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    What is with people and that, a lot of people tell me I don't need a breast augmentation or I'm perfectly proportioned. I would rather have people say well you look good now you will look even better after. Idk maybe its just me but it seems like nobody is behind me on getting a boob job and think I should stay natural, I just want to say I'm not a fan of natural! Anyone else had this problem?

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    Ya everyone told me that too... until they saw my new cans and now they all say they cant even remember the old ones and they fit my body great! I knew they would so I wasnt worried about the shit people say.

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    I appreciate the compliments and all but part of me thinks this is just people telling me what they think I want to hear. It's the same scenario when an overweight person says they want to lose weight and people are quick to jump the gun and tell them they are fine the way they are, look great, etc.....I dunno if it's because alot of people feel that it's the appropriate thing to say or what....the pyschology behind it is interesting.

    I'm getting a BA soon and, of course, since I'm excited I've been bringing it up in conversation but I stopped, because comments like this were wearing my patience thin.

    I'm also sick of being told not to go too big. I'll go as big as I damn please and am capable of getting....I'm NOT concerned with looking natural. I have to remind people that they don't know what is going on in my head and expecially what has been going on in my head for the last half of my life practically....when it comes to the choices I am making regarding this surgery.

    Also, girls telling me that not all guys like fake boobs or that *cough* eh hem....NO guys at all like fake boobs....bitch please. You're just afraid I'm going to threaten your money.

    Yeah well not all guys like flat chests either, but alot do....yadda yadda yadda I don't care! I'm not doing this for the male population anyway.

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    If I had a nickel for every time I heard that before I got mine done I could have paid for them with it!

    I know it's annoying, just smile and nod and ignore them!

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    I decided to only tell my best friends and boyfriend because others reactions were so negative. And I decided since I'm gonna do it I'm going big. Now I'm a 36c but when I was fat I was a 38d so I have the extra skin that thank goodness didn't stretch mark or look weird. I fig since when I'm thin I'll go down to 34c and when heavier 36c that I might as well go for dd/f cups. If I'm gonna pay for boobs why pay for "just a little more". I'm trying to get my money's worth so I'm going "you can tell a change has been made big."
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    That is ALL I am hearing from people lately...grrrr!!! Of course I don't NEED one, I fucking WANT one. I texted one of my regulars yesterday and told him he needs to come visit me because I'm going to be out of work for a few weeks. He asked why and I told him. He then tells me, "Well you know how I feel about that so I may come in and visit you but I don't know if I'll ever come back after that." Really?? He's been my regular for 6 years. Oh well. After boobs I will probably have 10 more to replace him.
    I don't care what anyone says. They haven't lived with my flat chest all their lives. They don't understand how frustrating it is to not even fill out an A cup bra or have to squeeze water out of padded bikini tops (discreetly...lol). Your body. Your choice.

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    I've stopped telling people that I'm getting them done due to the negative and insulting reactions but for awhile I started pointing out other people's little fixes to try to put it into perspective when they were being jerks.

    "Ewww, you've had braces. You aren't natural anymore!"
    "Why do you wear glasses/contacts? Aren't you satisfied with the WAY GOD MADE YOU?!"
    "I can't believe you wear makeup. Are you really that shallow?"

    Just about every human being on earth alters their appearance to look the way they want to. I can't understand why boobs are sooooooo different than anything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Really?? He's been my regular for 6 years. Oh well. After boobs I will probably have 10 more to replace him.
    Exactly this. For every 2 men that tell you not to get them done - fake boobs are gross, small breasts are nicer, natural are better, etc etc - you'll find 10 more men who prefer the fakeys (even if they don't realize they're fake - a lot of men don't!).

    Your body, your choice. The people that tell you not to do it are only concerned about you being more competition. Because really - it's YOUR body, no one has any right to tell you what to do with it but yourself. The people who are close to you and love you should know you well enough to know that this is what you really want.

    Sure, you probably look amazing with your real titties right now - but who's to say you won't look even BETTER once you get them big, fake'uns?

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    Seriously ignore the comments or dont tell/ask people for their opinion. When I got my BA, I told a few girls at work and others, only 2 people told me to go for it, the rest said "you are fine - dont got too big - you dont need them - why are you doing this?" Some even said I will look stupid will anything bigger an a B cup, now a DD and they match my hips nicely. I dont look big either, just looks the same with a padded bra on before BA.

