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    sometimes i find myself wanting and trying to be "normal" so to speak. i'm the only one of my friends that truly believes in marrying up and the whole gold digging lifestyle. every so often i'll talk to regular average joe blows just to see if i could handle not such a high brow lifestyle. everytime i do i just end up so fricken irritated. i just feel like the men don't have anything, i'm having to dress down to be around them. they just stare at my bmw, like omg your car is so nice. i just get like damn the dude doesn't have sh!t fuk. how many of you guys watch the housewives shows on bravo? i honestly feel that i am just as good as those women if not better and i don't think its out of reach. its just being in the right place at the right time you know. but how do i stay focused....? i do get lonely somtimes..

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    Default Re: gold digging (keeping ur mind on the $)

    you work on earning your own money maybe ?

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    o no girlie i do.. i always work that's never going to stop. but i want a equal partner if not better. i refuse to take care of a man. i can have a child if i want to take care of someone.

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    But you dont think he would think the same way about you? Your not a child yourself...

    Stop looking so damn hard. Sit down, he will find your gold digging ass...lol

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    Are you on the sugar daddy sites? There are endless dates to be had there, and all those guys know what you are in it for from the start.

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    lacy luck: i'm on a few sites and honestly it seems like none of them are in hawaii. the few and when i say few i mean like a total of 4. 2 if not 3 out of 4 are into white girls and the other looking for asian. thas part of the problem with hawaii. black girls creole, latina, middle eastern no matter how pretty they maybe hawaii people for the most part are not open minded. i so would love to move to a place like miami, but at the moment its just not a option. maybe soon if things go rights.

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    Oh Hawaii does put a damper on things. Men with money can fly you out or make up a business trip to come to you, but that is pretty out of the way.

    Miami would be jackpot.

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    I've had a few dates this week from sugardaddyforme.com and I'm loving it!

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    I agree with camwhore, in that he'll find you. I also agree with being clear about what you prefer and taking some effort towards that goal. One of the things that Patty, from Millionaire Matchmaker, said that I like is make a list of 5 non-negotiables. Another thing that may help in staying focused in writing out your life with this man and reading it everyday. Visualization is quite useful, too. As a testimonial, I've had a couple of girlfriends that did the writing it out exercise and they got what they wanted. One of them got scared though and it threw the whole thing off, in terms of experiencing it for the long term...So, I believe it's essential to be intentional and allow it to unfold by trusting. It may take some time, depending on how wide you believe the gap is between you and that experience, but these exercises can help close that up.

    I'm not into being in a romantic relationship right now, but I've used these practices in other areas and I've been recognizing profound improvements
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    You're in HI, you must be doing something right!


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    Whirlerz: lol girl Im from here born and raised. Hawaii is a very over rated. It's nice to vacation, but to live it's highly over priced.

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    Default Re: gold digging (keeping ur mind on the $)

    Yeah, that 8 dollar gallon of milk would have me looking for a SD as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bun View Post
    Yeah, that 8 dollar gallon of milk would have me looking for a SD as well.
    Gosh I just laughed so hard my tummy hurts! LMBO

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    $8 for milk? Well how much is smokes? gahhh damn

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    Yeps 8$ for a gallon of milk sounds about right. Smokes hmm like 125 for a 8th and that's a good deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    But you dont think he would think the same way about you? Your not a child yourself...

    Stop looking so damn hard. Sit down, he will find your gold digging ass...lol
    LOL LOL this was an extremely funny comment!!!!

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    sometimes i find myself wanting and trying to be "normal" so to speak. i'm the only one of my friends that truly believes in marrying up and the whole gold digging lifestyle. every so often i'll talk to regular average joe blows just to see if i could handle not such a high brow lifestyle. everytime i do i just end up so fricken irritated. i just feel like the men don't have anything, i'm having to dress down to be around them. they just stare at my bmw, like omg your car is so nice. i just get like damn the dude doesn't have sh!t fuk. how many of you guys watch the housewives shows on bravo? i honestly feel that i am just as good as those women if not better and i don't think its out of reach. its just being in the right place at the right time you know. but how do i stay focused....? i do get lonely somtimes..
    ^^^you need to be where wealthy guys are; can you model? If you get into modeling meeting those guys will be easier. A lot of wealthy men are married to retired models. I know; I live in SoCal. Also how old are you? out here they like em' young like a 22 yr old would date/ marry a 50+ guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblebutt8o8 View Post
    o no girlie i do.. i always work that's never going to stop. but i want a equal partner if not better. i refuse to take care of a man. i can have a child if i want to take care of someone.

