??!

    I usually sit on a guy's lap when I ask for a dance so I'm not bothered if he decides to put his arm around me or put his hand on my leg however, I will draw the line if it goes beyond that and tell him that if he wishes to touch that way then he'll need to buy a dance.

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    Default Re: Why must you Toucheth??!

    Damn I'm like this in the VIP!

    Do not put your hand on the inside of my thigh no matter how much money you give me.

    That is too close to the goods!




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