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    Why do customers say this? It is a common misconception that the only men who visit and spend money in stripclubs are those who couldn't get a woman to talk to them or be sexual with them any other way. I mean, maybe in some rural towns in middle America that is the case, but I work in Las Vegas and it aggravates the hell out of me.

    Most times it's not even a copout not to spend. After I give my usual spiel of boosting egos, " when in Rome....." type statements and so forth, they go to VIP and tend to stay for a really long time. I mean, yeah you COULD get that 400$ bottle of grey goose for 40$ at the liquor store but you don't. You get it at the club at in insane markup for the EXPERIENCE. Yeah, you could get your wife to cook up a 20$ Kobe beef steak and eat it in your dining room but you don't. You go to a swank restaurant overlooking the strip and eat that same piece of beef for 70$ bucks for the experience

    The whole "I could get it for free" line would bother me anywhere but seems to irritate me even more in a city like Las Vegas. It's mostly guys from NY or LA who are just too cool for school but I've heard it from people from other cities as well in my time as a dancer.

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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    Just another shitty line they use when they're broke. I've only noticed young guys saying this shit. If you could get it for free asshole then you wouldn't pay a cover charge to LOOK at pussy.

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    Boys and their fragile little egos. I think they say it because they don't want us to think they are losers. Little do they know, we don't give a shit either way as long as they spend!

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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    I just say No, you can't and walk away. They can't get me for free and if they decide to follow and bother me, I have the bouncer explain it to them.

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    "I don't pay women for sex. I pay them to leave." -- Charlie Sheen.
    Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.
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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    ...I've only noticed young guys saying this shit...
    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    Boys and their fragile little egos. I think they say it because they don't want us to think they are losers.
    Bingo and bingo. IMO this comes from inexperience. They think of a SC as just another place, except with girls who are paid to be naked, and do not want you to think that they are perverts or losers who can't see pussy without paying for it.

    I wouldn't take it too seriously. Hell, when I was younger and new to this I know I said variations of this. Then, of course, there was the phase when I fell "in love" with a stripper, followed by that period where I had White Knight Syndrome, followed by...

    Heck, when I was in my late 20s a girl played to my silly "I'm the normal and smart guy in the room" mentality quite well. She would whisper quietly "thank God you are here - I was getting tired of these fucking perverts" and other things designed to stroke the ego of one foolish young Rick Dugan. And of course she intimated that, being as worldly as I was and unlike these moronic perverts, I understood that she was just a girl trying to pay her bills and could not just hang out, but very much wanted to spend time with me. Between these and other various ego stroking approaches, she very artfully drained young Mr. Dugan's discretionary funds each time he visited.

    We live and we learn.

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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    ^^Haha...excellent.

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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    He paid when they walked through the door. (tell them that) Jokes back on him!

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    ^ works pretty well, except when it's a club with free entry, or free entry with a coupon found in a local weekly paper or magazine, or free entry with military ID, or whatever it may be.

    i've noticed 2 types who'll use this line. some are total wastes of time. some, you can get them to spend if you can tell them what they want to hear. though, different types have different things to say. also, different guys have different ideas of what "it" is. some think it's company, some think it's cocktease fully clothed dances while you try to upsell a champagne room, some think it's actual dances, some think it includes extras, some think it's full on sex. which is why i'll usually not bother with them unless it's really slow.
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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    I hear the same thing on cam, after they ask you out. They usually say can I see "insert body part" I just say tip, money,dinero etc.

    Then they say ooh no I'm not going to pay for it. wtf I can get laid for free.
    My response: So unplug and go out there and get it!!!
    His response: Ohh I just came here to chat.
    My response: Well join a free chat site.
    His response: Ohh so you can't ?? That takes nothing from you!
    My response: Time is money, talking takes energy and I spend my time talking to men that pay. This is not facebook!!!!
    His response: Ohh that's messed up well how about I give you my number.
    My response: What for? I will never call you.
    His response: WELL F**** YOU B*****!! I got a girlfriend!!!
    My response: Ohh that's great, I'm pretty sure she's happy that you're here hitting on a cam model with no money . Ohh and that you're asking me to call you to boot!!! Wow you're really a catch!!
    His response: Guest 128 has left.

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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    Wow what a fucktard..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    Boys and their fragile little egos. I think they say it because they don't want us to think they are losers. Little do they know, we don't give a shit either way as long as they spend!
    ^ Great.

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    "I can get it for free"

    Silly boy, there's no such thing as free pussy, lol. No matter how you figure it, you're paying for it SOMEHOW.

    And Pure... Most guys - not all, but most - who would use a line like that wouldn't spend $150 a plate on dinner or $400 for a bottle anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    "I can get it for free"

    Silly boy, there's no such thing as free pussy, lol. No matter how you figure it, you're paying for it SOMEHOW.