    If you want a BA, go for it. Whatever, shape or size you want think about it hard, as it is your body and you will have that look for however many years. But dont ever take the other comments seriously, do what you want. Respect their comments, but do what you want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post

    "Ewww, you've had braces. You aren't natural anymore!"
    "Why do you wear glasses/contacts? Aren't you satisfied with the WAY GOD MADE YOU?!"
    "I can't believe you wear makeup. Are you really that shallow?"

    Just about every human being on earth alters their appearance to look the way they want to. I can't understand why boobs are sooooooo different than anything else.
    Well..... In all fairness none of the things you listed require going under the knife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pure View Post
    Well..... In all fairness none of the things you listed require going under the knife.
    But why is that fair?

    I had braces because my teeth were ugly. They weren't hurting me and it was not a medical problem yet no one has ever judged me harshly for having braces.

    Why is that? Why is having breast implants worse than braces?

    In fairness, I woke up every morning and looked in the mirror and DESPISED myself because of my teeth. I hated the way I looked and hated myself.

    If I told someone that I wanted to get breast implants because I hated my body, they would suggest therapy. But I'm not. I'm a healthy woman who likes herself but would like to have larger breasts. It's no different than piercing my ears or getting a tattoo or buying a new dress. So what if it involves surgery? I'm not having them cut the tits off someone else to give them to me, so it doesn't affect them.

    It really isn't any different. If a person has a small bump in their nose, people will tear down their character for getting it fixed, but if they have a big huge freak show style bump, suddenly it's ok. I'm sick of the double standard.

    Edited to add: You know what's really funny is that my braces DID require surgery. I had to have six teeth cut out of my mouth just to look normal. But I guess that surgery's ok to the asshole general public because I was just striving for average. They only start hating you when you strive for above average.

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    I'm all for big fake boobs! Do what you wanna do, it's your life, not theirs.

    I want a BA, too, and just the other day a guy told me that getting it done would lower my income. RIGHT... I'm sure that some guys don't want a dance from a girl with huge fake boobs, but I'm still going to be the same person afterward with the same hustle and personality. Plus I know I'll be happier with myself and more confident, looking the way I want to look.

    It's such a personal decision, and everyone has their own opinions about plastic surgery. Just follow your gut. Your body is YOURS forever, and you should make it look the way YOU want it to.

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    I love a nice set of titts natural or ba that fits a woman's body & is well shaped, proportioned, and the right size to match the rest. No I am not 1 of those anti ba people or those that will tell a girl you are prefect just the way you r. I hate that song cuz it's such bs.

    Nope I have a very opinionated view of what looks hott & what is not. I also can point out every flaw a plastic surgeon can correct or make more attractive on a woman including myself not becuz I want to pick apart any1, but I have a trained eye that will tell it like it is. I told my bff at work she needed to drop weight, fix her nose, and get a boobjob she did all of it & she makes alot more now plus she is happier with herself image not to mention she is hott shyt always was, but now hotter. Heck i wanna do her now so much more.

    I personally would fix my nose & lift my ass if I had the money in a heartbeat plus I want to lazer all my body hair & whiten my teeth. It's money, but my ba paid for itslf & then some so would all of that in ten folds.

    We don't have jobs in the mall or an office unless it's a sec job. We are strippers not the girls next door unless we are talking Heff's girls. BAs at scs are almost standard if you are not doing a lift or simply blessed with prefect titts.

    It's yr body you do what would make you happy as you are the 1 that has to live with your choices don't let others make it for you either way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    But why is that fair?



    Why is that? Why is having breast implants worse than braces?

    In fairness, I woke up every morning and looked in the mirror and DESPISED myself because of my teeth. I the way I looked and hated myself.

    If I told someone that I wanted to get breast implants because I hated my body, they would suggest therapy. But I'm not. I'm a healthy woman who likes herself but would like to have larger breasts. It's no different than piercing my ears or getting a tattoo or buying a new dress. So what if it involves surgery? e.

    I don't think it's fair. I do think there is a difference between buying a new dress and getting cut open. Im not against implants. I just think that the fact that it's an elective surgery with risks is the reason people tend to Have stronger opinions on it than say getting braces or wearing makeup.

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    ^I think people also have stronger opinions because women especially are jealous. I mean I never really here people objecting to others having nose jobs... But natural women seem to hate the idea of fake boobs, especially ones who already have big boobs. They feel threatened subconsciously.