    I agree so much with this!

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    i'm almost 21, 5'10, but i never well i could but i would never feel comfortable being tall and skinny like super model skinny. i have a naturally curvaceous body, which is a more ethnic appeal. i'm 165 at the moment trying to get down to 150 but it'll always have a body similar to a video honey (hip hop model).

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    also with california, from what my friends tell me and i see on tv, it seems like the men are very into blondes skinny skinny bodys with implants. this is why i really be like miami.... i dont know why but i just have a feeling about miami. plus they have a large number of latinos. I love latinos.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblebutt8o8 View Post
    Whirlerz: lol girl Im from here born and raised. Hawaii is a very over rated. It's nice to vacation, but to live it's highly over priced.
    Yep, I know! Just trying to throw a little postive spin on it. I know the cost of living in CA, from my friend, I can imagine over there, since everything has to be flown in. One of the ladies on here Malaya, had a genius comment about SDs saying something like it's kinda like escorting, but for one person, & a lot more trouble.


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    whirlerz: thas exactly correct it is alot more trouble, but if done right it can lead to marriage. now its true the marriage may not last but hell it'll work long enough to stash some $ and collect LOL. but because i'm had a serious SD, i know that they try to be slightly controlling because they feel their taking care of you. i feel that you have savings on top of making sure your always doubling what you ask for from him an just gotta be smart LOL. because his first request is gonna be i don't want you dancing anymore... mofo tryna suck ya in.

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    um i only date poor guys and ive never had to "take care" of anyone. im sorry if youre attracting losers who expect you to pay for everything. maybe look inward and see why losers keep dating you?

    and im hispanic and Hawaiian people think i'm adorable.

    yes men in los angeles love blondes with fake tits because they're brainwashed idiots who need the media to tell them whats attractive and can't think for themselves. i have lived in miami too though and think men are even pickier there. i'm considered pretty in la. i'm ugly in miami.

    "I love latinos. "
    okay now i see why men expect you to take care of them.

    also if you truly want to attract a guy with money who isnt an enormous jackass (just a medium sized jackass) i'd suggest you watch your language and start at least acting like a lady. it's not hard to find a shallow piece of shit rich guy (yes i really dislike rich men,i think theyre all cheating shallow idiots whose only goal in life is to get laid by as many hot young girls as they possibly can) who will date you if you don't act ghetto.

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    i'm mixed/black and my current sugar daddy i found on sugardaddyforme.com

    so far he's given me around 2k and we haven't even met yet! lol

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    lagirl: you sound like my friend shes also latina hawaiian. she too prefers poor guys. lets just say this that i'm by no way ghetto. i have ghetto ways but that just goes with the territory. looking at me one would think i'm on some princess shit LOL. i don't even care i love it. i can be richy richy or ghetto in the flip of a switch. but i never understood why my mother used to tell me not to get involved with poor men. not saying that a man has to uber rich but he has to be able to provide. he needs to have more than i for me to respect him as a man shit at least the same amount but nothing less. until i met her. i love her with all my heart, but i see no point in dating a man who has nothing and then having a child with him. theres times with they can't pay their rent an she'll have to turn tricks. their lil boy is screaming he's hungry the daddy has no money, shes pregnant again an shes half hungry most of the time. i can't and will not live like that. all of that an she stays with him... to each is own but no. as far as me loving latinos LOL i do but i have and will never take care of one of them. i'm creole, boricua, dominicana, pinay. so when they tell me about their struggles and how life is s0o hard i come back with yes baby its even more hard more me. but i find men who i date who have less try to stick there hand in my face (all races). they be like you got a bmw you should be my suga mama haha thas a joke. the rich men i've dated yes they were jerks but i never had to worry about rent, food, shopping, school really anything. i feel like i'ma put up with shit regardless... to some extent. why take it off a broke ass bum, who can't do shit but pop is dick out to say suck it. damn... LOL

    sorry to be labor this but have your ever dated a rich man? i dunno how anyone else feels but i get a rush its like a roller coaster just being able to go out an do whatever i want. not that i always want to shop, but the feeling of walking into any store i mean any, knowing that i can buy whatever it is i want. w0w, knowing that i can put my child (if i had one) in any school that i feel is good enough for him or her, is just mind blowing. so with all of that, plus i truly like being at the yacht clubs, and charity events. the lifestyle just fits me.

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