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    I have maybe two cool regulars who buy dances from me..but it's getting to that point where they fall for me and want to ask me outside of the club to hang out dinner etc. I have a bf and I really don't Want to hang out with these dudes I just like their money. How can I put it in a nice way that I can't without messin up my money
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    Every custie has an experation date I had one regular who would blow about 1000 a week, but he got tired of teased and if he comes in now he brings multiple friends for reinforcement.

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    Tell him you've been hurt before by someone you thought you trusted and you're not ready to put yourself in that position again just yet.

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    Probably the most important point relates to how much 'false advertising' you may have employed in cultivating these regular customers in the first place, i.e. stated or strongly implied 'promises'. The second most important point probably relates to how 'realistic' these regular customers are about you being a 'stripper' versus an available single girl with a strong compulsion to dance nude for strange men !

    I always found it amazing as to how far into self-delusion some club customers could sink in regard to actually thinking they were building emotional attachments / budding relationships etc. with a girl in a strip club ... and equally amazing how far some dancers would allow those customer self-delusions to progress in an effort to keep collecting the 'easy money'. Similarly, I found it disturbing that a few dancers would actively encourage the formation of such customer self-delusions via implying or actually making 'false promises' of future performance ( i.e. OTC dates, sex etc. ) that the dancers never had any intention of actually 'delivering'. In the latter case, the regular customer involved will eventually attempt to 'collect' on the unfulfilled 'false promises', at which point the s#!t usually hits the proverbial fan. The results can range from a totally understanding 'realistic' customer, to a majorly pissed off but otherwise manageable naive customer, to a dangerous hugely pissed off, emotionally hurt, and revenge minded customer.

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    thanks
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