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    Well I spoke to my friend last night, which is the main one that say I shouldnt /don't need a boob job, and they said they wanted lipo and a tummy tuck. When I said,"well why your perfect the way you are!" She said, "well not everyone cant be as naturally skinny as you, I have had kids." When I said, not everyone can have big boobs and I would rather buy a set, she said it wasn't the same. Maybe I just don't get people or I'm to much behind anyone who gets plastic surgery but this seemed like such a double standard.

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    A lot of things in life are risky. People need to mind their own damn business and focus on themself.

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    Haters just like to hate! Imma roll over em like a gold plated Bradley tank!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aslinn View Post
    Well I spoke to my friend last night, which is the main one that say I shouldnt /don't need a boob job, and they said they wanted lipo and a tummy tuck. When I said,"well why your perfect the way you are!" She said, "well not everyone cant be as naturally skinny as you, I have had kids." When I said, not everyone can have big boobs and I would rather buy a set, she said it wasn't the same. Maybe I just don't get people or I'm to much behind anyone who gets plastic surgery but this seemed like such a double standard.
    She's being a huge hypocrite. The surgery she wants is acceptable because she wants it, while she doesn't want a boob job so that's not acceptable.

    The funny thing is that she could just cut her calories and workout to lose some damn weight without surgery. Having kids does not make it impossible to lose weight.

    So in her world, getting surgery because she's lazy and like to eat cupcakes is totally cool but getting surgery because it's the only possible way to get large breasts is awful. Yeah... that totally makes sense.

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    I often discourage it because it seems like most people who are getting it don't really think it through.
    It's kind of a trendy thing to do right now, honestly... so there are SO MANY women like "Oh yeah, I'm gonna get mine done, too!" Who never really look into it as much as they should.


    It should be noted that I absolutely don't disapprove of plastic surgery... just of people getting it on a whim.
    Although I do think it's a bit depressing how dissatisfied women are with their bodies.
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    ^ +1

    I don't think it's the same as buying a new dress, I don't think that everyone who expresses their opinion is a hater, and if it's brought up in conversation, well then, some people are going to be honest. I'd rather have it that way than having everyone just tell me what I want to hear.

    I've been through this, and yeah it does get old. The only part that really bothers me is when one person stands to represent a whole damn population- all men like this and that, all custies want such and such.

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    Its so crazy because ppl tell you no don't do it about anything self altering be it veneers,cosmetic surgery or going dark to blonde. But when the results improve your appearance those same ppl will tell you how well your new look suits you or brings out this or that. I wanted honest opinions about the likelihood of it enhancing my appeal. Automatically a lot of ppl kept reassuring me that I was beautiful, had a nice body, etc. I didn't mention my cosmetic surgery intent because I needed a self esteem boost. I said it because it's going to happen and I guess I thought I was doing market research. I think when it's all said and done just do what will make you feel and look your sexiest. Only you have to live inside of the body you change.
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    The funny thing is that she could just cut her calories and workout to lose some damn weight without surgery. Having kids does not make it impossible to lose weight
    Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!

    I'm so tired of hearing about it. I swear, I really think some women use it as an excuse to be lazy. Life isn't over after you have kids. Granted, genetics has alot to do with how your body is going to react to childbirth, and I have seen some women who really do need a tummy tuck to rid of excess skin. As far as weight itself though, yes.....it can be taken care of naturally.

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    ^it was hypocritical but she's 20 and its her second kid I know how she feels and if it would make her more confident then sure. I just didn't like she could but I can't. As for altering your appearance, hell if someone told me to rock my natural hair I would say kiss my ass because they don't have too deal with the trouble of tameing it. I have been researching ba's since I was 14,when I was that age people would tell me oh you will develope. I know what my family history is like and I'm sorry my boobs are just going to get smaller there for I would like to have the womanly figure for me because that's what I think is beautiful. Its just like my hair, I look better with long hair and I look better with bigger breast.

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    I though a boob job was a frivolous thing, but now I'm realizing that I really want one; I'm a 36C, but I want them to be 36E. However, I will get them after having babies; I want to breastfeed without any difficulties. Plus, I can also get them reconstructed too (it will be a bit pricey, though); I mean, the babies will probably damage the nipples, so I figured I'd get a nice pair of titties after having babies.





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