    And Pure... Most guys - not all, but most - who would use a line like that wouldn't spend $150 a plate on dinner or $400 for a bottle anyway.


    But the crazy thing is, most of the guys who say this

    A. Usually have $$ and spend it well after their ego is sufficiently stroked and

    B. Are exactly the type to spend money on those things...In fact they are usually the ones with bottle service at the club.


    IDK, I think it is just a disclaimer not to seem like a loser as Lacy Luck said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    ^ works pretty well, except when it's a club with free entry, or free entry with a coupon found in a local weekly paper or magazine, or free entry with military ID, or whatever it may be.

    uh... Glad I don't work at a club with discounted or free entry. It weeds out the bs a little.

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    I stand corrected, lol.

    I need to get to your club and say hi. I've been busy as hell and kinda broke lately, and I don't like going to SC's if I can't spend much money - ESPECIALLY to meet a SW girl, lol.

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    LOL AJ that explains why i haven't seen you guys either. I miss you all coming into to see me always a nice experience.

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    Default Re: I can get it for free

    This just sounds like something a little boy/very immature man would say to somehow prove to you he is not a loser who "only" needs to pay to get attention/affection from women. Most normal "men" would not even think of saying this, and would really have no reason to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    . If you could get it for free asshole then you wouldn't pay a cover charge to LOOK at pussy.
    You are wrong in this statement0. (Though probably right in it when talking about the "men" who say this line) Not everyone who enjoys the Strip Club after a long week at work go because we cannot get it somewhere else, going to the strip club is not about "getting pussy" It's about going somewhere to relax from the stresses of daily life, Just because we have pussy waiting at home doesn't mean we cannot take a night out for ourselfs and enjoy the company of beautiful women with no strings attached, we know what we are getting and paying for, what is wrong with that?

    What has this world come to when a man cannot spend a night at a "Gentlemans Club" to smoke,drink and look at half-naked to naked women without being labeled as a loser? (Though really most of us men do not care what you think of us, when we are there of after we leave, we come in, spend money on what we want for a good time and leave with no expectations thereafter, stop the judging please Kaia ) It's not like we go in judging every stripper, now, Do we?

    Suprisingly there are normal men out there who enjoy a night out at the Strip Club

    OMG Who would of thought?

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    My answer "Yes you can go home & fuck yourself" , but not here & definitely never with a girl like me.
    "Happiness does not depend on material things, but on having others pay for them"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    Boys and their fragile little egos. I think they say it because they don't want us to think they are losers. Little do they know, we don't give a shit either way as long as they spend!
    THIS.

    I think it's just a way of making themselves feel better because they're uncomfortable. OR They're trying to pull some PUA bs and think informing you that they've got bitches all over their dick in the outside world will make you swoon.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post
    You are wrong in this statement0. (Though probably right in it when talking about the "men" who say this line) Not everyone who enjoys the Strip Club after a long week at work go because we cannot get it somewhere else, going to the strip club is not about "getting pussy" It's about going somewhere to relax from the stresses of daily life, Just because we have pussy waiting at home doesn't mean we cannot take a night out for ourselfs and enjoy the company of beautiful women with no strings attached, we know what we are getting and paying for, what is wrong with that?

    What has this world come to when a man cannot spend a night at a "Gentlemans Club" to smoke,drink and look at half-naked to naked women without being labeled as a loser? (Though really most of us men do not care what you think of us, when we are there of after we leave, we come in, spend money on what we want for a good time and leave with no expectations thereafter, stop the judging please Kaia ) It's not like we go in judging every stripper, now, Do we?





    Suprisingly there are normal men out there who enjoy a night out at the Strip Club

    OMG Who would of thought?



    Yeah, yeah... I know all this Rookie but thank you for your elaborate response

    I just like to say that to the jerk off who says stupid shit like this. However, after reading UV69's reply, I will be using that line from now on

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    LOL
    Kaia I'm sure you do, Just a little drunken rant and rave!

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    I can get it for free, but usually end up having to pay them to shut the fuck up and go make me a sandwich, LOL
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    The easiest way to cope with these guys is to walk away. I know coming from me that sounds completely out of left field, but hear me out.

    These guys are attempting to get a rise out of you. I know they did out of me for YEARS. It used to infuriate me, and a lot of times I'd let their attitude ruin my whole night, because it made me feel completely dehumanized.

    However, if you give them any sort of response other than walking away sans retort, you've let them win. You try and convince them otherwise? Great, they got what they wanted- some time of yours for free, no matter what the conversation topic. You yell at them etc? He's won again- he got a reaction out of you and again, got some of your time. Or in my case, you let them ruin your mood and thus your profit? Ultimate win.

    I know, having lived in LV, that shit is especially aggravating... but truthfully, after they leave, they aren't going to give you a second thought, and after you leave the table, you shouldn't give them one either.

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